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Title: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Moonshot on February 19, 2010, 11:38:02 AM
Welcome to CM Discussion Number 32.  This is the official Clay discussion thread at Claymaniacs.com. 

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Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: corbet on February 19, 2010, 01:04:15 PM

      Thank you Michelle.  You really are a treasure!!!

                                           Betty


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: corbet on February 19, 2010, 01:11:40 PM

         Thea,
                     If Chris wants your room I wonder if she needs a roomate?

                   The lady I am travelling with may be interested, she has got an
                    hotel room further out because the Marriott was full, but I think she
                    would like to be closer.

                        Marilyn and I are sharing.

                       Tell your Mother about Shirl. she fought going into assisted living

                       but is as happy as a sand boy now.Wishes she had done it before.

                             Glad you are feeling better.

                                   Betty


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on February 19, 2010, 01:17:08 PM
Irene is coming on the train, & her husband is coming with her. They booked a room at The Sheraton


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on February 19, 2010, 01:38:27 PM
Irene is coming on the train, & her husband is coming with her. They booked a room at The Sheraton

Hi MARLENE!

I just got a PM from Irene and responded to it.   If Irene doesn't want the room, I'll be cancelling my reservation.  Hopefully this will work out for her and her hubby.  Although I've never met Irene, I know she is a sweet and loyal Clay fan and I know she would enjoy hanging out with ya'll.  I hope to meet her myself someday!   :bouncy

I'm very sad about not being able to go, but I have to be realistic with my energy levels and family situation at this point.   I finally went out for about an hour and a half to run a couple of errands, and now I'm totally exhausted.  I need to work on building up my immunity and stamina again. 


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on February 19, 2010, 01:42:56 PM
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Tell your Mother about Shirl. she fought going into assisted living

                       but is as happy as a sand boy now.Wishes she had done it before.
 

BETTY, actually I have mentioned Shirl to my mother several times and she has listened.  I think my mother now knows that things have to change.  Thanks for your kind words of encouragement.  I hope you know how much I admire and respect you as a friend and confidante.  :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on February 19, 2010, 01:52:53 PM
BACK FROM THE HOME INSPECTION AND THE KIDS HAD TO WALK AWAY FROM THE HOUSE.  ALL THE RENOVATIONS WERE DONE INCORRECTLY AND SHODDILY.  NOT WORTH THE AGGRAVATION.  ER IS UPSET.  GABE MORE REALISTIC.  ONWARD AND UPWARD.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on February 19, 2010, 01:59:58 PM
BACK FROM THE HOME INSPECTION AND THE KIDS HAD TO WALK AWAY FROM THE HOUSE.  ALL THE RENOVATIONS WERE DONE INCORRECTLY AND SHODDILY.  NOT WORTH THE AGGRAVATION.  ER IS UPSET.  GABE MORE REALISTIC.  ONWARD AND UPWARD.

GWENN

GWENN,  although I'm sure "the kids" are disappointed, they should thank their lucky stars that the inspector was so honest and forthcoming with the problems.  Nobody needs to buy a money pit.   :para 



Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: IChris1 on February 19, 2010, 02:33:57 PM
Irene is coming on the train, & her husband is coming with her. They booked a room at The Sheraton

Hi MARLENE!

I just got a PM from Irene and responded to it.   If Irene doesn't want the room, I'll be cancelling my reservation.  Hopefully this will work out for her and her hubby.  Although I've never met Irene, I know she is a sweet and loyal Clay fan and I know she would enjoy hanging out with ya'll.  I hope to meet her myself someday!   :bouncy

I'm very sad about not being able to go, but I have to be realistic with my energy levels and family situation at this point.   I finally went out for about an hour and a half to run a couple of errands, and now I'm totally exhausted.  I need to work on building up my immunity and stamina again. 

Thea, please check your PM's as I need more info.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on February 19, 2010, 03:20:24 PM
Irene is coming on the train, & her husband is coming with her. They booked a room at The Sheraton

Hi MARLENE!

I just got a PM from Irene and responded to it.   If Irene doesn't want the room, I'll be cancelling my reservation.  Hopefully this will work out for her and her hubby.  Although I've never met Irene, I know she is a sweet and loyal Clay fan and I know she would enjoy hanging out with ya'll.  I hope to meet her myself someday!   :bouncy

I'm very sad about not being able to go, but I have to be realistic with my energy levels and family situation at this point.   I finally went out for about an hour and a half to run a couple of errands, and now I'm totally exhausted.  I need to work on building up my immunity and stamina again. 

Thea, please check your PM's as I need more info.

Just woke up from a nap, Irene.  Responded to your PM!!!  :smile


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on February 19, 2010, 03:22:42 PM
BACK FROM THE HOME INSPECTION AND THE KIDS HAD TO WALK AWAY FROM THE HOUSE.  ALL THE RENOVATIONS WERE DONE INCORRECTLY AND SHODDILY.  NOT WORTH THE AGGRAVATION.  ER IS UPSET.  GABE MORE REALISTIC.  ONWARD AND UPWARD.

GWENN
Oh, how disappointing for them. At least they found out now, rather than later. Something better awaits.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on February 19, 2010, 03:24:13 PM
                       Tell your Mother about Shirl. she fought going into assisted living

                       but is as happy as a sand boy now.Wishes she had done it before.                           
Happy as a who? :scratch


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on February 19, 2010, 03:44:33 PM
                       Tell your Mother about Shirl. she fought going into assisted living

                       but is as happy as a sand boy now.Wishes she had done it before.                           
Happy as a who? :scratch

Ask any question here and ye shall receive, MS SUNNY!   :bigsmile

http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/as-happy-as-a-sandboy.html


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on February 19, 2010, 03:47:36 PM
Thank ya, Ms. Thea! I stand, enlightened. :clap :thumb :lol


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on February 19, 2010, 03:51:12 PM
Gwenn, Its better that they found out now because they could have been stuck with a lemon.

It was good they had the inspection..Before Roger retired he did a lot of home inspections,an he said you would be surprised that some people would try to pull off in order to sell their house.

I know that you are all disappointed, but the right one is out there ,just waiting to be found.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: corbet on February 19, 2010, 04:26:10 PM

       Thea,

                  Thank you for the explaining the expression of "Happy as a Sand Boy"

                  to Sunny.

                   It"s an expression we use a lot in England.
You can take the girl out of the country but you can"t take the
              country out of the girl!!!

                       Betty


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: corbet on February 19, 2010, 04:31:03 PM
   

       Gwenn,
                    It"s a good thing your "kids" found out about the house. We bought this
           
                      house without knowing about everything. We had quite a lot of things

                       to take care of. There will be more houses for them ,though I know the

                       disappointment is hard.
                                                                                    Betty


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on February 19, 2010, 04:38:58 PM
THANKS, GUYS.  WHAT IS SO AMAZING IS THAT ALL WE HEAR ABOUT IS HOW BAD THE HOUSING MARKET IS.  WELL, NOT WHERE I LIVE.  NOT IN ANY OF THE SURROUNDING TOWNSHIPS.  YOU CAN'T FIND MUCH UNDER $300,000.  IN SOME PARTS OF THIS COUNTRY, IT WOULD BUY A MANSION.  HERE---A SMALL OLDER HOME OR A TOWNHOME.  MY FRIEND'S DAUGHTER HAS BEEN LOOKING FOR OVER 6 MONTHS AND WANTS TO SPEND $350,000.  CAN'T FIND ANYTHING THAT HAS 2 1/2 BATHS AND MORE THAN 1800 SQ. FT.  IT IS REALLY SOMETHING.

BUT I AM GLAD THEY GOT THE HOUSE INSPECTED.  I AM GLAD I PUT THEM IN TOUCH WITH A REPUTABLE REALTOR.  THEY WILL FIND THE RIGHT PLACE.  THEY JUST NEED TO BE A LITTLE MORE PATIENT.  BUT, HEY, I AM NOT ONE TO TALK.  PATIENCE IS NOT MY VIRTUE EITHER. :bigsmile :doh

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: wvclayfan on February 19, 2010, 05:09:43 PM
Sorry to hear they had to walk away from the house, Gwenn. :hugg Glad they had a good inspector though!  :cross They find something they like equally as much in their price range. I also understand what you mean about the market not being down in your area. Morgantown has avoided it as well. It's a thriving community (for the most part) with a 30,000 student university. Randy and I will likely move to the neighboring county when we buy our first home. The same price will get you twice as nice/much of a house (with some land) there.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on February 19, 2010, 05:48:34 PM
Did anyone here try TM today?


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on February 19, 2010, 06:22:28 PM
Just for the fun of it I have been trying TM and have come up with nothing except..side mezzanine and sec L of the balcony...Have they almost sold out or are they waiting closer to the show date to put good tickets up?

I had read on another thread where they hear that brokers had been able to get almost 300 tickets. If thats so thats a daggone shame.

I am thankful that Barbara was able to get us good tickets on the 16th.

Does that also mean that all those tickets that the brokers bought up,if people don't choose to pay their outrageous prices that those seats remain empty? Just wondering.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on February 19, 2010, 08:09:31 PM
I hope not Marlene...

Here's an update...enjoy:

http://www.deccarecords-us.com/artist/media/mediaplayer.aspx?meid=1420&aid=97131


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on February 20, 2010, 04:59:42 AM
EARLY MORNING HELLO.

GOING WITH ER EARLY FOR A DOCTOR'S APPOINTMENT.  GONNA RUN THESE SURGEON'S NAMES BY OUR GP.  THEN COMPANHY LATER.

NOTHING CLAY RIGHT NOW.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on February 20, 2010, 06:49:04 AM
Good Morning~ Its a beautiful day in Raleigh,NC..blue skies & sunshine  and it suppose to be 58 today, and tomorrow 61.
 I'm going to put an order in right now for this weather on March 12th.

Clays VIP Packages are doing very nicely on E-Bay,and the fourth one has been posted :

#1  $8,600.00
#2  $6,200.00
#3  $6,600.00
#4  $6,100.00

You go girls, bring in the money for National Inclusion,and enjoy your Experience too. :bigsmile  I wish it could be me, but unfortunately my" CLay Fund "doesn't include that much. :cry

Starting today I am on a weeks vacation,as Rebecca's school is on winter break,and she & her family left this morning going to Tucson  for a week.

Hope that everyone here has a great weekend.



Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: lovinclay on February 20, 2010, 07:02:50 AM
Thea, having your Mother in a safe environment, which is closer to your home will be a blessing for you.  Right now, I wouldn't mind being in an assisted living facility.  It might be nice having someone taking care of me for a change.   :tired  I hope you're feeling better.

Gwenn, I'm sorry about the house, but it's better they found out now.  They'll find the perfect house for them, I have no doubt.  Actually, my home inspection is tomorrow.  I sure hope all goes well.  I'm finally used to the fact that I'm actually moving.  I would hate for something to go wrong. 

Congratulations to all who got tickets to the PBS taping!  I'll be with you in spirit.   


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on February 20, 2010, 08:22:16 AM
 :wave

Clay's answered some questions at the OFC this morning... :bouncy


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on February 20, 2010, 08:48:30 AM
:wave

Clay's answered some questions at the OFC this morning... :bouncy

Ah, now that's what you call courting the fans! :wink


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on February 20, 2010, 08:59:35 AM
:wave

Clay's answered some questions at the OFC this morning... :bouncy

Ah, now that's what you call courting the fans! :wink

Yup!  :bigsmile

And...I have to chime in with I think Gwenn who recently posted that Sunny, you have had a most interesting set of life experiences...we love reading about them...hint hint... :hugg  :wink


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on February 20, 2010, 09:22:10 AM
I'M BACK.  SO FORTUNATE TO HAVE A GREAT GP.  HE GAVE ME WONDERFUL ADVICE FOR BARRY AND FIXED ER'S EAR.

LOVED CLAY'S ANSWERS.  SOMETIMES I THINK I LIKE "THE MAN" MORE THAN THE VOICE.  HE IS SO BRIGHT.  I LOVE B RIGHT.

SD, PROMO MOST LIKELY STARTING IN MAY.  SWEEPS.  LOVED THE CONAN ANSWER AND THE SIMON ANSWER.I DON'T THINK EVEN swampthing CAN FIND MESS OUT OF THESE ANSWERS.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: wvclayfan on February 20, 2010, 09:24:28 AM
I love the role UNICEF has given him. Such a smart PR plan.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on February 20, 2010, 09:39:31 AM
My goodness Clay was on a roll this morning..He answered 19 questions..I especially liked the one about the train..he is to cute. Also loved the answer to the question about whether there would be banter at the concert on March 12th(post #11340):yay 

 Even if  some of it should be edited out for TV, if you're there that night, you will get to hear it first hand. :bouncy


As of this morning there are 11 signed up for dinner Friday night(the 12th) I changed it early this morning.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claymate27 on February 20, 2010, 10:06:04 AM
He answered my q. :bouncy
 :faint


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on February 20, 2010, 10:52:39 AM
He answered my q. :bouncy
 :faint

 :purpbana :purpbana :purpbana :purpbana :purpbana

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Marilyn on February 20, 2010, 11:18:25 AM
DECCA has the rights to the the show- and any DVD more than likely will contain more show than that which will be on the PBS special!!

WOOO HOOOOOO!!

Hair is "in flux"  :lol :lmao :lmao


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayfannj on February 20, 2010, 12:19:09 PM
I'm hoping this is a "new beginning" and that he will continue to "court" ,engage,"seduce" encourage,reconnect..(or whatever you want to call it)..with the fans and that he doesn't go into hibernation as soon as the taping is over. Gwenn reminded me that the DVD will probably be sold for pledges to PBS.. That is  something I'd like to do..Usually on those drives they have the guest performer speaking to the PBS reps to help with the sale..That would be nice!!!Let's face it, seeing him anywhere is a treat..(Am I easy or what??)

 :cross  for you, Micki!! Hope all goes well without a hitch.

Life will be easier for you, Thea with your mom closer and with the knowledge there is someone always around keeping an eye out for her...  Glad you did it and she agreed....

My daughter and BF are coming over for me to help her sign up for her choice in benefits , retirement plan,etc.for her new job. I thank G-d she got this after searching over 6 mos. post graduation.. She just found out that the Parent company that manages the 3 hospitals was rated as one of the top 100 companies to work for by Forbes magazine. We are both so grateful..We're going out to dinner after...

I'm



Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on February 20, 2010, 12:41:48 PM
Loving the good news I'm reading here...

clayfannj...it's always a relief knowing your loved ones are in solid jobs, isn't it?

Gwenn...here's to Barry finally receiving the procedure he needs to feel better...and I'm sure a wonderful house will show up for ER and her love...as others have said, so much better not to be stuck with house that soaks up every extra dollar and then some...

Thea...I'm sure hopeful that your Mom is settled in a comfortable assisted living situation, close by ...which should alleviate so much of the burden you've had to assume of late...

And to all ready to cheer our sweetheart on...once again I know you'll represent our site proudly...for sure, I hope he starts touring late Spring/early Summer and I finally get to share in the festivities with you...it will so much fun...while memories from that hilarious Asheville concert continue to give me great pleasure...I'm absolutely ready for more...much more!


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on February 20, 2010, 01:28:48 PM
:wave

Clay's answered some questions at the OFC this morning... :bouncy

Ah, now that's what you call courting the fans! :wink

Yup!  :bigsmile

And...I have to chime in with I think Gwenn who recently posted that Sunny, you have had a most interesting set of life experiences...we love reading about them...hint hint... :hugg  :wink

Aw, you guys! :blush :lol  Yeah, I've gotten to do some cool stuff, like dance in a presidential inaugural and direct live tv. Not something really important, like saving lives or creating world peace, but I've definitely had some fun times. :bigsmile


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on February 20, 2010, 01:31:53 PM
I'm hoping this is a "new beginning" and that he will continue to "court" ,engage,"seduce" encourage,reconnect..(or whatever you want to call it)..with the fans and that he doesn't go into hibernation as soon as the taping is over.
I just have a feeling that's exactly what he's going to do. I think his "peeps" have told him to get back online and stir up excitement for the March 12 show. After that, I think he'll lay low again until tour tickets go on sale.

Cynical, no? :shrug


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on February 20, 2010, 01:33:49 PM
Such a tease... :bouncy :bouncy :lol  now that you've whetted our appetites  :bigsmile ...details, pretty please?...ah...I think somewhere I surmised you have a few youngsters to nurture...so, we'll try to be patient and wait for when you have time to post them...  :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on February 20, 2010, 01:49:35 PM
What I have is a very bouncy, 80-lb. Lab puppy who thinks she's still 15 lbs. and lap-sized. Want her?? :bouncy


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Glory on February 20, 2010, 02:08:31 PM



                                    BUT I BET SUNNY NEVER LIVED ON THE NAVAJO INDIAN RESERVATION. :lol I DID FOR 12 YEARS, :lmao


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on February 20, 2010, 02:13:36 PM

                                    BUT I BET SUNNY NEVER LIVED ON THE NAVAJO INDIAN RESERVATION. :lol I DID FOR 12 YEARS, :lmao
Now, that's cool. :bigsmile


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Marilyn on February 20, 2010, 02:23:13 PM
WOW!! Sunny and Glory, you have done neat stuff.

Me, totally boring. Although.........

I got another email on that dating site- a guy from upstate NY- a LONG way away from me.  I am posting the email because it is anonymous, so I should be ok- but this is hysterical:

Quote
Hi, my name is ---- you are very beautiful! I would love to talk and get to know you, I am a single, white man with brown hair and green eyes about 190 5"11 good shape, 39 years old. I have a foot fetish and would love to massage and pamper your feet, I am really good at foot massages. I am a nice guy and would love to be submissive to you, I would love to learn to give you pedicures, do your housework, any chores!


So I replied that he lived way far away and was definitely too young for me. That did not deter him ( I think my beauty overwhelmed him  :lmao )


Quote
Hi, you are so beautiful I dont mind traveling to be at your feet, you are so sexy I would love to be submissive to you, I am really good at housework, will do any chore, I would love to call you or give you my#?

So I asked him not to email me again.  I dont have the patience for boy toys, unless they are 31, have a great voice, and eyes that melt my soul   :thud  Orientation is not a prerequisite  :lol


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Glory on February 20, 2010, 03:38:47 PM



                               YEP MY HUBBY WAS A MATH TEACHER VERY SMART, WE LIVED ON THE RESERVATION FOR 5 YEARS THEN BUILT A HOME IN TOWN BUT HE DROVE EVERYDAYTO WORK HE ALSO TAUGHT AT THE UNIVERSITY OF NEW MEXICO FOR 11 YEARS. HE WON TEACHER OF THE YEAR FOR THE FOUR CORNERS AREA WHICH INCLUDED NEW MEXICO ,ARIZONA, UTAH,COLARADO, THEN HE GOT SICK MENTALLY AND THAT WAS THAT. NOT FUN. ESPECIALLY WHEN HE USED ME AS HIS PUNCHING BAG, SO I LEFT WITH THE CLOTHES ON OUR BACKS,AND 3 KIDS AND STARTED OVER.

                        I LIVED IN ARKANSAS, OKLAHOMA, TEXAS , INDIANA,  MICH, KY


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on February 20, 2010, 04:41:48 PM



                               YEP MY HUBBY WAS A MATH TEACHER VERY SMART, WE LIVED ON THE RESERVATION FOR 5 YEARS THEN BUILT A HOME IN TOWN BUT HE DROVE EVERYDAYTO WORK HE ALSO TAUGHT AT THE UNIVERSITY OF NEW MEXICO FOR 11 YEARS. HE WON TEACHER OF THE YEAR FOR THE FOUR CORNERS AREA WHICH INCLUDED NEW MEXICO ,ARIZONA, UTAH,COLARADO, THEN HE GOT SICK MENTALLY AND THAT WAS THAT. NOT FUN. ESPECIALLY WHEN HE USED ME AS HIS PUNCHING BAG, SO I LEFT WITH THE CLOTHES ON OUR BACKS,AND 3 KIDS AND STARTED OVER.

                        I LIVED IN ARKANSAS, OKLAHOMA, TEXAS , INDIANA,  MICH, KY

Good heavens Glory...and I'm betting that that is just for starters, huh...I think you've got a life story to share my friend...as in a book...I'm serious...!  I was about to ask if you knew anyone who'd write it...but, it needs to be written in your voice...wow...just wow...  :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on February 20, 2010, 04:45:35 PM
Dang, Glory. That is an interesting life!


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on February 20, 2010, 05:05:08 PM
 :wave CM'ers. .  Had an early appointment at 9 this morning and then came home.   I've been sleeping on and off all day.  I'm hoping to completely shake this bug by Monday, but whatever.  :hypno

MARION, I couldn't be happier for you and your beautiful daughter for the wonderful job she landed after months of sheer grit and tenacity.  :clap :bouncy  Best of all, it sounds as if she has a job that is worthy of her talents and "people skills".  She made a huge impression on me when I met her way back when at Musikfest.  I also remember meeting GWENN'S ER briefly and thinking what a beautiful and spirited young lady she is!   Wow, that seems like a lifetime ago, doesn't it?

Speaking of "lifetime", it sounds as if GLORY's story has all of the makings of a Lifetime movie!  Yikes, you lived for 12 years on a Navajo reservation and then dealt with so much more when you all left???/

MICKI, I wish you could find a nice assisted living facility, as well.  I must say, though, they are ridiculously expensive.  The ones we are looking at for my mother are in the $3000 to $4000 per month range.  She has finally agreed to spend down her life savings towards living there;  in a few years unfortunately she will have to go to a Medicaid assisted living facility once her assets have been depleted or we may have to kick in with our own funds;  it's just too early to tell.   The good news is that there is a brand new Medicaid facility not far from our home.   It's actually quite nice.    

Maybe I didn't explain my situation clearly (which definitely won't be a first!  :para  :lol ).   Phil and I are in the process of checking out the facilities in the area.  We will then narrow the choices down to 2 or 3 so as not to overwhelm her.  Then we will  pick her up across the state and bring her back to stay with us until she finally makes a decision.   Hopefully that will happen in the next 2 or 3 weeks.  However, the actual move probably won't take place until mid-summer, as her apt. lease isn't up until then.   (  :please don't let it interfere with my summer Clay-trecking).

Anyway, thanks to those of you who have allowed me to post about this here on CM.  It really helps me to put my frustrations and fears into words.   :ghug2  

I had the pleasure of talking to BETTY on this phone today, and I'm so happy she has now has all of her reservations and travel arrangements intact.  What a delightful and spunky lady!!!  :hugg

JOHANNA, how's your counseling job going?

SUNNY, I'm a cynical person too....I do think Clay will probably go "incommunicado" for a brief period after the PBS taping, but then I think there's going to be more Clay "action" than we can deal with at least for a while!!!!  :slick

Need to rest a bit again.  Have a good evening!  



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Post by: Glory on February 20, 2010, 05:33:55 PM



                            WE CAME TO INDIANA TO MY FOLKS HE FOLLOWED ME,GOT A RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINST HIM HE PAID NO ATTENTION TO IT WENT TO THE KIDS SCHOOL THE PRINCIPAL CALLED THE COPS SEVERAL TIMES  AND HE WAS REMOVED,. HE TRIED TO KIDNAP BECCA HE WAS PUT IN JAIL SEVERAL TIMES, WE HAD TO GO TO COURT 2 OR 3 TIMES ONCE HE WAS BROUGHT INTO THE COURT WITH HIS HAND CUFFED AND FEET IN SCAKLES, THEN HE TOOK ME TO COURT FOR CUSTODY THE JUDGE TOLD HIM NO, HE FOLLOWED THE JUDGE TO HIS OFFICE AND SCREAMED AT HIM HE WAS ARRESTED AGAIN.

                                 THEN HE LEFT INDIANA ENDED UP IN JAIL IN OKLAHOMA, WE TRIED TO HELP HIM GET ON MEDS HE DID OK WHILE ON THEM  BUT WOULD NOT STAY ON THEM. ENDED UP ON SKID ROW , FROM TEACHER OF THE YEAR TO SKID ROW. QUITE A DEMISE. THATS JUST THE TIP OF THE ICEBERG LADIES, HE PASSED AWAY IN 2005 HAD A MASSIVE HEART ATTACK. SAD THING THE KIDS WERE NOT TO SAD, NOR WAS I HAD HE LIVED HE WOULD HAVE CONTINUED TO CAUSE CHAOS IN OUR LIVES.

                              HE WAS THE SWEETEST MAN ALIVE WHEN WE MET TURNED INTO A MONSTER . I LOVED HIM AND HATED HIM. ITS A WONDER MY KIDS TURNED OUT AS WELL AS THEY DID.BUT I WAS DETERMINED, :lol


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Post by: clayharmony on February 20, 2010, 05:37:31 PM
Holy moly Glory...edited for a public forum...that is just unbelievable!  Oh mighty one is a well earned title for you, IMO.  Hope this isn't too invasive...by chance was he bipolar?


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Post by: mimi on February 20, 2010, 05:38:51 PM
Marilyn~ I believe you could have just told the guy you had a bad case of Athlete's Feet..that might have been a turn off :lol

Glory, Goodness you wear me out. What a life...worthy of a good book.

Thea~ Best of luck with your Mom.She is lucky to have a loving & caring daughter.


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Post by: clayfannj on February 20, 2010, 05:40:15 PM
What a saga, Glory!!.. You certainly are a survivor and a courageous woman.. My hat is off to you..!!


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Post by: clayharmony on February 20, 2010, 05:52:37 PM
Marilyn~ I believe you could have just told the guy you had a bad case of Athlete's Feet..that might have been a turn off :lol

Glory, Goodness you wear me out. What a life...worthy of a good book.

Thea~ Best of luck with your Mom.She is lucky to have a loving & caring daughter.

Good one!!  :lmao


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Post by: Glory on February 20, 2010, 06:03:57 PM


                            NO JOHANNA HE WAS SCIZOPHERNIC.


                                  MARILYN YOU SHOULD HAVE TOLD HIM  NEVER MIND :lmao :lmao


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Post by: clayharmony on February 20, 2010, 06:09:37 PM


                            NO JOHANNA HE WAS SCIZOPHERNIC.


                                  MARILYN YOU SHOULD HAVE TOLD HIM  NEVER MIND :lmao :lmao

What a tragic illness that is...


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Post by: claydevotee on February 20, 2010, 06:16:43 PM
GLORY, schizophrenia is a horrifying illness.  We have some friends whose son suddenly developed schizophrenia in his junior year at. college.  He had such a brilliant future and all of a sudden he was debiliated by his delusions and paranoia.   Plus the medication is even more debilitating.  It must have been very tough raising kids under those circumstances. 

MARLENE.  :hugg  Thank you, but I'm doing what I have to do.  Life can sure throw us a lot of curves, can't it?   

MARILYN, I meant to post earlier .  Stay away from men with foot fetishes.  That's my advice for the day.   :para







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Post by: Sundancer on February 20, 2010, 06:17:23 PM
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ITS A WONDER MY KIDS TURNED OUT AS WELL AS THEY DID.BUT I WAS DETERMINED, :lol
Glory, you must be their hero! You are mine. :hugg


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Post by: mimi on February 20, 2010, 07:14:54 PM
Thea~ Some children do not seem to care that much for their aging parents. If I would have to depend on my son,(if anything would happen to Roger) heaven knows what will happen to me..Thats why I miss my daughter so much,she was such a loving & caring person. Not saying my son doesn't care ,but he is just different than Dawn in his thinking.

Glory ~Your life has been a full one, & it is amazing what all you have been through. You did a wonderful  job raising your children under such terrible & stressful times,and I know they are proud you are their Mother.


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Post by: claydevotee on February 20, 2010, 07:47:36 PM
MARLENE, thank you. I really needed to hear that this evening.   :hugg  And I can't imagine the emptiness you feel having lost your daughter.  Please check your PM's. 


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Post by: GWENN on February 21, 2010, 05:23:46 AM
I GOT UP THIS MORNING TO SOME AMAZING STORIES.

MARILYN----EEEEWWWW.  THIS DUDE NEEDS TO BE GONE.  BUT DON'T GIVE UP.

THEA---WENT THROUGH WHAT YOU ARE DOING WITH MY PARENTS.  THEY WERE VERY STUBBORN.  WHEN MY MOM PASSED, I JUST HAD TO TELL MY DAD WHAT HE NEEDED TO DO.  THANK GOD JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES HAD A WONDERFUL PLACE WHERE HE LIVED FOR A WHILE.  RIGHT AFTER WE MOVED HIM IN, HE STARTED HAVING MINI STROKES AND NEEDED A COMPANION 12 HOURS A DAY.  SO, EVEN THOUGH JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES HAD THIS PLACE SUBSIDIZED, IT ENDED UP COSTING PLENTY WITH THE COMPANION.  DRAINED ALL THEIR MONEY.  BUT I FELT IT WAS HIS AND IT KEPT HIM OUT OF A NURSING FACILITY UNTIL THE LAST YEAR OF HIS LIFE.  WE STILL KEPT THE COMPANION SO WE WERE SURE HE GOT GOOD CARE.  THEN, AT THE END, MEDICAID KICKED IN WHEN HE HAD NOTHING LEFT.  BUT  WE TRIED TO KEEP HIS DIGNITY UNTIL THE END.  WE NEVER WORRIED ABOUT INHERITING ANYTHING.  IT WAS HIS MONEY.

GLORY---OMG, DO I ADMIRE YOU.  NOTHING MORE CAN BE SAID.  YOU ARE A VERY STRONG WOMAN AND DID JUST WHAT NEEDED TO BE DONE.  I AM IN AWE OF YOUR STRENGTH.  YOUR KIDS ARE LUCKY TO HAVE A MOM WHO DID WHAT YOU DID.  I FEEL YOU SAVED NOT ONLY YOUR OWN LIFE, BUT THEIRS ALSO. :clap :clap :clap

MARLENE---GOD FORBID YOU NEED YOUR SON'S HELP.  I BET HE WOULD COME THROUGH. :hugg

I HAVE A BUSY DAY.  SEEING A COUPLE OF HOUSES WITH ER.  GABE IS SICK.  OY.  HER FIRST ENCOUNTER WITH A SICK MAN.  THEN I AM BABYSITTING FOR MY NEW GREAT-NIECE WHILE MY NEPHEW HAS A JOB AND HIS WIFE----THE QVC HOST---IS ON TV.  CLAIRE IS 6 1/2 MONTHS OLD.  I WILL BE TIRED LATER.

AS FOR CLAY---I HAVE NEVER HEARD HIM SO EXCITED.  I THINK THIS IS FOR HIM, A HUGE DEAL AND HE WANTS US TO SHARE IN IT.  HE COULD HAVE LET THE COMPANY HANDLE EVERYTHING THEIR WAY.  I BET HE PICKED RALEIGH. ACCORDING TO PINK ARMCHAIR WHO WORKS FOR PBS, THEY USUALLY CONTROL EVERYTHING.  I HOPE THE FANS DO HIM PROUD.  I CANNOT WAIT.

GWENN


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Post by: claydevotee on February 21, 2010, 05:33:38 AM
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THEA---WENT THROUGH WHAT YOU ARE DOING WITH MY PARENTS.  THEY WERE VERY STUBBORN.  WHEN MY MOM PASSED, I JUST HAD TO TELL MY DAD WHAT HE NEEDED TO DO.  THANK GOD JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES HAD A WONDERFUL PLACE WHERE HE LIVED FOR A WHILE.  RIGHT AFTER WE MOVED HIM IN, HE STARTED HAVING MINI STROKES AND NEEDED A COMPANION 12 HOURS A DAY.  SO, EVEN THOUGH JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES HAD THIS PLACE SUBSIDIZED, IT ENDED UP COSTING PLENTY WITH THE COMPANION.  DRAINED ALL THEIR MONEY.  BUT I FELT IT WAS HIS AND IT KEPT HIM OUT OF A NURSING FACILITY UNTIL THE LAST YEAR OF HIS LIFE.  WE STILL KEPT THE COMPANION SO WE WERE SURE HE GOT GOOD CARE.  THEN, AT THE END, MEDICAID KICKED IN WHEN HE HAD NOTHING LEFT.  BUT  WE TRIED TO KEEP HIS DIGNITY UNTIL THE END.  WE NEVER WORRIED ABOUT INHERITING ANYTHING.  IT WAS HIS MONEY.

GWENN, thanks.   :hugg  That's exactly where we are with my mother.  To heck with her money, she scrimped and saved after my father died to preserve her little nestegg, and she is entitled to live graciously in her declining years.  What makes it frustrating is that now my brother/SIL in MD are angry that their inheritance will be dwindling.  They have washed their hands of taking care of my mother, but are chomping at the bit for her money.  Very sad and very hurtful what has happened these past several months.  My only regret is that I don't have the strength and stamina to take her into our home.  I just can't imagine the 24/7 of a woman who is walker-bound and is very, very stubborn.  Even with help, I just can't imagine doing it.   Hence, the need to place her in assisted living.  Sigh.   

You mentioned a Jewish home;  there is also a Greek nursing home about 40 miles from our home, but we have decided against that because of the distance.  It will be important that we are able to supervise her care and spend time with her at least 2-3 times weekly.   I know you understand.   As does MARION, as does MARLENE and a few others here on CM.

I know we're only supposed to talk about Clay here,  so thanks for listening.

You all will have such a wonderful time meeting up once again in Raleigh.  And need I remind everybody that even after all of these years, CLAY IS HOT?  (tm GWENN). 



 


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Post by: Sasha on February 21, 2010, 06:11:03 AM
Thea:  that's to bad about your  brother/Sil, your mom wells being is worth more and living in a good place. :hugg


Just came over to congratulate on everyone getting tickets, wish I could have  I will just wait for tour. have a good day everyon.


Sasha


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Post by: clayharmony on February 21, 2010, 08:35:12 AM
Thea...my heart goes out to you, too...it reminds me of the grief my family went through...we felt like my Dad's second wife in essence hijacked him...shortly after she married him...we were never to be alone in his presence after that. She clung to him...in every way possible...physically and emotionally. We never had a moment of privacy with him...and then when he had his stroke, we wanted him near us to also see to his needs...no go...not a chance.  As difficult as it is to assist our loved ones in their declining years, it is utterly painful to be shut out of the oh so important 'goodbyes'...so while my tale is not similar to yours...we do share the pain...the pain of difficult decisions, and difficult circumstances regarding relatives who pose obstacles rather than support.  I hope you'll be able to settle your Mom, swiftly.

And Marlene, my cousin lost her daughter as well...there's no way to understand a loss like that...I do know that my cousin has gone on to leadership in a group called 'Compassionate Friends' an outreach to those who endure untimely passing of children. It has been a significant help in her coping in the ensuing years. 

I wish I loved closer to you all...so instead of direct hugs, cyber hugs will have to do...until we meet up to celebrate our friendships and EEEE together over our dear Clay.  And...I loved it when he called us his dears...I think as this event comes closer, it becomes more obvious to us, once again, the close bonds that exist in the Clay Nation with each other and our sweetheart.


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Post by: GWENN on February 21, 2010, 08:57:35 AM
THEA--YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING.  I WAS LUCKY THAT THE PLACE FOR MY DAD WAS ABOUT 1/2 HOUR AWAY.  STILL COULD ONLY GO ONCE A WEEK SINCE WE BOTH WORKED.  YOU DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR MOM.  YOUR BROTHER AND HIS WIFE WILL HAVE TO LIVE.  IT IS ABOUT YOUR MOM AND NOT ABOUT THEM.  IT IS HER MONEY NOT THEIRS.

ER AND I WENT TO SEE THE 2 HOUSES.  ONE WAS JUST AWFUL.  AWFUL.  THE OTHER WAS CUTE.  NEEDED SOME UPDATING, BUT SO WHAT?  IT IS AMAZING HOW BAD SOME PEOPLE'S TASTE IS.  OY.

GWENN


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Post by: mimi on February 21, 2010, 03:14:46 PM
Well I am breaking the silence..Where is everyone?

For those of you coming to Raleigh on the 12th. On Saturday(13th) the downtown area will be closed at 9:00 am for traffic ,due to the St Patrick's Day parade. I'm not sure how long this will be for...
Also don't forget that Daylight Saving starts on Sun.the 14th. So if you have flights on Sunday you may need to make note of that.

At the CV Shelley(CopinginCalif) won the Saturday VIP Package to the dress rehearsal. Some of you may remember her. She use to post over here, but left for the CV after some misunderstanding.  She still stays in contact with Johanna.  Congratulations to her!! Wish it was me.

It was 65 today...Beautiful...lots of sun.


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Post by: Marilyn on February 21, 2010, 07:04:17 PM
I finally got around to moving my old old extra computer upstairs out of my office. Now I only have my work computer and this one I am using. I have so much more ROOM! Love it.


Nothing much on the news front right now- am patiently (HAH!!) waiting for March 12th.

I like the idea of the concert atmosphere. I hope folks will behave though.


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Post by: Marilyn on February 21, 2010, 07:05:28 PM

Also don't forget that Daylight Saving starts on Sun.the 14th. So if you have flights on Sunday you may need to make note of that.


It was 65 today...Beautiful...lots of sun.
WOW!! I didnt think of that.  Will have to make allowances!!


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Post by: GWENN on February 22, 2010, 04:52:38 AM
UP EARLY AGAIN.  THIS WEEKEND WAS VERY EMOTIONAL FOR ME.

FIRST, I MADE THE DECISION TO POSTPONE HAWAII.  BARRY CANNOT MAKE IT.  HE JUST CAN'T.  WE WILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH HIS BACK ISSUES BEFORE ANY TRIP ANYWHERE TOGETHER.  SO, MARCH 12 MEANS EVEN MORE TO ME.  I WAS VERY,VERY SAD ABOUT IT.  A DREAM THAT ALWAYS SEEMS TO BE "POSTPONED."

SECOND, ER AND GABE ARE TOTALLY FRUSTRATED WITH HOUSE HUNTING.  THIS HOUSING ISSUE IS TAXING FOR THEM.  THEY HAD GIVEN NOTICE AT THEIR APARTMENT SO THAT HAD TO BE RESCINDED.  THEIR MIND SET HAS TO CHANGE AND IT IS HARD FOR GABE IN PARTICULAR.

I FEEL SO BAD CAUSE THE ENGAGEMENT IS NOT TOP PRIORITY FOR THEM AND IT SHOULD BE.  I TELL YOU, THEY ARE DOING THINGS  BACKWARD AND IT IS ANNOYING..

BUT THEY ARE WORKING THINGS THROUGH.  I THINK IT IS MAKING THEIR RELATIONSHIP STRONGER.  I UNDERSTAND WHY ER WANTS TO GET A HOUSE.  WHEN BARRY AND I MOVED IN TOGETHER 35 YEARS AGO, IT WAS SIMILAR.  I MOVED IN WITH HIM CAUSE HE HAD A DOG AND MY APARTMENT DIDN'T ALLOW PETS.  I COULD NOT WAIT TO GET A PLACE THAT WAS "OURS."  SAME THING WITH ER AND GABE.  I JUST WISH THE PROCESS WERE EASIER.

SO, SOME PHONE ISSUES AND LATER, SINCE ER HAS A CLIENT, I WILL GO WITH GABE TO SEE A PLACE ER AND I SAW YESTERDAY WHILE GABE LAID IN BED WITH A FEVER.  OMG. 

THEN I BABYSAT MY GREAT-NIECE.  SO CUTE.  SO SWEET.

THERE IT IS.  CLAY, I NEED YA, SWEETIE.

GWENN


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Post by: Pepe on February 22, 2010, 05:23:03 AM
GWENN, I hate for you to be sad!!  :hugg :hugg



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Post by: Sundancer on February 22, 2010, 05:45:30 AM
Gwenn :hugg


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Post by: lovinclay on February 22, 2010, 06:51:46 AM
Gwenn, I think you did the right thing by postponing Hawaii.  Barry needs to come first right now.  Hawaii ain't going no where. 

Glory, I am in awe of you!  You're one super woman!   

Marion, congrats to Carrie....such a sweetie!

I think my home inspection went well.  The inspector was a sweetheart.  And, I love my buyer!  Such a nice man!  I'd say he's in his late 40's, works for the Dept. of Defense.  He told me yesterday that as soon as he walked in my house, he could feel the love I had for it.  It's what made his decision for him.  He'd looked at other places, but the owners were just "blah" about their homes.  He's very excited about moving here, which makes me happy.  I know I'm leaving my house to someone who will love it as much as me.   


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Post by: Moonshot on February 22, 2010, 07:01:36 AM
Gwenn - :hugg

Micki - wonderful news :hugg


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Post by: claydevotee on February 22, 2010, 07:05:58 AM
Good morning!

GWENN, I agree with MICKI that you have made the right decision about postponing Hawaii.  That very lllooooonnnnng plane ride (even if you break it up into segments) can wreak havoc on the back and the legs.   You two WILL be taking that dream vacation sooner than you think.  And I think your biggest supporters in seeing this happen will be your sweet "kids" ER and Gabe.

BTW, how wonderful that you have such a good relationship with your future SIL that he is willing to go house-hunting with you.  He sounds like a "keeper"!!!  :bouncy

MICKI, I'm thrilled to hear that the buyer of your house loves your house as much as you have.  It's a wonderful feeling to know that he will give it the TLC that you did for so many years.  Just think...now you won't have to worry about the upkeep and never-ending problems that come with owning a house.  You can concentrate on YOU.    :hugg :hugg

MARLENE, thanks for the reminder about Daylight Savings Time.  I am really looking forward to it after this long, dark and dreary winter.   :clap

'Feeling better today, so I'm hoping to be productive today for a change.   :hypno :hypno

Have a good one, all!!!!  :wave

 


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Post by: lovinclay on February 22, 2010, 08:11:29 AM
Thanks, Thea.  I do feel so much better about the move.  Now, on to packing!


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Post by: mrs. c. on February 22, 2010, 08:46:54 AM
He told me yesterday that as soon as he walked in my house, he could feel the love I had for it.  It's what made his decision for him.  He'd looked at other places, but the owners were just "blah" about their homes.  He's very excited about moving here, which makes me happy.  I know I'm leaving my house to someone who will love it as much as me.   


Micki, how wonderful :clap
Gwenn, feeling badly for you :hugg


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Post by: GWENN on February 22, 2010, 09:38:31 AM
THANKS EVERYONE.  :ghug   RIGHT NOW I AM FEELING OVERWHELMED.  HAVE A TON OF ERRANDS WITH THIS.  GET THIS----WHEN I CALLED TO MAKE AN APPOINTMENT WITH THE NEUROSURGEON, THEY WANTED THE WRITTEN MRI REPORT BEFORE THEY WILL ALLOW ME TO MAKE AN APPOINTMENT.  DID YOU EVER???????  SO, I SUPPOSE SOMEONE HAS TO SIT HERE ALL THE TIME UNTIL SOMEONE DECIDES TO CALL BACK TO MAKE AN APPOINTMENT.  I NEVER HEARD OF SUCH A THING.  BIG TIME DOCTORS.  ANNOYING.

MICKI-- :clap :clap :clap

THEA--HE IS SWEET.  ER IS DOING WELL.  I AM GONNA TELL HIM LATER THAT I AM NOT GONNA BE AN ANNOYING MIL.  I AM JUST GOING TO KEEP HIM COMPANY.

I CAN GUARANTEE THAT THIS WHOLE THING IS NOT GONNA BE OVER TONIGHT EVEN THOUGH ER WANTS IT TO BE.

GWENN



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Post by: claydevotee on February 22, 2010, 10:19:34 AM
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I AM GONNA TELL HIM LATER THAT I AM NOT GONNA BE AN ANNOYING MIL.  I AM JUST GOING TO KEEP HIM COMPANY.

It's not as easy as one would think..... :lmao :lmao  Good luck!!!!   Remember, when in doubt.... :zip :zip :zip :zip  and  :smile :smile :smile :smile





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Post by: claydevotee on February 22, 2010, 10:38:11 AM
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Thanks, Thea.  I do feel so much better about the move.  Now, on to packing!
 
 

That's wonderful to hear, MICKI!  Now as to the packing.....
 
 :pullhair.  I wish Phil and I lived closer.  We'd definitely come help you.  AFter 8 moves we're getting to be pro's at it. :para  :bigsmile   Hopefullly some of your relatives can help out a bit???


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Post by: corbet on February 22, 2010, 05:15:29 PM

      Gwenn,
                       I"m sorry about your trip to Hawaii but I don"t think Barry could make that
                        long flight. I just turned down a trip to Scotland with my daughter ,because
                        I could"nt sit on a cramped plane for 10 hours. My back would be screaming!!!

                                There will be another time.

                         Losing a chance of a house when you are young is very hard to accept.
                        Somewhere there is a better house waiting for them, I"m sure.

                                                              Betty


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: corbet on February 22, 2010, 05:20:04 PM

      Mickie,,
                   The man who saw the house really fell in love with it.Sending
         
                      you good vibes that all will go well.

                    Selling or buying a house is one big headache and lots of work.

                                          Betty


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Post by: GWENN on February 22, 2010, 05:39:02 PM
WHAT A LONG DAY.  I AM EXHAUSTED. 

I AM FEELING BETTER ABOUT THE TRIP.  ER IS STARTING ON THE JOURNEY OF A NEW LIFE.  THAT IS WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT.  BARRY WILL GET FIXED SOMEHOW.  EVENTUALLY SOME DOCTOR WILL CALL BACK. :bang :bang :bang

TOMORROW IS ANOTHER FUN DAY.  I GET A MAMMOGRAM.  YUCK.

BUT WED. I GO TO NYC TO SEE RACE WITH JAMES SPADER. WITH VISION SEATS.  I AM EXCITED ABOUT THAT. 

WHERE IS EVERYONE?????

GWENN


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Post by: claydevotee on February 22, 2010, 05:56:08 PM
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WHERE IS EVERYONE?????

They're watching the Olympic curling competitions???  :para

We went out to a Mexican place for supper and now are settling into watch "24".  For some crazy reason I still find Kiefer Sutherland to be extremely  :hot2  :bigsmile

GWENN, good luck on your mammogram.  Not fun at all.  Hoping that your results are good.   :hugg

Hey, Clay where are you????    :hypno


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on February 22, 2010, 06:28:19 PM
Here I am, anyway, gals...   :wave :wink

I'm trying to decide on patio furniture for the front of my place...it's a nice large space...in front of the kitchen, I want a table and comfy chairs...and the patio is across the entire front of my house...so to the right, in front of my computer room, I want to place a love seat and some chairs too.  Well, my sis had me stop by the local Bed, Bath and Beyond, to have a look see at a set which costs $300...it includes a loveseat, two chairs, two ottomans, and a coffee table...great price, I think.  It looks OK...nothing fabulous, but not ugly...and cushions are a part of it...which supposedly are weather resistant.  Matching, is a higher than usual round table...not so high as to be one of those where you have to sit in like bar stools...but a bit higher, yes.  And matching chairs...again a little bit higher.  I sat in them...they are very comfortable for this kind of furniture.  This is where I am a bit undecided...yeah the loveseat set is definitely worth the money.  However, I do want the entire front arrangement to match...and I need a table in chairs in front of the kitchen...and that part is not on sale...the table is $100 and each chair is $80...so then I have to think about it all.  Also, I have to check to see if it is OK that the furniture may be a bit higher than the wall framing my patio.  It can be viewed from the street...and there are special rules here about all of that!!

Thea, thank you for asking about my counseling volunteer situation...so far, they've been getting organized with some new counseling interns...they've got two on hand...and it means more labor on hand to complete the various tasks ...and I think sometimes the colleges require that the interns do certain things...although with mine, I just designed myself what I'd do to earn the hours...and flew through that phase...(the schools I interned at were more than pleased...) 

So, at this juncture, I'm building goodwill and doing whatever they ask of me...however clerical it might be...I helped compile lists of failing freshman...my heavens there were a lot...and then I helped bubble in exams...identifying coding...and today, I help create an excell file of data for the PEL grant submission...it has to be exact...and it is critically important it go in as specified so that students are awarded these monies...on this, my old job...years ago, came in handy...I had to compute numbers all day long...became very speedy using a 10 key pad...can do it by touch...I got this task done so fast, I really surprised the counselor...she was so grateful...I do hope I'm not rewarded with more clerical things...lol...I've also done some editing of a student handbook.  All in all, I'd like to soon have a chance to earn a few dollars each week...I can earn $14,000 a year...and I'd like to do just that...my entertainment/ala Clay fund...yes.

So sorry to read of your postponed Hawaii trip, Gwenn...but it could have been a nightmare, had Barry's back started up on him while over there, huh...it's so difficult to be in pain...and I think more so away from home.  I do hope it can be rescheduled in no time...that Barry's procedure does the trick, for once and for all. Tomorrow, I begin a Mah Jong class...yes...! I'm going to try it out, finally... :bouncy...so many times when you post what you love, here, Gwenn...I find I do too...so based on that, plus my cousin's feeling about the game, I'm certainly looking forward to it.  I'll let you know how it goes.  At the minimum...it's another way to get out of the house, and make more friends.  :clap

Now where is our cutie??


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Post by: claydevotee on February 22, 2010, 07:17:36 PM
JOHANNA, love the sound of your new porch furniture.  I say go for the set if at possible;  otherwise you'll be kicking yourself up the road.  Do you by any chance have access to the wonderful 20% - off coupons they offer?  It's a great way to save money esp. on large purchases and BB&B.  Ask around.  And go to their webiste.  They'll offer you a 20% off coupon just for signing up for their mailing list.

Anyway, if I lived in the gorgeous CA climate, I would be spending 1/2 of my day just sitting on my front porch!!!   However, here in Illlinois if we get 3 months to do that we're doing well! 

So glad to hear about your counseling activities.  I hope they will eventually recognize your many talents and hire you on permanently. I think the idea of "building goodwill" is the first step in getting hired on either part-time or hopefully full-time eventualy.   I'm pulling for you!   :hugg

Off to bed early.  Routine oncologist appointment tomorrow.  Hate the blood draws, esp. when they end up drawing it from the back of hand since the rest of my veins are so crummy. It's either that or my foot these days unless I get a really good phlebotomist.  Ouch!   







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Post by: Glory on February 23, 2010, 04:39:16 AM



                                      JOHANNA I AM LOOKING FOR DECK FURNITURE I HAVE A DOUBLE DECK ON BACK. NEED THE SAME AS YOU. PLUS A BBQ GRILL.AT LEAST MINE IS IN THE BACK. I FOUND A SET LAST YEAR WITH GORGEOUS COLORS BUT DID NOT GET IT I AM KICKING ME.BUT WE HAD SO MUCH RAIN AND YUCKY WEATHER THAT IT WAS NOT REALLY WORTH IT. BUT I AM STILL KICKING MMYSELF ANYWAY.


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Post by: GWENN on February 23, 2010, 05:27:40 AM
MORNING--

YUCKY OUT FOR A CHANGE.  TAKING THE BUS TO CENTER CITY FOR MY MAMMO.  GLAD WHEN IT IS OVER.

JOHANNA---BARRY TAUGHT ME YEARS AGO THAT SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO GREED BUY BECAUSE YOU WILL REGRET IT LATER. ESPECIALLY WITH FURNITURE.  AS LONG AS YOU DON'T OVER DO IT, I THINK THAT IS THE WAY TO GO.  LOOK AT GLORY.  :bigsmile

I AM GETTING MY HEAD TOGETHER.  I AM PRAYING FOR BARRY AND ER AND GABE.  SOME HOT REDHEAD ONCE SAID---IN THE END IT ALL WORKS OUT.   :wink

GWENN


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Post by: clayharmony on February 23, 2010, 06:45:48 AM
Thanks folks for your thoughts...they really help...as always... :hugg ...I'm off to the gyn again, back to my old area...for a followup to the yuck...oh such fun...and I guess to withdraw some moola...EEE for patio furniture...now on to see how to get it assembled/home...the store did say they'd assemble it for me, for free...maybe I can also get them to drive it over to my place... :clap  .as in Hope Springs Eternal...it's a large sale...what the hey...and I live just a few streets over... :smile


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Post by: GWENN on February 23, 2010, 12:05:26 PM
GOOD LORD.  I HAVE BEEN IN TOWN AND BACK.  HAD MY MAMMO.  DID SOME ERRANDS AND NO ONE POSTED??????????  GEEZ.

BARRY HAS AN APPOINTMENT WITH A BIG TIME NEUROSURGEON NEXT WEEK.  OUR GP TOLD US TO GO TO HIM.  HE IS AT A BIG TIME HOSPITAL.  I FEEL LIKE THE GERBIL WHEEL IS GOING A LITTLE SLOWER.

GWENN


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Post by: clayharmony on February 23, 2010, 12:27:51 PM
I bought the furniture...holy moly...big ticket purchases are new for me...I think my guests will be comfy...now  of course that means you all here...as in the standing invite when Clay comes back to CA...or not...you are still welcome!!

I think we're all gearing up for the big events...yes, indeed...

Gwenn, glad Barry will be treated by a serious expert... :hugg  off to my first Mah Jong time... :bigsmile


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Post by: GWENN on February 23, 2010, 12:50:09 PM
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From the International Media Facebook page:

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International Media

CLAY AIKEN will hit the stage for a special one-night-only concert at the Memorial Auditorium in his hometown of Raleigh, NC on Friday, March 12! The performer extraordinaire is gearing up for the release of his new album, “Tried & True.” The concert will be taped for a television special produced by International Media.

AND

$36,500 FOR THE NIP FROM THE VIP PACKAGES.   :clap :purpbana :bigsmile

GWENN


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Post by: claydevotee on February 23, 2010, 03:04:16 PM
Been out most of the day.  Went to oncologist for my routine 6 month check-up.  Bloodwork turned out fairly normal, except for one funky number.  Dr. will keep an eye on it.  Palpation check is fine.  Always good news.

GWENN, when do you get your mammo results???  Hoping you get good news.  :hugg

JOHANNA, I'm really excited for you about your new porch furniture!   :bouncy Is it wicker with cushions?  We have that both on our front porch (just 2 chairs and a little table)  and our deck in the back ( love seat, 2 chairs, an end table and a coffee table.) I'm thinking also of buying an outdoor area rug for the deck to tie it all together.  Focusing on spring is so much more pleasant than looking at snow outside.  Can't wait to feel the sun on my back as I plant flowers. 

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From the International Media Facebook page:

International Media

CLAY AIKEN will hit the stage for a special one-night-only concert at the Memorial Auditorium in his hometown of Raleigh, NC on Friday, March 12! The performer extraordinaire is gearing up for the release of his new album, “Tried & True.” The concert will be taped for a television special produced by International Media.

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$36,500 FOR THE NIP FROM THE VIP PACKAGES.     


Hopefully there's more good publicity like this forthcoming.  Thanks for bringing this over to us, GWENN!!


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Post by: corbet on February 23, 2010, 03:43:51 PM

     Thea,
                  Glad to hear you got your 6month check up over and trust

               that everything is well.

               
 
                       I got the rooms at the Marriott all taken care of. Four of us decided to travel

                      by train and arrive there on Thurs. 11th. we have two rooms and want to get a

                     good nights sleep before Friday.  Can"t fall asleep ar Clay"s first PBS  special!!!


                               So excited!!!

                                          Betty :hugg


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Post by: claydevotee on February 23, 2010, 04:04:49 PM
BETTY, I am so excited for you!!!   :Party:  :hugg :hugg :hugg


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Post by: GWENN on February 23, 2010, 04:11:09 PM
OMG, I JUST HEARD WE ARE GETTING WORSE THAN YOU, THEA.  ANOTHER FOOT OR MORE ON THURS. WITH HURRICANE WINDS.  I CANNOT STAND THIS WINTER.  I MEAN, SERIOUSLY, I AM SO OVER THIS.

LOOKING FORWARD TO TOMORROW.  JAMES SPADER IS A CUTIE.  AND I LOVE NYC.  SEEING MY BROTHER BRIEFLY ALSO.

BUT MORE SNOW.  OMG, I AM SOOOOOOO SICK OF THIS.

GWENN


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Post by: clayharmony on February 23, 2010, 05:17:49 PM
Just got back from my 'initiation' into Mah Jong...I LOVE IT!!!  ( :hugg Gwenn) What fun it was...now of course, I have to buy tiles and all...and while I knew one lovely lady, I met four more delightful women...our teacher taught in Illinois for years...harkens from NY.  And...she says 'she bakes'...that is an understatement...the food was fabulous!!!  EEE...and I need to drop pounds...gotta visit the gym we have here... She served red velvet cupcakes...with an amazing sour cream frosting...simply to die for...as good as any and much better, than most bakeries...!

Off in a bit to view AI with my sis...yeah, I still see it...cheer on budding entertainers, at least.  :blush

So good to read of your favorable Dr's report, Thea...and so sorry to hear you CMer's are being bombarded with more snow on the east coast.

My doctor's report...I've got to buy a bathing suit...as in oh no!!!  :doh :icon_eek:...so that I can sit in a jacuzzi...since I'm unable to climb out of a bath tub on my own...how embarrassing... I used to love tub baths once upon a time.  Aging is quite a trip, isn't it?!


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on February 23, 2010, 05:19:24 PM
Good grief -- I just heard we may get more snow tomorrow evening.    My son told me  that they had 12 1/2" of snow in Dallas last week.    I think the country has turned upside down.

I haven't had a lot to say lately but most of you ladies have a lot going on right now.

Gwenn - I am so sorry you had to cancel your Hawaii trip but I think it was a smart move.  Been there, done that with my ex and he couldn't stand the pain until he finally had the surgery done.   Don't worry about your daughter finding the right house.  When it comes along they will know it and everything will all work out.

Glory -  My goodness woman--you are remarkable with everything you have endured in life.  I admire you and now I know why you are the "O Mighty One".

Thea - glad the doctor's visit went well today.  Also, my best wishes that you will find the perfect place for your mother.

Marilyn - Hang in there with the internet dating, just be careful of men that come on that strong right off the bat.

Johanna - Hope you got your furniture and really enjoy it.  If I had a nice patio (and some nice weather) I would spend a lot of time outside in the fresh air. 

Also congratulations on the way the work with the school is working out.  I would love to have a part-time job making that kind of money -- would probably make my decision much easier.

Micki -  I'm so glad you have sold your house and have sold it to someone who will appreciate it like you do.  I wish you the very best in the future because you are a very special woman

To all of you I will see in Raleigh on the 12th -- I can't wait   :bouncy       :bouncy


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Post by: Sundancer on February 23, 2010, 05:25:41 PM
Good grief -- I just heard we may get more snow tomorrow evening. 
And I was just about to tell Gwenn she should move to Raleigh! :doh


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Post by: mimi on February 23, 2010, 07:25:31 PM
http://bit.ly/be6sBM    This was just posted at the CV


Very interesting.. Clay is a very smart & intelligent man... :heartburst


This was written by a guy from the N&O, that has been less than kind to Clay at times.


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Post by: clayharmony on February 24, 2010, 12:19:15 AM
A blog for your morning read:

http://www.conclayve.blogspot.com/

T
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uesday, February 23, 2010
Tried and True
Tried and True…Tested and proven to be worthy and good
(Merriam Webster)

It has a nice ring to it. It’s one of the phrases that sounds like what it means. It’s also a contradiction in the feel of its sound. Kind of hard and soft at the same time.

Clay Aiken has announced that his upcoming album will be a collection of songs from the 50’s and 60’s. The songs like the album title are tried and true. To some people they are classics, to others “oldies” with memories. But to some, they will be new. In fact, thanks to the touch of Chris Walden, we may just be in for an audio version of “everything old is new again”.

While my preference is for original music, I’m intrigued by what Clay and his collaborators can do with this music. He seems to be involved in every aspect of the album and on his last cover album, the song that had the most Clay influence was Broken Wings. And he made it completely new. I would expect that some songs will have a traditional arrangement but Clay has hinted that some of the arrangements are the most incredible he’s ever heard.

And if that wasn’t enough to whet the appetite, the album is being previewed next month at a onetime only concert that will be taped for airing on national television, likely in the second quarter. In my wish list blog to Decca a few months ago, that type of promotion was right at the top. I can hardly wait for the general public to see Clay in his natural element. Capturing your senses with his voice in one minute and tickling your funny bone with the next breath. Most of the audience that discovered him on Idol knows he is a great singer but only those who have seen him in concert know of his frighteningly quick wit.

The concert is being filmed in Raleigh, NC. I wasn’t planning on going but there’s something about Clay’s excitement for this project that sort of compelled me to agree to drive down from New England with some other crazy friends who also got caught up in the sensation of a new beginning. Fans are called it the new Deccade in honor of his new label, Decca Records.

Clay and his team set up a special fanclub presale last week. It was funny to see Clay posting and answering questions during the time leading up to the pre-sale. I don’t think he ever realizes what we go through to get tickets for his shows. He probably doesn't realize that on the day of a Ticketmaster Tango, you wake up early with your heart beating. You review the seating chart and the buying strategy a hundred times. You panic when you momentarily forget your Ticketmaster password. You swear at the screen when the jumbled word requires the Rosetta Stone. (The real one, not the one that Michael Phelps used to learn Chinese.)

You totally freak out when Clique doesn't put your password up on time and you have to get to work. So you back out of your garage while forgetting to put the garage door up.

Not that I've ever done that or anything.

So Clay’s excited, the fans are excited and the label seems excited. The promotion of Tried and True (or TnT as it will likely be affectionately abbreviated) will begin in the late spring. There’s magic in the air this time, not wishful thinking.

Tested and proven to be worthy and good

Seems to me it describes the singer as well as his album.


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Post by: GWENN on February 24, 2010, 04:05:00 AM
MORNING--

UP VERY EARLY CAUSE I AM LEAVING FOR NYC EARLY.  A LOVELY DAY WITH A DEAR FRIEND.  AND A DRINK LATER WITH MY BROTHER.

WHAT A DIFFERENCE A DAY MAKES.  WE HAVE AN APPOINTMENT WITH A TOP NEUROLOGIST FOR NEXT WEEK.  ER AND GABE BID ON A TOWNHOME AND GOT IT.  IT IS 5 MINUTES FROM ME AND NO HOA FEES.  IT IS MORE EXPENSIVE THAN THEY WANTED TO SPEND BUT LOW TAXES AND UTILITIES WILL BE LOW SINCE IT ISN'T A SINGLE HOME.   IT IS  LARGER THAN THE SINGLE THEY WALKED AWAY FROM ---BAD INSPECTION, REMEMBER. AND IN A GOOD LOCATION.  THEY DON'T HAVE TO MOVE EVEN IF THEY HAVE A CHILD. I THINK THEY ARE THRILLED.  I THINK GABE IS A LITTLE NERVOUS CAUSE OF THE PRICE, BUT LIKE EVERYTHING ELSE, IT IS THE MONTHLY EXPENSES THAT COUNT.  THEY BOTH GOT SICK IN NEW ORLEANS.  SO, NOW THAT THE HARD STUFF IS DONE, THEY CAN RELAX FOR A WEEK OR SO.  INSPECTION IS GONNA BE PREDICTABLE.  THE HOUSE NEEDS SOME UPDATING, BUT NOTHING MAJOR.  THEY CAN MOVE IN.  APPLIANCES ARE THERE INCLUDING A WASHER AND DRIER.  THE WEIRD THING IS BARRY'S COUSIN LIVES 5 DOORS DOWN AND WE HAVEN'T SEEN THEM IN AGES. 

SO, I AM OFF TO THE BIG CITY FEELING A LOT LESS LIKE A GERBIL. 

LOVED THE INTERVIEW.  CLAY IS A SMART MAN.  VERY SMART.  SMART IS SEXY TO ME.  I HOPE HE IS RECEIVED WELL.  I WISH JEROME WASN'T NECESSARY, BUT BECAUSE OF swampthing I GUESS CLAY HAS NO CHOICE.  CAN A PERSON JUST DISAPPEAR?

SEE YA MUCH LATER.  AT LEAST IT ISN'T SNOWING -----YET.

GWENN


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Post by: lovinclay on February 24, 2010, 06:37:09 AM
Very interesting interview.  Thanks for bringing that to us, Mimi.

Gwenn, happy for Erica and Gabe.  Do they have a proposed settlement date yet?  A wedding date in mind?  Also, is Lower Merion Twp. where you taught?   Interested in knowing your thoughts on the computer webcam issue.  Good luck with your dr. apt. for Barry. Let him know I'm thinking of him and wishing him well.  Have fun in NYC.....I know you will. 

Barb, thanks for your kind thoughts on the sale of my home.  I'm anxious now to get where I'm going. 

Spring, where are you????  I'm so sick of snow and this winter!!!!! :bang :bang :bang

Johanna, there are a number of devices that can help you in and out of a tub.  Believe me, I know!  There are shower seats so that you can sit while bathing, and even a "leg lifter" to help you to transfer your legs in and out.  I've had a shower seat for a while now, but just found out about the "leg lifter" when my SIL had her knee replacement.  They gave her one in rehab, and she's since given it to me.  Yep, aging sure does suck!   

Off to climb Mt. Everest (the stairs) to shower.  Catch ya'll later. 


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Post by: lovinclay on February 24, 2010, 10:02:59 AM
This is kinda nice.   :bigsmile


http://www.comcast.net/slideshow/music-ultimateidolrankings2009/92/


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Post by: Sundancer on February 24, 2010, 01:28:00 PM
Not bad. Thanks, Micki! :bigsmile


I don't think he needs his bodyguard for this upcoming thing so much in anticipation of  swampthing as for other lunatics who think being gay is a sin or some other nonsense, and might try to get violent. :shrug


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Post by: mimi on February 24, 2010, 06:16:07 PM
Tonight on the local news they showed a picture of Clay ,and talked a little about him speaking at the HRC Carolinas  on Fri, they also said that tickets to the event were still available.
There is a gal (Cotton) from CV that is going ,so there will be some clack.

So far I have still not seen anything mentioned in the N&O about the concert on March 12th.

I wonder how ticket sales are going fo that ?


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Post by: mimi on February 24, 2010, 06:26:45 PM
Try this link:

http://news14.com/triangle-news-30-content/top_stories/

Scroll down to second story (picture of Clay) There is a video.


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Post by: Sundancer on February 24, 2010, 06:31:30 PM
Tonight on the local news they showed a picture of Clay ,and talked a little about him speaking at the HRC Carolinas  on Fri, they also said that tickets to the event were still available.
There is a gal (Cotton) from CV that is going ,so there will be some clack.
Does she live around here, or has she suddenly developed an interest in gay rights issues?


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So far I have still not seen anything mentioned in the N&O about the concert on March 12th.

I wonder how ticket sales are going fo that ?
Check out TicketMaster.com and see what you can pull up. :shrug


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Post by: mimi on February 24, 2010, 06:53:24 PM
My Ex DIL just called me an asked if I read the article on the front page in the N&O today about Clay..Of all days, the paper had laid out in the weather, & was wet so we threw it away.  So I guess there was mention about the upcoming event the HRC(with a picture no less) but still nothing about the concert...Wish they would run a story about that.


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Post by: GWENN on February 24, 2010, 06:58:49 PM
EVENING FOLKS.

I HAD AN AMAZINGLY WONDERFUL DAY IN THE CITY.  OF COURSE IT WAS MISTY AND MY HAIR JUST POOFED UP BUT OTHER THAN THAT IT WAS SO MUCH FUN.

RACE WAS INCREDIBLE.  I LOVE JAMES SPADER BUT THE WHOLE CAST WAS WONDERFUL.  JUST 4 CHARACTERS BUT THE TIME FLEW.  IT WAS OVER IN A FLASH.  SO GOOD.

HAD A GREAT LUNCH.  SAW MY BROTHER.  WALKED MY FEET OFF. 

WAITING FOR THE SNOW.  ANNOYING. 

SUNNY--COTTON FROM CV IS A FAN.  MANY OF THE WOMEN OVER THERE HAVE GONE OUT OF THEIR WAY SINCE CLAY CAME OUT TO GET INVOLVED AND "SPREAD THE WORD."  AS NUTS AS SOME MAY BE, I THINK THERE ARE A GOOD NUMBER OF WOMEN THERE WHO TRULY CARE ABOUT EQUALITY FOR GAY FOLKS.

WELL, I AM TIRED.  I AM GONNA VEG FOR THE REST OF THE NIGHT.  I FORGOT TO TAPE MODERN FAMILY.

GWENN


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Post by: Sundancer on February 24, 2010, 07:03:02 PM
My Ex DIL just called me an asked if I read the article on the front page in the N&O today about Clay..Of all days, the paper had laid out in the weather, & was wet so we threw it away.  So I guess there was mention about the upcoming event the HRC(with a picture no less) but still nothing about the concert...Wish they would run a story about that.
They may do something on it closer to the event. If they cover it now, it's not "news;" it's advertising.


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Post by: Sundancer on February 24, 2010, 07:10:19 PM
SUNNY--COTTON FROM CV IS A FAN.  MANY OF THE WOMEN OVER THERE HAVE GONE OUT OF THEIR WAY SINCE CLAY CAME OUT TO GET INVOLVED AND "SPREAD THE WORD."  AS NUTS AS SOME MAY BE, I THINK THERE ARE A GOOD NUMBER OF WOMEN THERE WHO TRULY CARE ABOUT EQUALITY FOR GAY FOLKS.
That's cool. I'm glad she's genuine, and not another "enthusiastic" nut who shows up at every appearance he makes.


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Post by: GWENN on February 25, 2010, 07:05:21 AM
MORNING--

WELL, HERE WE GO AGAIN.  IT IS SNOWING.  A FOOT IS EXPECTED.  I CANNOT STAND THIS WINTER.  I CANNOT STAND IT.

I AM SURE MAH JONGG WILL BE CANCELED TODAY.  JOHANNA---GLAD YOU ENJOYED IT.   :clap :hugg

SO, I HAVE SOME PAPERWORK TO DO.  SOME STUFF TO GET TOGETHER FOR BARRY'S NEUROSURGEON.  THEN I WILL READ AND DO MY PUZZLE.  I NEED A SLOW DAY.  BUT NOT WITH THIS DISGUSTING SNOW.

FEELING PROUD OF OUR BOY.

GWENN


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Post by: claydevotee on February 25, 2010, 08:47:25 AM
Good morning!

Sorry I've been AWOL the past day or so.  I'm just feeling exhausted mainly from the cold.  After spending the morning on the phone with Dell Computers service department trying to understand a fine gentleman from India,  :hypno ... I got ready to go to the grocery store.  Did "heavy duty" grocery shopping, came home, put away what was necessary in the frig and freezer, then literally collapsed on the sofa for the rest of the day.   Like so many of you, this winter has become unbearable with the cold and snow. 

Anyway, spring can't come soon enough......

I can't believe March 12 is a little more than 2 weeks away.  And two weeks from today our little BETTY will be on the train with her Clay buddies en route to Raleigh!   :clap

Have  a good day, my friends.   :clap Hugs all around.   :ghug

EDIT:  Watched AI Men's NIght...the only two worth a hill of beans are the blond hottie and the hispanic dude who sang last. 



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Post by: Sundancer on February 25, 2010, 09:59:51 AM
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After spending the morning on the phone with Dell Computers service department trying to understand a fine gentleman from India,  :hypno  ...

       :giggle


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Post by: Glory on February 25, 2010, 12:13:16 PM




                                NO KIDDING THEA I USED TO CALL DELL ABOUT STUFF.DECIDED IT WAS NOT WORTH THE AGGREVATION OF ME ASKING HIM TO REPEAT HIMSELF A ZILLION TIMES. BTW I ASKED ONE TIME FOR SOMEONE WHO SPOKE ENGLISH HE SAID WHAT THERE IS NOBODY HERE, THERE IS WHERE OUR JOBS HAVE GONE. :bang


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Post by: corbet on February 25, 2010, 01:32:26 PM

    Thea,
                 Sorry you are not  feeling so good. Long periods of snow and cold weather does have a
                 depressing effect. When we lived in North Dakota the doctor"s had a name for it
"                 N. Dakota blues!!
                 The lady next door commited suicide, It was such a long, long winter of 40% below.
             
                        I"m one of those weird people who likes cold weather but hates the heat.
                     When I drove a Mobile canteen in England during world war 11 I lived  on an
                      Air Base and I would take goodies and coffee  out to the crews before they took
                      off on their nightly raids.
                           No matter how cold it was I went out and waved them off.

                    Yes! Thea I"m ready for Raleigh!!!

                                                          Betty
         


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Post by: clayharmony on February 25, 2010, 03:34:57 PM

    Thea,
                 Sorry you are not  feeling so good. Long periods of snow and cold weather does have a
                 depressing effect. When we lived in North Dakota the doctor"s had a name for it
"                 N. Dakota blues!!
                 The lady next door commited suicide, It was such a long, long winter of 40% below.
             
                        I"m one of those weird people who likes cold weather but hates the heat.
                     When I drove a Mobile canteen in England during world war 11 I lived  on an
                      Air Base and I would take goodies and coffee  out to the crews before they took
                      off on their nightly raids.
                           No matter how cold it was I went out and waved them off.


                    Yes! Thea I"m ready for Raleigh!!!

                                                          Betty
         

What a dear person you are, Betty!  :hugg I am sure that comforted them deeply. Clay fans here sure have big hearts...!

Thea... :hugg to you...there's nothing more aggravating than trying to resolve a computer technical issue to begin with ...and then wading through a thick accent while trying to decipher what to do.  :bang  I had a couple of rounds of that with earthlink...exasperated, I finally said I'd cancel the service unless they sent me on to someone I could understand... :doh :icon_eek:...at which point I was finally speaking to a fellow from their headquarters in Texas.  At the risk of being annoying, may I suggest an upgrade to a Mac...yes...more money initially...but so worth it and the learning curve, too.

Gwenn...just one lesson in a Mah Jong...and I'm so curious as to your secrets of success...from what I can see, one needs to master completely the different yearly combinations...and be on top of things as one option 'morphs' to another...and also, count/memorize played tiles...(my grandpa used to count cards in Pinochle...he was pretty unbeatable...like my brother... :bigsmile) ...what I liked best about the game was that it seems to require real concentration, strategy and has innate complexity...like chess.   :clap

While I was whining to my special friend about 'female problems'  ick...I went on to a fun topic, Clay...she sees us having a chance to see him this summer...woohoo!  (I needed reassurance after giving up seeing him sooner in Raleigh!)

Glory...good luck with the furniture acquisition!...If I'm not buying one thing, it's another... :wink...patio furniture covers...and yes...doctor's orders...a removable shower head...and thanks Micki for your helpful post...I'm visual...I'll need to look up and see a pic of leg lifters...but, I better put the rails in for the one tub I do have here...and then practice getting in and out of it!  Oh joy!!  on that  TMI note... :blush ...adieu!!


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Post by: GWENN on February 25, 2010, 04:36:33 PM
EVENING--

THE SNOW DIDN'T STICK THIS AFTERNOON AT ALL SO WE PLAY MAH J9ONGG.  EACH OF US WON A GAME AND THERE WERE 2 NO ONE WON.  JOHANNA---YOU WILL GET IT.  WHAT YOU SAID IS TRUE.  IT KEEPS YOUR MIND ACTIVE.  IT IS SO MUCH FUN.  YOU REALLY DON'T NEED TO MEMORIZE THE CARD, BUT YOU DO NEED TO REMEMBER WHO PASSED WHAT AND WHO THREW WHAT.  WE USUALLY PLAY 6 OR 7 GAMES.  EAT CAKE AND DRINK COFFEE.  I LOVE IT.

THEA---THIS WINTER HAS MADE IT HARD FOR ANYONE WITH A COLD OR FLU TO GET OVER IT.  SO MUCH DAMPNESS.  SO MUCH GRAYNESS.

MICKI---I ASSUME ALL WENT WELL WITH THE INSPECTION?

BETTY---I ADMIRE YOU.

I UNDERSTAND CLAY IS GETTING A LOT OF POSITIVE PR FOR THIS SPEECH.  LET'S HOPE THE NC STATIONS AND PRESS ARE EQUALLY NICE TO HIM WITH THE CONCERT.  THEY NEED TO PUBLICIZE THE THING.  I UNDERSTAND SCALPERS AND BROKERS GOT MANY OF THE GOOD SEATS.  ANNOYING.

GWENN


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Post by: claydevotee on February 25, 2010, 05:05:46 PM
Sorry about starting the day complaining.   Actually I was complaining more about THE COLD WEATHER and not "my cold"!  :lol  This is the pits, but at least the sun made an appearance today.

GWENN, it's glad to hear you so upbeat again.  You definitely have "hutzpah"! ( I trust that's the correct word for "courage" and "resiliancy"??)  :lol

JOHANNA, I am thinking that my next computer will be a Mac.  I have heard nothing but raves about it.  Since I'm already very comfortable with my I-Phone, I think I'm fairly well prepared for the eventual switch to a Mac.  But actually, once I replace this defective CD Rom Drive (free of charge from Dell, thank you very much!  :clap) I give this particular laptop at least another year. 

I'm happy to hear that you're enjoying yours so much!!!

GLORY, I definitely agree with you about how these tech support jobs should not be outsourced to other countries.  When I think of all of the well-educated engineers my sons' age who can't find work, it makes me even angrier about this situastion.   :bang

MICKI, I may have missed your post about it earlier, but when are you moving out of your current home and into your brother's home?

WILSON BARB, hang in there.  Almost Friday!

Gotta clean up dishes and then sit down to enjoy the Women's Figure Skating Finals.  I'll flip over to AI once ina  while!!!!








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Post by: mimi on February 25, 2010, 07:35:30 PM
Tomorrow is my friend Ruths surgery,to have her leg amputated..I ask for your prayers for her & also her husabnd & two children.

Her surgery is scheduled for 7:30am and she will be in surgery most of the morning.

Ruths husband called and said that after they had admitted Ruth & she was in her room,the nurse came and told them it was going to be necessary to move anoher patient into the room. It turned out to be a 21 yr old woman that had had the very same surgery two weeks ago, as Ruth is having done tomorrow. Ruth has had a chance to talk with this young woman,& she is doing wonderfully. He said it was as if God had sent them an angel.

Thank you so much for your prayers, they are very important.

Marlene :hugg


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Post by: Moonshot on February 25, 2010, 08:27:36 PM
Tomorrow is my friend Ruths surgery,to have her leg amputated..I ask for your prayers for her & also her husabnd & two children.

Her surgery is scheduled for 7:30am and she will be in surgery most of the morning.

Ruths husband called and said that after they had admitted Ruth & she was in her room,the nurse came and told them it was going to be necessary to move anoher patient into the room. It turned out to be a 21 yr old woman that had had the very same surgery two weeks ago, as Ruth is having done tomorrow. Ruth has had a chance to talk with this young woman,& she is doing wonderfully. He said it was as if God had sent them an angel.

Thank you so much for your prayers, they are very important.

Marlene :hugg

I'll be praying. What a blessing she had someone to talk to who has been through the surgery to help allay her fears.


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Post by: corbet on February 26, 2010, 05:29:09 AM

      Mimi,
                    My heart goes out to your friend, she has had to make a very ,very difficult decision.
                    I can"t imagine being faced with that. I"m so glad she has a loving family to care for her
                    and give her support.

                      I pray for her undergoing this traumatic surgeryand a good recovery.

                  It seems she had an angel watching over her, to send this young lady to encourage
                       
                     when she needed it the most.

                              I feel for her family and also for you .
I know how much you
care for her.

                               Betty :hugg


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Post by: Marilyn on February 26, 2010, 05:36:58 AM
I hatesss shoveling. My car doors were frozen. My company is not closed today so I have to go out and shovel the looong driveway, all the path in front of my house, and up to the mailbox. My arm is hurting already.

This is when I miss my sons the most     :lol

mimi- prayers for your friend

Thea- hope you are feeling better


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Post by: claydevotee on February 26, 2010, 07:04:51 AM
Good morning.

 :comfort MARLENE, I can't begin to imagine the sheer terror your friend must be feeling as she face this surgery today.  She will be in my heart and in my prayers today.   May she have the reassurance that she is doing the right thing and the courage to face the insuing challenges of an amputation.  Gosh, the Lord does indeed work in mysterious ways;  He provided an angel to reassure her that there is life after an amputation.  May God bless these very special people.

MARILYN, thank you;  I am definitely feeling better today.  I'm sorry you have to shovel yourself out of this storm.  Thinking of you.  Please drive carefully.  :hugg

Thoughts and prayers go out to all of you in the path of this snowstorm. 

Just think...two weeks from today is the big PBS concert!!!  Savor the anticipation (and all of that good stuff)!   :bigsmile

Have a good one, friends!!!



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Post by: GWENN on February 26, 2010, 08:48:03 AM
WELL, IT SEEMS THE SNOW HAS STOPPED.  I HOPE THAT IS IT FOR NOW.  NOT NEARLY AS MUCH AS WE THOUGHT, BUT ANNOYING.  THE PHONE CIRCUITS ARE NOT WORKING.  ER IS WORKING FROM HOME.  GABE WENT IN.  WE ARE WAITING FOR THE GUY TO COME AND DIG US OUT.  I JUST CANNOT DO IT.

YEP, THEA.  2 WEEKS.  I THINK THE NEXT 2 WEEKS WILL B3E VERY BUSY AROUND HERE.  ER'S HOME INSPECTION IS MONDAY.  BARRY SEES THE SURGEON THURS.  I BET THE SURGEON WILL SEND HIM FOR MORE TESTING, ETC.  I AM HOPING THE SURGERY WILL BE RIGHT AFTER THE CONCERT.  THEN, IF ALL GOES WELL, WE START HOUSE AND WEDDING STUFF AND THE GOOD HAPPENS.  I AMA TRYING TO THINK ALL POSITIVE.

GWENN


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Post by: mimi on February 26, 2010, 01:12:09 PM
I just wanted to update you on my friend Ruth's surgery..They were unable to do the surgery at 7:30 as planned because her blood had gotten so thin so they spent all this morning building her blood up with units of blood & plasma.
They took her to surgery at 1:30, so she is in surgery right now. Please continue to pray for her..Thanks!


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Post by: clayharmony on February 26, 2010, 01:55:31 PM
Certainly will, Mimi...and sending prayers to you as well, as you continue to be there for her...I'm sure she treasures your support, you are a dear, caring and witty person...one can never have too many friends with such precious traits.

May there be positive outcomes for all pending surgeries...and may you folks dealing with a heavy winter receive some relief...

I just sat out at my new bistro table...and it felt like I was ushering in a new aspect to my retirement...being able to wave to my neighbors...and bask in the sunlight.  I've collected the cushions...we're supposed to get another major round of rain tonight...or tomorrow..perhaps even some more snow over here. 

Sending good vibrations to our Clay and his loves...that all will be well for his speaking engagement tomorrow night.  I do admire him so.


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Post by: corbet on February 26, 2010, 01:57:20 PM

       Mimi.,
                       I"m glad they were able to build her blood up enough so they
                       could perform the surgery. She will need an awful lot of care
                        and building up after the surgery

                          I feel so sorry for her as she has a lot to face.

                                                         Betty


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Post by: corbet on February 26, 2010, 02:06:26 PM

     Johanna,
                       How nice to be able to sit at your bistro table out on your patioand enjoy life.

                        It"s going to be a lovely summer, just relax and make the most of it.

                            Clay is going to be very busy for the next few weeks, and enjoying every
                           minute I hope. This is something he has wanted for a long, long time.

                                                          Betty


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Post by: Sundancer on February 26, 2010, 02:07:08 PM
Praying, Marlene. :hugg


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Post by: GWENN on February 26, 2010, 02:07:51 PM
MARLENE--- :bighug :cross :pray

JOHANNA---ENJOY.  IT IS DISGUSTING HERE.

GWENN


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on February 26, 2010, 06:14:54 PM
Marlene - I am praying that Ruth will come through the surgery OK.  She has a very long recovery ahead of her and she will surely value her very caring friends like you.   I wonder if it was just luck that the hospital put a young person going through the same thing in her room or if the doctors and/or nurses were hoping that someone with the same challenges would really have a positive effect on Ruth.  Whatever, I certainly hope it helps.

I hope all of you affected by this terrible weather will be all right and that it will be over soon.  I would like to think that two weeks from tonight would be about 20o warmer here but I really  don't see that happening.  Anyway, it will probably be warmer than that inside   :bigsmile

Johanna, your patio and your new furnitire sound great.  That is the one thing I wish I had here--a little place to sit outside and enjoy the nice weather and read a book.  My son has a nice deck on his house and I enjoy it.

Everyone have a nice weekend and all of you covered in snow, be careful.


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Post by: mimi on February 26, 2010, 06:41:30 PM
Ruth is out of surgery & in the ICU. She was in surgery for 7hrs.

Last night she had 2 units of blood, this morning 4 more units, & 4 of plasma.

The Dr said she did very well in surgery and only lost less than a pint of blood. The tumor was bigger than they had thought but he did remove it all ,along with the hip & leg,and said he checked around and could see no further cancer. He had to remove the biggest majority of her pelvic bone.
She will be in intensive care now for several days, so Moose(her husband) said he was planning to stay until about 10:00pm,then he was going to go home to spend the night. He said it had been a long & exausting day. but that he could definetly feel the prayers.

So thank you all, you are such special & caring gals and I sure appreciate you praying for them during this terrible difficult time. You are each special to me. :bighug


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Post by: corbet on February 26, 2010, 07:00:35 PM

      Mimi,
                 I"m so glad to hear the surgery is over. Seven hours is a long time.
                 
                  Prayers that they were able to remove all the cancer. It"s going
               
                    to be a long ordeal and recovery, she will need all of her loved

                  ones help and support.
             
                                        I did send you a PM.

                                    Good night.

                                           Betty :hugg


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Post by: corbet on February 26, 2010, 07:05:05 PM

       Barb,
                    I"m inclined to agree with you, we can"t hope for much better weather
                     for the 12th.

                        Never mind, the excitement of seeing our Clay will keep us warm!!!

                             Looking forward to seeing you again.

                                                    Betty


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Post by: clayfannj on February 26, 2010, 08:57:01 PM
Marlene, my heart and  prayers go out to your friend. It is overwhelming to try to comprehend what she  has gone through and what she now must face. There is a reason someone like you has been put in her life... 

The snow has finally stopped. We got about a foot..NYC about 20 inches. I have tickets tomorrow for the Shubert  where Memphis is playing. I am going in by bus with 2 friends and expecting an adventure..  Between the 14 deer who have found a SMORGASBOARD on the shrubs on my deck, and the mounds of car high snow the plows have kindly left at the base of my driveway, and the Russian family who live next door, I could swear I've spent this  winter on the TUNDRA of SIBERIA!!   So, tomorrow I take my "SLED" and head north to SHUBERT ALLEY and Junior's!!   CIVILIZATION!!!

                   MUSH!!!!!! :dog :dog :dog :dog :dog


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Post by: GWENN on February 27, 2010, 04:38:44 AM
JUST SAW THIS.  LOVED IT.  FROM CH.

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Pam's House Blend

NC: Raleigh native Clay Aiken to give equality speech at Saturday's HRC Carolinas Gala
Quote:
The visibility of Aiken, who doesn't consider or present himself as an "activist," speaks volumes in a state like NC. We have few statewide rights (we do have hospital visitation parity, and an inclusive anti-bullying bill), but our metro areas are surprisingly fertile and vibrant ground for LGBTs to plant roots and live comfortably out of the closet. And that's what Clay means by slow and steady - we're not going to receive our rights on a fast track; we have to effect change by living our lives out when it is safe to do so. I know it's sometimes hard to explain to those from gay ghettos how things are different here, it's not entirely oppressive, but it's not the Castro by a long shot.

Neighbors and colleagues know and accept their LGBT neighbors because we're everywhere, but you've got a bunch of good old boys in the legislature that are going nowhere fast to give you rights on the books. The change is coming from the many private employers that provide employment benefits and non-discrimination policies. The best way to effect social change is for those who are safe to live life out of the closet. And that's why I do so -- and speak out when I can locally. It's why we need to be visible and visit with our state legislators so they cannot deny we exist. It's why more LGBT people in this state need to step beyond their comfort zones and kick the closet door open.

Too many are too comfortable in the safety of private employers' forward-thinking policies and ignore the many, many fellow LGBTs in this state living in small, bigoted towns who need us to be visible for them. It's all a microcosm of what happens in deep Blue states that forget the battles and lack of basic civil rights in flyover country.

Since Clay Aiken publicly came out relatively recently, and after he already had a high profile, he is now giving North Carolinians -- who saw him as a local boy made good -- a chance to see him through a new prism, as a father, an artist and a human being who is also gay.

When you have ignoramuses like Rep. Virginia Foxx demonizing gay people, she demonizes Clay Aiken. She demonizes me. We're all North Carolina natives with roots here, and we're all human beings. Living out of the closet means something. That in itself is powerful activism in the South, or anywhere LGBTs are politically behind the 8-ball for now.

Good for Clay, good for civil equality goals in North Carolina.

***

SIDE NOTE: I was supposed to be in NYC at a forum on immigration equality, but as you might have noticed, they had a little snowpocalypse and my blogmistress flight of the damned thing kicked in and my plane never left NYC to return to RDU to get me -- it was canceled; but at least I found out before going to the airport.

The good news is I have press credentials to cover the HRC dinner and I'll be able to share some photos and video.

A funny Clay Aiken story - he emailed me a while back, maybe a year ago, saying he was a fan of PHB. We played email tag for a while and never managed to connect to have lunch. One day I'm at work and my cell rings (I almost never answer it at work), I by chance pick it up and it's Clay Aiken on the phone. I recognized his soft polite Southern twang and he said he was calling to apologize about not connecting. Of course this was amusing since I wasn't offended -- the guy probably travels all over for gigs, so I assume he's on the road a lot So anyway, hopefully I'll catch him tomorrow and grab a short interview or finally nail down that lunch date.

MARLENE--GOOD THOUGHTS STILL WITH RUTH.

MARKET TODAY.  NOT MUCH ELSE.  ER TOLD ME LAST NIGHT SHE IS THINKING OF WEARING A RED WEDDING GOWN. :icon_eek: :doh :nixweiss: :icon_rolleyes:

GWENN


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Post by: Sundancer on February 27, 2010, 04:55:42 AM
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ER TOLD ME LAST NIGHT SHE IS THINKING OF WEARING A RED WEDDING GOWN. :icon_eek: :doh :nixweiss: :icon_rolleyes: 
Um... oh. That will be... um... lovely. :para


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Post by: corbet on February 27, 2010, 05:46:44 AM

    GWENN,

                     THANK YOU FOR BRINGING PAM"s ARTICLE OVER.

                    SO BEAUTIFULLY WELL WRITTEN.

                                         BETTY


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Post by: Glory on February 27, 2010, 05:52:32 AM




                                        RED IS THE NEW WHITE :icon_rolleyes: GWENN


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Post by: wvclayfan on February 27, 2010, 07:15:30 AM
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ER TOLD ME LAST NIGHT SHE IS THINKING OF WEARING A RED WEDDING GOWN. :icon_eek: :doh :nixweiss: :icon_rolleyes: 
Um... oh. That will be... um... lovely. :para

I've found that "non-traditional" weddings are becoming more and more popular. Nowhere near the norm, mind you, but definitely more than years ago. I frequent Offbeat Bride (http://offbeatbride.com/) -  a site dedicated to couples who want their weddings to not only be expressions of love and family but who they are as individuals - and am always awed by what people come up with.


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Post by: lovinclay on February 27, 2010, 07:27:50 AM
Quote
ER TOLD ME LAST NIGHT SHE IS THINKING OF WEARING A RED WEDDING GOWN. :icon_eek: :doh :nixweiss: :icon_rolleyes: 
Um... oh. That will be... um... lovely. :para



Oh my!!!   :jaw

I know the new "in" thing is colored shoes.  (My niece is wearing hot pink).  But, I truly never heard of a red wedding dress.  Gwenn, God Bless!  :hugg

Prayers going out for your friend, Marlene.  She has a long recovery road ahead, and will need the support of her family and friends. 

Marion, enjoy your day.   


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Post by: GWENN on February 27, 2010, 08:35:11 AM
I AM NOT GETTING TOO NUTS OVER A RED DRESS.  IT IS 16 MONTHS UNTIL THEY GET MARRIED.   AND, TO BE HONEST, IT IS HER WEDDING AND SHE CAN WEAR WHATEVER SHE LIKES.  IT JUST THREW ME FOR A LOOP.

I READ CLAY WAS ON JIM BRICKMAN TODAY.  I HAVE HEARD THE NAME.  NOT SURE WHO HE IS. :nixweiss:  BUT I THINK HE IS FAMOUS. 

TRIPP IS COMING TO SEE ME AS SOON AS HE GETS UP FROM A NAP.  THEN OFF TO THE MARKET AND A COUPLE ERRANDS.

MARLENE--ANY WORD?

GWENN


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Post by: claydevotee on February 27, 2010, 08:40:00 AM
Quote
The snow has finally stopped. We got about a foot..NYC about 20 inches. I have tickets tomorrow for the Shubert  where Memphis is playing. I am going in by bus with 2 friends and expecting an adventure..  Between the 14 deer who have found a SMORGASBOARD on the shrubs on my deck, and the mounds of car high snow the plows have kindly left at the base of my driveway, and the Russian family who live next door, I could swear I've spent this  winter on the TUNDRA of SIBERIA!!   So, tomorrow I take my "SLED" and head north to SHUBERT ALLEY and Junior's!!   CIVILIZATION!!!

                   MUSH!!!!!!

 :lmao :lmao :lmao MARION, thanks for the laugh.  I so need it this morning.  

Quote
I've found that "non-traditional" weddings are becoming more and more popular. Nowhere near the norm, mind you, but definitely more than years ago. I frequent Offbeat Bride -  a site dedicated to couples who want their weddings to not only be expressions of love and family but who they are as individuals - and am always awed by what people come up with.  


LINDSAY, PHil and I attended a "non-traditional" wedding only 2 weeks ago.  I'm not sure "awed" would describe the reaction of most of the guests!!!  :lol

Quote
ER TOLD ME LAST NIGHT SHE IS THINKING OF WEARING A RED WEDDING GOWN.      


GWENN, is Gabe going to wear kilts????  :para

In light of the above CH post about Clay's activism, I have  a feeling that the predictions that he might someday enter the world of politics (Congressman? Senator?  President?) could come to fruition.  

MICKI, BETTY, et al.    :hugg



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Post by: claydevotee on February 27, 2010, 08:43:30 AM
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I READ CLAY WAS ON JIM BRICKMAN TODAY.  I HAVE HEARD THE NAME.  NOT SURE WHO HE IS.   BUT I THINK HE IS FAMOUS. 


GWENN, Jim Brickman is a "pop" singer/songwriter who has been around for a while.  I believe he wrote some of the songs Clay performed in his demo CD's.  I though I had heard about a riff between Clay and Jim, so hearing that Clay has appeared on his show is a good thing.

MARLENE, Ruth continues to be in my prayers.  Last night before I went to bed I was contemplating the monumental life adjustment she and her family will have to make now that she's had her amputation. 


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Post by: claydevotee on February 27, 2010, 08:45:30 AM
My thoughts and prayers also go out to the people in Chile who just experienced an 8.8 earthquake.  Now the concern is that a tsunami is on it's way to 1/4 of the Pacific Rim nations.  That includes Hawaii...... :para


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Post by: Moonshot on February 27, 2010, 09:48:21 AM
ER TOLD ME LAST NIGHT SHE IS THINKING OF WEARING A RED WEDDING GOWN. :icon_eek: :doh :nixweiss: :icon_rolleyes:

Some cultures have the same reaction about those who wear white gowns.  :smile


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Post by: wvclayfan on February 27, 2010, 11:50:57 AM
LINDSAY, PHil and I attended a "non-traditional" wedding only 2 weeks ago.  I'm not sure "awed" would describe the reaction of most of the guests!!!  :lol

I know that reaction. It's probably similar to the one I got when I said there will be no garter or bouquet toss at our reception. :wink


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Post by: claydevotee on February 27, 2010, 12:20:23 PM
LINDSAY, PHil and I attended a "non-traditional" wedding only 2 weeks ago.  I'm not sure "awed" would describe the reaction of most of the guests!!!  :lol

I know that reaction. It's probably similar to the one I got when I said there will be no garter or bouquet toss at our reception. :wink

LINDSAY, I'm actually with you on the no garter/bouquet toss.  At the wedding we just attended, it seemed absolutely ridiculous when the bride's SON caught the garter.  :para   One of Phil's cousins whispered to us, "Freud would have a lot to say about this"!   :eek

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Some cultures have the same reaction about those who wear white gowns. 

Good point, MICHELLE!  Were you thinking about the Chinese culture?  As I recall they usually wear red dresses, don't they????


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Post by: Moonshot on February 27, 2010, 12:32:55 PM
I know that reaction. It's probably similar to the one I got when I said there will be no garter or bouquet toss at our reception. :wink

I love that you aren't doing them! :bouncy

I really dislike both. When attending a wedding I always hide in the bathroom or outside during the bouquet toss.   :icon_rolleyes:


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Post by: GWENN on February 27, 2010, 12:57:19 PM
BACK FROM  ERRANDS AND THE MARKET.  OMG, I AM SO TIRED.  I DID A MONTH'S WORTH OF SHOPPING TODAY.  I WILL HAVE TO GO AGAIN TOWARDS THE END SINCE PASSOVER IS THEN .  BUT I AM WAITING.  I NEED TO SEE WHEN BARRY'S SURGERY IS.  IF IT IS CLOSE TO PASSOVER, THE BIG DINNER IS OUT AND ONLY A VERY FEW WILL COME.  HE WON'T BE IN THE MOOD AND I WILL BE TIRED.

HAVEN'T GOTTEN TO CNN YET.  WILL TURN IT ON IN A FEW TO SEE WHAT HAPPENED WITH THE EARTHQUAKE AND THE TSUNAMI.  TRAGIC.

GWENN


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Post by: clayharmony on February 27, 2010, 01:36:51 PM
RIP Marie Osmond's son...I hope someday there will no longer be a stigma to seek help with depression...especially for our dear young people...no parent should have to bury his/her child...


Note:  my comment is not specific to her son...she valiantly sought treatment and tried to help him...rather, that it be OK for those so troubled understand it is OK to accept help...so tragic...these recent deaths ...


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Post by: mimi on February 27, 2010, 02:11:28 PM
Good Afternoon,

Ruth had a good night,but she is heavily sedated. The Drs. are going to keep her sedated because they told Moose that when she does start coming around that it is such a big shock to realize that her leg is gone.Even though she knew that they were amputating the leg that the shock that it actually happened is very traumitizing.

The surgeon put the nerves in the leg to sleep,this is basically to do away with fantom pain that occurs sometime after a limb is removed.

Thank you all again for your concern & prayers for her. In the days and weeks to come I am sure she will need many more.

I will let you know when I find out more information from Moose.  Moose has asked Roger & I not to come to the hospital.The hospital is in Durham,(which is about 14 miles from Raleigh)and since Ruth will be in intensive care for several days, only the immediate family is allowed to see her only a few min during different periods in the day.He also said it is a very private time and that he and the children would rather just spend the next few days together.



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Post by: corbet on February 27, 2010, 04:20:29 PM

      Mimi,
                 Thank you for letting us know how Ruth is doing. I can"t imagine being in her position
                 I have spent a lot of time thinking how devastating this must be for her. Thank God she
                   has a loving family and friends, she will need you all.
                       
                          Her recovery and acceptance will be very difficult and will take time.             

                                   Betty :hugg


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Post by: GWENN on February 27, 2010, 04:25:45 PM
MARLENE--- :hugg

GWENN


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Post by: mimi on February 27, 2010, 05:57:54 PM
I hate to keep bothering you all but Moose just called ,and he said ,Ruth is doing really well.
They removed her breathing tube,and also removed one (of two)drainage tubes, she also has an IV. She is also awake and talking a little. They also rolled her over on the side that the leg was removed on, and she was able to tolarate it for a little while.
They may be able to move her into a room tomorrow if she continues to get along well.
Moose also said the Dr said she has done much better than most patients that have had this surgery....It's prayer, I'm certain.
Thank you all again from the bottom of my heart. You are all so special.


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Post by: clayharmony on February 27, 2010, 06:15:26 PM
I hate to keep bothering you all but Moose just called ,and he said ,Ruth is doing really well.
They removed her breathing tube,and also removed one (of two)drainage tubes, she also has an IV. She is also awake and talking a little. They also rolled her over on the side that the leg was removed on, and she was able to tolarate it for a little while.
They may be able to move her into a room tomorrow if she continues to get along well.
Moose also said the Dr said she has done much better than most patients that have had this surgery....It's prayer, I'm certain.
Thank you all again from the bottom of my heart. You are all so special.

Marlene... :hugg  ...we are so glad that your dear friend is making progress...and more than glad to continue our prayers...not only for Ruth, but for you too!  Rather than a bother, it is an honor that you have entrusted us to support you with this.  I am such a believer that close intersections of caring, loving relationships are no accident...that loving Clay and each other is a gift...which deeply enriches us all.


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on February 27, 2010, 06:50:45 PM

Here is part of Clay's speech tonight at the HRC.  It was short and sweet and he got in another dig at the Wake Co. School Board which is certainly making the news everyday.

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From GBB at CH

all men and women are created equal, except for his son, who is brilliant!

"The power of truth and living honestly is very liberating."

"We've been waiting on the laws to change... the time for waiting has passed."

19th Amendment that gave women the right to vote: "It was about damned time."

Civil Rights Legislation: "It was about damned time."

Matthew Shepherd Act: "It was most certainly about damned time


"Like all civil rights movements, our movement is one of fairness, rightousness, decency. Our time is now, and it's about damned time."

From caperkeeper at CV

I think we missed this part.

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Clay took the stage and delivered a heartfelt address with a great deal of humor about his coming out -- on a magazine cover, noting we were probably thinking "It's about damn time."



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Post by: mimi on February 27, 2010, 07:19:56 PM
Barbara I listened on sendspace but didn't hear what Clay said about the school board.
Could you tell us? The applause was so loud I couldn't hear a lot of it.

Reed was with Clay.

In the past few weeks I have been reading all the articles & editorials about the Wake Co. School Board, and you know what, I think Clay got it right the first time. Its like they are trying to keep everything a secret with all their closed door meetings,and then WHAM they hit you with the news of what they are intending to do..A 5 to 4 majority never works well.


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on February 27, 2010, 07:37:16 PM
I have not read what Clay said about the School Board but whatever he said was well deserved.

The Superintendant of Schools has quit because he can't work with them and the owner of the N & O (who criticized Clay for his comments earlier) has come out against doing away with diversity in the school system.  Seems to be a real smart bunch controlling the largest school system in the state.

I read that Scarlett got video of Clay's speech tonight so we will be able to see it soon.


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Post by: mimi on February 27, 2010, 07:45:12 PM
I just hope that the N&O won't be to critical of Clays speech...after all he did say damn (a lot) :bigsmile Everyone seems to forget that Clay is no longer on AI and that he has grown into a man, & is no longer that kid we voted for 7 years ago. :doh


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Post by: clayharmony on February 27, 2010, 08:09:51 PM
I posted this on another board, and I wanted to share it here as well:

What gladden's my heart, is that there is considerably more understanding of the continuum of sexuality today...and I remain hopeful, along with Clay, that far greater acceptance is within reach. And...though I sincerely doubt Clay saw himself as a significant spokesperson for his community...not a role he consciously chose, it, indeed, may 'choose him'...if you will. I believe his speech will be important and illuminating. Sending him, all whom he loves, and his community my prayers as always, but especially for this occasion.

 He is so much the 'measure of a man'...and I thought I loved him plenty back in 2003...it's nothing compare to how I feel about him tonight. I have always believed he had a special destiny to fulfill beyond entertainment. I continue to believe it...and I am so proud to be his fan. ...such a dear, precious soul.

ETA:  Here's a link to a video of Clay speaking...scroll down to the middle...:

http://www.pamshouseblend.com/showDiary.do;jsessionid=5AD18B785197B05FD4A1E8FBD933E704?diaryId=15361

Shelley attempted to transcribe Clay's speech...above the loud applause... here it is:


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When you make the decision to...when you come out to your family, your friends. Make the decision to come out in a supportive group like (he mentions group honored that night - not sure of exact name) or to do so on the cover or a magazine -- the decision to talk openly about it is a really difficult and confusing one.

And I know that sometimes I think more than anybody. But I also know that the power of truth and living honestly is very liberating. So what the hell took me so long (lots of applause)?

It was waiting like so many folks are waiting for change, for attitudes to change, for laws to change, and I realized that the time for waiting has passed. We've seen throughout our nation's history that all the major civil rights movements -- major milestones in our country have come after a lot of waiting and a a lot of hard, long fought battles. Thankfully while many of us have been waiting, you at the HRC has been fighting to ensure that LGBT Americans have the same rights that straight Americans take for granted.

As HRC's name implies our battle is about something much larger than the LGBT community. It's about that most American of notions that all men and women are created equal. That is with the exception of my son who is brilliant, but for tonight we'll assume that all men and women are created equal.

The belief which this nation was founded on is the cornerstone of our movement and as I said it has been the cornerstone of every major civil rights movement in our nation's history.

In 1920 when the 19th amendment was passed which gave every American woman the right to vote, it's about damn time. In 1954 although some idiots of the Wake County School Board would disagree for Brown vs Board of Education desegregated our schools, it's about damn time. In 1964 when the Civil Rights Act was passed banning discrimination based on race, religion, national origin, it's about damn time.

And last year the Matthew Shepard James Berg Jr Hate Crimes Prevention Act was passed, it was most certainly about damn time. Now, thanks in no small part to supportive individuals like you LGBT Americans can finally see a light at the end of the tunnel. Slowly but surely, and forgive me for using this sports analogy: we're moving the ball down the field. We're seeing a shift in the attitudes of younger generations. LGBT youth are feeling empowered to come out in higher numbers than ever before. They are finding acceptance with their friends and their families like never before.

The LGBT community has seen and obtained unprecedented visibility and legitimacy in America. We have a great deal more work to do to ensure that LGBT individuals and families have the same rights and same freedoms that straight Americans have. And I know that my son's world will be a better one because no one no matter how hard they try are going to stop our progress.

And like those civil rights movements that came before, our message is the message of fairness, of righteousness, of decency. Out message is the message of the future. Our time is now, and it is about damn time.


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on February 27, 2010, 08:16:52 PM
Johanna - Thanks for bringing the whole speech over.  I just read it at the OFC and it was longer than originally reported.

Yes, he did say "damn" a lot but a lot of posters thought that was a very smart move.  After all, what is the one thing everyone will remember about the speech tonight  --

           IT'S ABOUT DAMN TIME

Very smart Clay -- just shows again why he does not need a speechwriter.


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Post by: GWENN on February 27, 2010, 09:47:48 PM
CAN'T SLEEP.  FELL ASLEEP FOR AN HOUR WATCHING TV AND NOW I AM UP.

AMAZING SPEECH.  I AM SO PROUD OF OUR BOY.  NOW A REAL MAN.  AND IT IS ABOUT DAMN TIME.

THRILLED REED WAS WITH HIM.  ABOUT DAMN TIME CLAY AND HIS PARTNER CAN JUST GO TO EVENTS AS A COUPLE. 

LOVE WHAT HE SAID ABOUT PARKER. 

12 DAYS UNTIL WE HEAR THAT CONCERT.  ABOUT DAMN TIME.

GWENN


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Post by: clayfannj on February 27, 2010, 09:49:39 PM
City was fun.."Memphis" was an extremely entertaining and exuberant experience...  It was nice to be back in the Shubert!!...I swear the place is Spamahaunted. You can feel it's presence everywhere.

It sounds like he did a fine job speaking from the heart...That's all he can do to touch others and perhaps lead them to understand. The only way to change attitudes is telling the human to human story..IMHO...

Can't get Marlene's friend out of my mind...May she have the strength to face this challenge...Prayers  to her...

So sad about Marie Osmond's son. We have a girl on our Hadassah board who just went through the same thing a few months ago...We try to be as supportive as we can. She is very brave...She has now become active in a suicide prevention program in our county to help other parents see the signs.  How does such a young person get to such a hopeless place?? I don't understand...



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Post by: clayfannj on February 27, 2010, 09:50:32 PM
Hey Gwenn, Call me..I don't want to wake up Barry....or LOUIE either!!!!


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Post by: Marilyn on February 28, 2010, 01:40:22 AM
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Post by: wvclayfan on February 28, 2010, 05:40:32 AM
Johanna - Thanks for bringing the whole speech over.  I just read it at the OFC and it was longer than originally reported.

Yes, he did say "damn" a lot but a lot of posters thought that was a very smart move.  After all, what is the one thing everyone will remember about the speech tonight  --

           IT'S ABOUT DAMN TIME

Very smart Clay -- just shows again why he does not need a speechwriter.
:thumb Very smart indeed. Clay did such a nice job of sticking to the message while mixing in some light-hearted and fun moments.


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Post by: GWENN on February 28, 2010, 06:50:55 AM
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Posted in the Public Access Thread by Faithful2me.

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Well, as soon as I saw the new thread title, I knew that I wasn't going to have to say much about Clay's speech, because you had already heard it. But, I can say that I am so very proud to be a Clay fan at this moment. I was fortunate enough to sit at a table near the podium, so I got to see him up close and personal during the speech. What a handsome man he is!!! Oh, did I happen to mention that after 7 years of waiting -- I FINALLY GOT MY PICTURE TAKEN WITH CLAY AIKEN!!! Sorry for the "all caps," but I felt like that particular event was worthy of it!!! I promise you that I did not become all "fan-girly," and I did not initiate the Clay contact. I happened to be chatting with a co-worker on my way to the restroom, and he asked me had I spoken to Clay yet. I said, what do you mean, and he said, "he's sitting right behind you!!!" I turned around, and there he was!!! My friend then proceeded to grab my hand and walk me over to Clay. I asked him to please not bother Clay, but he wouldn't listen. He walked up and introduced himself to Clay and then he introduced me. I tried to be very brief and get out of there, but then my friend asked Clay if he would mind if he got a picture of the two of us. I profusely apologized to Clay and said that I didn't want to bother him, but he grabbed my hand and pulled me up next to him -- I actually was arm in arm with Clay Aiken!!! I was shaking so hard that Clay noticed and told me everything was going to be okay. Clay didn't like the first picture my friend took, so he made him take another one. I just kept apologizing for bothering him (like a blubbering fool), and Clay just kept his arm around me and reassuring me. It was all such a blur, but he was so very kind and did I mention handsome???!!! I also met Reed, who was also extremely nice, and even had the chance to talk to Jerome. What a night to be a Clay fan!!!

WALLPAPER VIA FD

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b108/Fountaindawg/CA%20Wallpapers/20100227HumanRightsCampaignByCotton.jpg

I SENT MY BROTHER THE SPEECH.  I HOPE HE LISTENS.  I HOPE HE FINALLY SEES CLAY FOR THE INCREDIBLE MAN HE IS.  NOW, LADIES, THAT WOULD BE ABOUT DAMN TIME.

BILLS AND COFFEE AWAIT.

GWENN


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Post by: JoAnn Moody on February 28, 2010, 06:58:13 AM
Johanna,

 Thank you for Clay's speech link.  We I was teaching, I saw first hand how some people were discriminated on because of their differences of the person discriminating.
   At my school, we had a wonder third grade teacher.  She was gay and had a married partner.  These two did not try to "hide" and were so kind to everyone and did so much for the children at our school.
   Once, when several teachers were talking about their husbands, wives, etc., this teacher mentioned "her wife".  OUR PRINCIPAL, IN FRONT OF THE ENTIRE STAFF, TOLD HER(THE TEACHER) THAT SHE COULD NOT SAY THE WORD "WIFE" IN DISCRIBING  HER AS LONG AT SHE WAS ON THE CAMPUS.  THE PRINCIPAL SAID THAT THEY WEREN'T MARRIED AND SHE COULD ONLY USE THE THE WORD,"FRIEND!"
    I felt hurt and ashamed for this teacher.  No one, no matter who they are, has the right to be treated unfairly.  I'm proud of Clay for not hiding and standing up for himself and all who are tried so cruelly.


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Post by: claydevotee on February 28, 2010, 10:53:22 AM
JoAnn,  I'm so happy to see you posting your opinion over here. :hugg  And, as you have so aptly stated,

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I'm proud of Clay for not hiding and standing up for himself and all who are tried so cruelly.

Me too!!!  :yeahthat



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Post by: GWENN on February 28, 2010, 10:57:11 AM
JOANN--AMAZING AND NOT SURPRISING STORY.  THANKS FOR SHARING.

STILL CAN'T GET STARTED ON THOSE BILLS.

WATCHED THE SPEECH AGAIN.  BF HAS SURE GROWN UP.

GWENN


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Post by: claydevotee on February 28, 2010, 11:06:32 AM
Back from church.  Lunch will be a pizza followed by a lllloooonnnnngggg nap.  I love my Sunday afternoon naps!

GWENN, I was just thinking about how postiive and strong you have become regarding Barry's health problems and esp. his upcoming back surgery (which meant you had to postpone your Hawaiian vacation).  You have been an inspiration to me as of late, as I have been whining about a lot of relatively minor problems in my own life.   MARION, you have also inspired me with your zest for life and all of your "comings and goings"!   Just wanted to thank you for helping me to start the climb out of my winter doldrums.   :thanks :ghug

Actually, each of you here on CM provides inspiration to me every day.  Just had to say it.Thank you all.

Now for that pizza and nap............... :cook :nap


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Post by: lovinclay on February 28, 2010, 01:48:47 PM
Wow, miss a day here and you can sure miss alot. 

Marlene, continued prayers for you friend.

I had no idea about Marie Osmond's son.  Can someone fill me in?  From the posts, I'm thinking he committed suicide. 

Clay's speech was brilliant (like his son). :smile  I'm glad he put some of his humor in his words.....that's our Clay.  I haven't watched yet, but I will.

         


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Post by: GWENN on February 28, 2010, 01:54:24 PM
I AM READING THAT CLAY'S SPEECH IS BEING PICKED UP BY ALL THE BLOGS AND ALL RESPECTFUL.  YEP, RESPECTFUL.  ALL OVER TWITTER.  RESPECTFUL.  YEP, RESPECTFUL.

IT'S ABOUT DAMN TIME.

GWENN


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Post by: wisconsinmaniac on February 28, 2010, 03:46:48 PM
I AM READING THAT CLAY'S SPEECH IS BEING PICKED UP BY ALL THE BLOGS AND ALL RESPECTFUL.  YEP, RESPECTFUL.  ALL OVER TWITTER.  RESPECTFUL.  YEP, RESPECTFUL.

IT'S ABOUT DAMN TIME.

GWENN

GWENN !   He deserves that respect and, as you stated . . . IT'S ABOUT DAMN TIME!  Finally, he is free! I am so proud of him! :clap :hugg 


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on February 28, 2010, 05:48:08 PM
I am so happy to read that Clay's speech was well received and that he is finally getting some of the respect he has deserved for so long and -- IT'S ABOUT DAMN TIME.

Went to GDs soccer game this afternoon.  They played about an hour north of here and it was very cloudy and soooo cold.  I'm going to go take a long hot shower and see if I can warm upl.

Everyone have a good week.


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Post by: claydevotee on February 28, 2010, 06:01:34 PM
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I AM READING THAT CLAY'S SPEECH IS BEING PICKED UP BY ALL THE BLOGS AND ALL RESPECTFUL.  YEP, RESPECTFUL.  ALL OVER TWITTER.  RESPECTFUL.  YEP, RESPECTFUL.

I googled the definition of "Respect":

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1. an attitude of deference, admiration, or esteem; regard
2. the state of being honoured or esteemed

Clay has stood up for what he believes in.  I try to live by the creed of "To thine own self be true".  He has done this, and for that I respect him.   He is worthy of the respect he is finally garnering from so many sources.  

I'm watching the Olympics closing ceremonies.  Once in a while it's nice to get that "warm and fuzzy" feeling about the world during these perilous times.  May God bless the poor victims of the latest earthquake, this time in Chile.  And God bless us, everyone.

P.S.  WILSON BARB, hope you warm up soon.  It's sometimes difficult to warm your body once you get chilled.   :comfort


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Post by: claydevotee on February 28, 2010, 06:16:35 PM
 :wave  MICKI, I just wanted to fill you in a little bit more on Marie Osmond's son's recent death.  Very, very sad. 

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Marie Osmond's son dies

LOS ANGELES - SINGER Marie Osmond's son Michael Blosil, 18, has died, she said last Saturday.

'My family and I are devastated and in deep shock by the tragic loss of our dear Michael and ask that everyone respect our privacy during this difficult time,' the 50-year-old said in her statement.

Entertainment Tonight reported on its website that Blosil jumped to his death last Friday night from a downtown Los Angeles apartment building. He reportedly rented a flat there.

Officers responded to an apparent suicide jump in the area, but the victim was not identified on Saturday, police said.

He reportedly left a note which said he intended to kill himself due to a long battle with depression that made him feel as if he had no friends.

In 2007, Osmond said her son was treated at a rehabilitation facility, but she did not disclose the nature of his problem.

BTW, MICKI, when are you closing on the sale of your home????  :hugg


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Post by: GWENN on March 01, 2010, 04:17:05 AM
EARLY  MORNING---

WE HAVE THE INSPECTION THIS MORNING.  THEN BARRY HAS A DOCTOR APPOINTMENT THIS AFTERNOON WITH OUR GP.  HE NEEDS TO WRITE A LETTER TO THE NEUROSURGEON.  THIS IS A LONG WEEK OF DOCTORS.  TOMORROW I GO TO THE DENTIST AND THEN BARRY GOES TO THE EAR DOCTOR.  THURS. IS THE NEURO GUY.  I WANT THIS ALL TO BE OVER.

THEA-- :hugg :hugg :hugg

BARB--COME HERE FOR COLD.  OY.  THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT BY FRIDAY WE HIT THE UPPER 40'S. :purpbana :purpbana :purpbana

WILL CHECK IN LATER.

WHERE OH WHERE IS SUNNY????

GWENN


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Post by: Sundancer on March 01, 2010, 04:45:56 AM
Here I am! :bouncy

I was skiing last week. It was much more fun than last year, when I mostly just slid down the mountain on my butt. This time, I was able to remain upright for most of the time. :bigsmile


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Post by: lovinclay on March 01, 2010, 05:46:07 AM
Thea, I settle on March 19th. 

Sunny, where do you ski?


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Post by: mimi on March 01, 2010, 06:03:38 AM
Good Morning!

I have an update on Ruth..She is still in ICU, only because they do not have a room available yet. She is doing very well,and is talking more, however Moose said she has not mentioned anything about her missing leg. She still has in one drainage tube ,and she has not had any solid food to eat as they are still giving her glucose. She also is not experiencing to much pain,which is probably due to the Drs putting the nerves in that area to sleep permanently.

Hopefully today a room will become available.

I do hope that the weather will warm up some before the 12th.The forecast for tomorrow is for a mixture of snow, rain & ice. By Saturday though the temperatures will be in the 50s. ..I can live with that, but PLEASE no snow rain or ice for the 12th... :please

I'm getting ready to go to water aerobics..Hope the water is warm(inside) because it is sure not warm outside today.   I hate to come out into the cold ,after being in the pool..Thank goodness for hot showers.

Talk to you all later...Hope you are all having a great day.


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Post by: claydevotee on March 01, 2010, 06:38:08 AM
Good morning!

Going in for "major maintenance" this morning.  Brows/roots/and cut.  But no way am I ready to go gray yet.  When and if I ever get grandchildren I may consider it, but until then.....not a chance.  :lol

SUNNY, good for you on improving your skiing technique!   :clap   Although I'm not surprised you did so well.... :wink

MICKI, March 19 is just around the corner!!!!  :hugg

MARLENE, thanks for the Ruth update.  I know we're all pulling for her right now.   :hugg

This week Phil and I have to start doing some intensive Assisted-Living Home shopping for my mother.  She is starting to back down, but after talking to my sons last night I know that they will help to keep her focused on this move.   :hypno 

Also I have decided that I am going to start going to the health club with Phil every Tuesday and Thursday morning.  If nothing else, I will start out by walking the track and using the recumbant elliptical.  Very easy on the knees.  I have to start somewhere.  I have so many other things to do right now, but I've realized that unless I do something to improve my own health I will be good for nothing and nobody!!!

Clay had better bring all of the travellers some decent weather in Raleigh, especially those of you from the Northeast and the upper Midwest.  And all of you had better take your Vitamin C.  No sickies allowed for the PBS concert, OK????   :please

I've been checking with Meesa on her Facebook page lately.  She seems to excited about her upcoming wedding.  Wishing her and Joe all the best.  They're a couple of "good kids"!!!!   :hugg

Gotta hit the showers now.  Love to all!   :moped :shower





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Post by: clayfannj on March 01, 2010, 07:40:36 AM
It's a good morning!!  The SUN IS OUT!!!   Cold..yes..snow still on the ground..yes!!  BUT..SUNNY!!

Our thread is alive with new beginnings!! Could Spring possibly be finally here??

The season of renewal..

Marlene's Ruth is making progress and will be moved to a step down room..

Micki is settling on the 19th..

Barry is seeing the doctors who will show him a light out of this  pain..

Sunny managed to stay VERTICAL on her skis..

And Thea is getting her roots done, and decided to hit the gym!!!

NEW BEGINNINGS..and all is well with the world!!!   :bigsmile

Like I said..it's a good morning...


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Post by: Sundancer on March 01, 2010, 07:47:33 AM
'Went up to Mont Tremblant in Quebec. About 2 hours north of Montreal. Just waaayy... north.

I think I saw Santa's workshop on the drive up there. :lol


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Post by: GWENN on March 01, 2010, 08:25:37 AM
BACK FROM THE INSPECTION AND IT WENT WELL.  ONE THING NEEDS WORK.  ALL THE SNOW CAUSED A LITTLE WATER IN THE BASEMENT BUT FIXABLE FOR NOT A TON OF MONEY.  HOPEFULLY IT WILL BE DONE SOON.  OUR SOON. :wink  OTHER THAN THAT, THE KIDS CAN MOVE RIGHT IN.  THE FRIDGE, WASHER, DRYER, AND DISHWASHER ARE ALL A COUPLE OF YEARS OLD.  SO ARE THE CARPETS.  ROOF IS GOOD.  HEAT PUMP IS SERVICED.  I FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT ALL.  SO DOES ER.

WILL WALK THE DOGS IN A BIT AND THEN OFF TO THE DOCTOR WITH BARRY.

MARION--YOU COVERED EVERYONE.  :bigsmile  SO I WILL JUST WORD YOUR POST. :yeahthat :word

SUNNY--ISN'T THAT WHERE YOU GUYS WENT LAST YEAR?  I AM SO IMPRESSED WITH YOUR NEW SKILLS.   :clap :clap :clap  WE MISSED YOU. :hugg

I FEEL LIKE I HAVE BEEN UP FOREVER.  IT IS ONLY 11:30 AND I AM READY FOR LUNCH.

GWENN

ETA---WELL, HELL HAS FROZEN OVER.  MY BROTHER THOUGHT "VERY GOOD SPEECH!!!"   :icon_eek: :doh  HIS !!!!.  FIRST NICE THING HE EVER SAID. 



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Post by: Sundancer on March 01, 2010, 08:40:26 AM
BACK FROM THE INSPECTION AND IT WENT WELL.  ONE THING NEEDS WORK.  ALL THE SNOW CAUSED A LITTLE WATER IN THE BASEMENT BUT FIXABLE FOR NOT A TON OF MONEY.  HOPEFULLY IT WILL BE DONE SOON.  OUR SOON. :wink  OTHER THAN THAT, THE KIDS CAN MOVE RIGHT IN.  THE FRIDGE, WASHER, DRYER, AND DISHWASHER ARE ALL A COUPLE OF YEARS OLD.  SO ARE THE CARPETS.  ROOF IS GOOD.  HEAT PUMP IS SERVICED.  I FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT ALL.  SO DOES ER.
Yay for the house! :purpbana


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SUNNY--ISN'T THAT WHERE YOU GUYS WENT LAST YEAR?  I AM SO IMPRESSED WITH YOUR NEW SKILLS.   :clap :clap :clap  WE MISSED YOU. :hugg
Thanks! :hugg Yes, this was my second time on the Trembling Mountain. Fortunately, things went much better this time. :blush


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ETA---WELL, HELL HAS FROZEN OVER.  MY BROTHER THOUGHT "VERY GOOD SPEECH!!!"   :icon_eek: :doh  HIS !!!!.  FIRST NICE THING HE EVER SAID. 
It's about damn time! :wink


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Post by: Moonshot on March 01, 2010, 09:01:57 AM
BACK FROM THE INSPECTION AND IT WENT WELL. 

Yay for the house! :purpbana


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ETA---WELL, HELL HAS FROZEN OVER.  MY BROTHER THOUGHT "VERY GOOD SPEECH!!!"   :icon_eek: :doh  HIS !!!!.  FIRST NICE THING HE EVER SAID. 
It's about damn time! :wink

What she said.  :bigsmile


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Post by: mrs. c. on March 01, 2010, 10:25:26 AM


I think I saw Santa's workshop on the drive up there. :lol

You did my Sunny friend, it's a year round thing :lol really, there is a North Pole up here :lol


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Post by: Marilyn on March 01, 2010, 10:27:05 AM
 :wave

I am still here, too!!

Working, working, working. I stayed up until 4:15 a.m. working on HMDA info that SHOULD have been entered by different departments on the way through the loan process. 1500 loans and very few had all the info in.
Its statistical info that is reported to the government -race, sex, ethnicity of borrowers, area that property is in, loan type, income, etc. on every loan that is closed, cancelled or rejected.
Its to show that our company does not discriminate in any way.


Today is the deadline and I still have a few hundred loans to go through. GAH!!

Tonight I plan to go to bed early, but will probably fall asleep in my chair.

Thea, I too need to get in to the beauty parlor and cover the gray. Just wish they could add some hair on top for me. YUCK!!

Also, I am really tired of looking at my leg and it is scarred and still reddish pink in spots. I am trying Manukah honey which was recommended but I think thats only to clear up the infection.
Does anyone have a remedy to eliminate scars? It s a BIG one.

Back to work


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Post by: GWENN on March 01, 2010, 10:44:36 AM
MARILYN---HAVE YOU TRIED COCOA BUTTER?  I ALSO THINK THERE IS SOME OTC STUFF I SEE ADVERTISED FOR SCARS.  BUT I THINK WITH THE DIABETES, YOU MAY BE STUCK.  JUST WEAR PANTS. :bigsmile :icon_rolleyes:

SHARON--I BET WE GOT MORE SNOW THIS SEASON SO FAR THAN YOU DID.  PHILLY GOT ALMOST 80 INCHES.  NEW RECORD.

I NEED MY ROOTS DONE ALSO BUT I CAN'T MAKE ANY APPOINTMENT UNTIL AFTER BARRY SEES THE NEUROSURGEON ON THURS.   I WILL NEVER BE GRAY.  NEVER.  I NEED DONE AND A MANICURE BEFORE THE CONCERT.  OMG, IT IS IN 11 DAYS.  I CANNOT BELIEVE IT. 

GWENN


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Post by: Sundancer on March 01, 2010, 10:49:00 AM


I think I saw Santa's workshop on the drive up there. :lol

You did my Sunny friend, it's a year round thing :lol really, there is a North Pole up here :lol
I saw that, too! :lol


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Post by: mrs. c. on March 01, 2010, 10:51:25 AM


SHARON--I BET WE GOT MORE SNOW THIS SEASON SO FAR THAN YOU DID.  PHILLY GOT ALMOST 80 INCHES.  NEW RECORD.


Gwenn, you did get more, can't believe it!!!!

Marilyn, give this website a read, it's a wonderful skin healer amongst many things

THENTIX (http://www.thentix.us/)


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Post by: mrs. c. on March 01, 2010, 10:52:26 AM


I think I saw Santa's workshop on the drive up there. :lol

You did my Sunny friend, it's a year round thing :lol really, there is a North Pole up here :lol
I saw that, too! :lol

Maybe you'll be ready for the next winter Olympics in Russia on the ski team :bigsmile


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Post by: GWENN on March 01, 2010, 11:07:19 AM
I DON'T KNOW WHAT THIS MEANS, BUT I BET SUNNY DOES.

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From Twitter:
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BeLikeWaterProd: Vlado mastering the new Clay Aiken album for Decca. Dave Novik in the studio.

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* Name Peter Cho
* Location twitter
* Web belikewaterproductions.com
* Bio music pr

GWENN


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Post by: Sundancer on March 01, 2010, 11:12:16 AM
Maybe you'll be ready for the next winter Olympics in Russia on the ski team :bigsmile
Um, I don't think so. I had a bright green ski jacket on, and after a rather <ahem> challenging trail, someone said to me, "You know how they call Shaun White the Flying Tomato? Well, you're the Rolling Lime!" :blush


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Post by: Sundancer on March 01, 2010, 11:18:58 AM
I DON'T KNOW WHAT THIS MEANS, BUT I BET SUNNY DOES.

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From Twitter:
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BeLikeWaterProd: Vlado mastering the new Clay Aiken album for Decca. Dave Novik in the studio.

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* Name Peter Cho
* Location twitter
* Web belikewaterproductions.com
* Bio music pr

GWENN
Hm. Not sure, but I'll take a crack at it. Belikewater is a management company for performing artists; they also produce music. I guess they're working with Clay in some aspect. Vlado is also a music production company. It sounds like they're putting the finishing touches on the cd before it gets printed. :shrug


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Post by: claydevotee on March 01, 2010, 03:02:59 PM
 :wave  Back from my "maintenance" and then running errands all over  NW Chicago suburbia! 

It is an absolutely gorgeous, sunny day today!  Yes, it's still cold (35ish) but there's a touch of spring in the air.  Absolutely lifted my spirits higher than they've been in a very lllooooonnnngggg time!  Hopefully all of you East Coasters will get this gorgeous early spring weather over the next few days!!!  :bouncy

It seems even at this early stage Decca has already surpassed RCA's past attempts in promoting Clay's new CD.  Should Clay's CD not do well (but I have a gut feeling it WILL do well), IMO there can be little blame on the record label.  Clay has made a very smart career move.  Also, I believe that he is going to gain a huge fanbase in the gay population now that he has become a vocal advocate for their cause.  That should only further his career.  Heck, the way I look at it the more eclectic the fanbase, the better.  Gays, grannies, and hopefully other "groups" as well!!!  We're all in this together!!!



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Post by: claydevotee on March 01, 2010, 03:06:40 PM
MARILYN, I wish I had a magic cure for your skin problems.  I wonder if a short course of steroids could get this under control?  But then again, I don't have a "Dr." in front of my name.   :lol


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Post by: Sundancer on March 01, 2010, 03:10:26 PM
MARILYN, I wish I had a magic cure for your skin problems.  I wonder if a short course of steroids could get this under control?  But then again, I don't have a "Dr." in front of my name.   :lol
But can you play baseball? :wink


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Post by: claydevotee on March 01, 2010, 03:18:06 PM
MARILYN, I wish I had a magic cure for your skin problems.  I wonder if a short course of steroids could get this under control?  But then again, I don't have a "Dr." in front of my name.   :lol
But can you play baseball? :wink

Cha-cha-ching!!!  :lol


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Post by: clayharmony on March 01, 2010, 04:05:43 PM
WiscBarb and NCBarb....check your PMs.


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Post by: Glory on March 01, 2010, 04:09:55 PM



                                    CLAY AND RUBEN AT THE BILTMORE IN JULY.ON THE BILTMORE SITE ,HOLLIES BABY DUE IN JULY LET ME THINK. :lol BABY WILL COME FIRST.


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Post by: Sundancer on March 01, 2010, 04:19:38 PM



                                    CLAY AND RUBEN AT THE BILTMORE IN JULY.ON THE BILTMORE SITE ,HOLLIES BABY DUE IN JULY LET ME THINK. :lol BABY WILL COME FIRST.
:thumb :yes :purpbana


For those who aren't having a baby, here's the link: CLAY & RUBEN JULY 23 (http://www.biltmore.com/visit/calendar/concerts.asp)


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Post by: Glory on March 01, 2010, 04:29:31 PM



                                   I AM REALLY NOT INTERESTED IN SEEING RUBEN,I AM SURE THIS WILL BE A FULL TOUR. MAYBE I CAN HIT ONE CONCERT BEFORE I GO TO MINNEAPOLIS TO SEE TIM. BTW HIS BABY IS DUE ANY MINUTE NOW, 3 DAYS LATE. BABIES ALL OVER THE PLACE. :lol :lol


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Post by: GWENN on March 01, 2010, 04:54:50 PM
WELL, THE GOOD NEWS IS IF THERE IS ONE CONCERT, THERE WILL BE OTHERS.  I HAVE NEVER SEEN THE BILTMORE.  I WOULD LOVE TO.  BUT I AM NOT SURE HOW.  SO, WE WILL JUST WAIT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

BUT THERE WILL BE A TOUR. :purpbana :purpbana :purpbana

GWENN


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Post by: Sundancer on March 01, 2010, 05:00:03 PM

                                   I AM REALLY NOT INTERESTED IN SEEING RUBEN
'Tell ya the truth, Glory, neither am I. I've seen Ruben in concert before, and he was painfully boring.

Maybe he's gotten better in the past few years. :cross


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I AM SURE THIS WILL BE A FULL TOUR. MAYBE I CAN HIT ONE CONCERT BEFORE I GO TO MINNEAPOLIS TO SEE TIM. BTW HIS BABY IS DUE ANY MINUTE NOW, 3 DAYS LATE. BABIES ALL OVER THE PLACE. :lol :lol
Congratulations, almost! :bouncy


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Post by: claydevotee on March 01, 2010, 05:12:42 PM
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For those who aren't having a baby, here's the link: CLAY & RUBEN JULY 23
 


 :lol  No babies here, that's for sure, MS SUNNY!

Wow, I knew the tour was going to be in the middle of the summer.  I hope we won't be moving my mother into her new home at that time.  Of course, that is if she doesn't decide to back out again.  This decision is very tough on her, but she needs to accept that she can no longer live alone 160 miles from family.   The saga continues......  :hypno

Anyway, this is exciting news about an upcoming tour!  :clap


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Post by: Glory on March 01, 2010, 05:30:39 PM


                                 PLUS SUNNY IN THE MIDDLE OF SUMMER HE WILL SWEAT A BUNCH. :lol I WOULD LOVE TO COME TO NC AND SEE YOU GUYS BUT I WON;T BE GOING GAGAOVER RUBEN. I GUESS I CAN'T GO GAGA OVER CLAY ANYMORE EITHER. DAMN.

                               


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Post by: wvclayfan on March 01, 2010, 05:36:08 PM
 :yahoo :yahoo

:pray Come to Pittsburgh.
:pray Heck, I'll even take Columbus!


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Post by: Sundancer on March 01, 2010, 05:36:49 PM


                                 PLUS SUNNY IN THE MIDDLE OF SUMMER HE WILL SWEAT A BUNCH. :lol I WOULD LOVE TO COME TO NC AND SEE YOU GUYS BUT I WON;T BE GOING GAGAOVER RUBEN. I GUESS I CAN'T GO GAGA OVER CLAY ANYMORE EITHER. DAMN.
                             
Sure you can. He's as cute, smart, witty, and talented as he ever was. If you're bothered by the fact that he won't be going gaga back to you, well, he didn't before either, and that never stopped us. :wink


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Post by: Sundancer on March 01, 2010, 05:37:44 PM
:yahoo :yahoo

:pray Come to Pittsburgh.
:pray Heck, I'll even take Columbus!
Heck, I'd take Clay in Columbus, too. :slick


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Post by: wvclayfan on March 01, 2010, 05:39:59 PM
:giggle Sunny

I can't tell you how excited I got reading that. :bouncy I :gish Clay in concert.


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Post by: claydevotee on March 01, 2010, 05:42:43 PM
WELL, THE GOOD NEWS IS IF THERE IS ONE CONCERT, THERE WILL BE OTHERS.  I HAVE NEVER SEEN THE BILTMORE.  I WOULD LOVE TO.  BUT I AM NOT SURE HOW.  SO, WE WILL JUST WAIT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

BUT THERE WILL BE A TOUR. :purpbana :purpbana :purpbana

GWENN

Just checked out the room rates at the Biltmore Inn.  Pricey.   http://www.biltmore.com/stay/rates/default.asp


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Post by: Glory on March 01, 2010, 05:43:53 PM




                                      TRUE :lmao  I DID GET A AIKEN WINK ONCE AND A TUMMY RUB ONCE AND A SEMI HANDSHAKE ONCE OR TWICE.  DON'T YA THUNK HE'D REMEMBER THOSE MOMENTS, :lol I DO QUITE VIVIDLY.

                                    GWENN BILTMORE IS LOVELY.


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Post by: claydevotee on March 01, 2010, 05:46:16 PM
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GWENN BILTMORE IS LOVELY.

Very, very lovely, MS GLORY!  I have a feeling a lot of Clay funds will be depleted at the Biltmore.  I wonder what  is the maximum number of people allowed in each room?   :lol


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Post by: Glory on March 01, 2010, 05:55:06 PM



                           YEP THEA PRICEY I HOPE THEY WOULD LET MORE THAN ONE HAVE A RM.

                            I REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME I MET YOU I THINK IT WAS FT.WAYNE THE TUMMY RUB AND WHEN CLAY SHOOK YOUR HAND YOU SAID GOD BLESS YOU MY SON :lol THAT SEEMS SO LONG AGO. I WAS SO MUCH YOUNGER WE CERTAINLY HAVE GONE THROUGH A BUNCH SINCE THEN.


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Post by: mimi on March 01, 2010, 06:13:09 PM
The Biltimore is very lovely,and when Clay was on the South Terrace,it seemed we were on the edge of the mountain,and the sunset was absolutely breathtaking.

July the 23th is the day before my 70th B/D..How did I ever get to be 70?
Since the 23rd is on a Fri I wonder if they may be going somewhere in Tenn the next day.
It would sure be nice to get some sort of a schedule,if this is going to be a tour. Wonder when in the world that will finally happen?

There is a extended forecast which includes next Monday, Mar 8th,and it has SUNNY & high of 69.
I'm just going to keep my fingers crossed that it will continue to be nice the rest of next week.


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Post by: Moonshot on March 01, 2010, 06:29:34 PM
Maybe you'll be ready for the next winter Olympics in Russia on the ski team :bigsmile
Um, I don't think so. I had a bright green ski jacket on, and after a rather <ahem> challenging trail, someone said to me, "You know how they call Shaun White the Flying Tomato? Well, you're the Rolling Lime!" :blush

 :lmao :lmao :lmao

ah, you are a gem! :bighug


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Post by: claydevotee on March 01, 2010, 07:13:09 PM
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I REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME I MET YOU I THINK IT WAS FT.WAYNE THE TUMMY RUB AND WHEN CLAY SHOOK YOUR HAND YOU SAID GOD BLESS YOU MY SON  THAT SEEMS SO LONG AGO. I WAS SO MUCH YOUNGER WE CERTAINLY HAVE GONE THROUGH A BUNCH SINCE THEN.
 
 


Thanks for the reminder, GLORY!  :para  :blush :lmao :lmao  And yes, we have been through quite a bit since then, haven't we.....through both  the good and bad!  :hugg

P.S.  I remember how that "tummy rub" put you on Cloud 9!   :lmao :lmao


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Post by: claydevotee on March 01, 2010, 07:15:07 PM
MARLENE, it's hard to believe that you're almost 70.  It must be all of those warm temps and lots of humidity....you look mahvelous!!!  :hugg


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Post by: mimi on March 01, 2010, 07:53:17 PM
Thanks Thea.  Thank goodness for Miss Clairol & lots of Aveeno.

I sure don't feel almost 70..The time sure did pass by quickly. 

Moose just called an they did move Ruth today to a step down room(from ICU) and she is doing very well.  She was able to eat some solid food today,not much ,but at least its a start.
Moose said she has the neatest bed. It automatically turns her, from side to side, up & down ,and to a sitting position.
Tomorrow they are going to sit her on the side of the bed and help her stand.  This I imagine will be an emotional day for Ruth, Moose & their 2 children. Her rehab will start the end of the week.

Thank you all for thinking & praying for them because I'm sure the next few weeks are going to be difficult and a challenge for them all.

It was a long & hard decision for Ruth to make about having her leg removed and I think she is very courageous in doing it. Of course ,there wasn't much other choice.
Moose said the Dr told him that the tumor had grown from the size of a walnut, to the size of a softball. No wonder she was in so much pain.

Guess I better get back on my diet, I need to lose some more weight before I start Clay treking again...Asheville in July, well we can only hope that there isn't a heat wave like year before last..but I always did like sweaty Clay :wink (just not me :bigsmile)




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Post by: Marilyn on March 02, 2010, 04:26:10 AM
mimi, I am so glad that Ruth is doing well. What a brave woman!. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.

There was so much sad news at work yesterday. One of the fellows I work with lost his mother Friday. She was in for surgery-something to do with her heart. She was my age, and I feel so badly for Ira because I know he was very very close to his Mom.

Then, one of our loan officers who moonlighted at another job was killed in a car accident over the weekend. It was around 2:30 a.m. and he allegedly lost control of his car, it hit a tree and flipped. A passerby was getting him out of the vehicle when a drunk driving woman hit Eric's car again, and also the vehicle of the passerby. The good Samaritan was not injured, but Eric was DOA. They are not sure if he died at the first crash or the second.. He was 24 years old. How very very sad for his family.

On a brighter note- Clay and Ruben in concert!! The Biltmore was so much fun last time I was there. What a beautiful setting it was!! THe sunset over the mountains, and Clay talking about bats-what a blast!!

I hope this is a precursor of more concerts- and I hope I win the lottery so I can buy everyone tickets!! :lol :lol


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Post by: mimi on March 02, 2010, 05:02:27 AM
I read that the tickets for the Biltmore go on sale April 6th at 8:00am.

Marilyn ~ I too hope you win that lottery.:wink   I won $4.00 yesterday on a scratch off...So its apparent I'm Not winning any big bucks  :doh

So sorry to hear about your friends ,that is truely very sad.


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Post by: corbet on March 02, 2010, 07:53:51 AM
Mimi,
             I"m so happy to hear Ruth is progressing a little. Being able to eat will help   build up

               her strength.
 
                  Having to stand will be very, very traumatic for her. I really can"t imagine how stressed
                  she will be.

                                             She will need our prayers for a long time.

                                                                Betty :hugg


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Post by: corbet on March 02, 2010, 08:00:18 AM

      Marilyn,
                      How very sad about your friends, there seems to be so many sad things in

                     the world.

                                   Mmmmmm! You will have to win more than $4 to go to Biltmore, so
                         will I.
                                        Hope he comes closer to Florida.

                                           The 12th is on the horizan!!!

                                                   Betty


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Post by: claydevotee on March 02, 2010, 08:07:50 AM
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I"m so happy to hear Ruth is progressing a little. Being able to eat will help   build up

   her strength.
 
                  Having to stand will be very, very traumatic for her. I really can"t imagine how stressed
                  she will be.

                                             She will need our prayers for a long time.

                                                                Betty 
 
BETTY, you are so wise.  :hugg  Unfortunately the hardest part of this amputation is ahead for Ruth.  She will definitely need our prayers.

MARILYN, so sorry to hear about the losses in your office.   :comfort

Off to the health club.  I need to pace myself today so that I don't end up flat on my back from overdoing it.  That has been my pattern in the past;  now it's time to break those bad habits and move forward.   I need health and strength in order to face all of the challenges and Claytrekking ahead.  I admire those of you who have already been so proactive in getting healthier.   :notworthy



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Post by: lovinclay on March 02, 2010, 08:16:46 AM
Marlene, Ruth is a very couragous woman.  I don't know if I could make such a decision.  Her family is also very couragous.  With their support, I have no doubt she'll recover and lead a very full life.  

I'm hoping Clay's tour comes somewhere near me......like very near me.  I know I won't be traveling.  


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Post by: GWENN on March 02, 2010, 08:31:42 AM
HERE COMES A NONCLAY RANT.

I  HAVE BEEN ON THE PHONE ALL MORNING---IN BETWEEN GETTING MY TEETH CLEANED.  TRYING TO GET BARRY'S RECORDS FAXED TO THE NEUROSURGEON.  NOT ONCE DID A REAL PERSON ANSWER.  YOU NEED TO GET A CALL BACK.  IN GOT ONE FROM THE EPIDURAL OFFICE.  I GAVE HER MY FAX NUMBER SINCE I DIDN'T YET HAVE THE NERUO'S FAX NUMBER.  THEY WEREN'T OPENED YET.  MY STUPID FAX MACHINE DIDN'T WORK.  SO, I HAD TO CALL BACK.  I HAD TO LEAVE ANOTHER MESSAGE.  I HAVE NO CLUE IF THEY SEN T THE INFO TO THE NEUROSURGEON.  THEN I CALL THE ORTHOPOD AND GOT ANOTHER LEAVE A MESSAGE.  WE HAVE TO GO TO THE EAR DOCTOR IN ABOUT 40 MINUTES.  I HAVE NO CLUE IF THEY FAXED THE INFO.  I CANNOT STAND THIS.  WHY CAN'T SOME HUMAN BEING ANSWER THE PHONE.  JUST ONCE I WOULD LOVE FOR THINGS TO GO SMOOTHLY.  ALL OF THIS HAS TO BE THERE BEFORE THURSDAY AT 9 AM.  I COULD SCREAM.

GWENN


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Post by: GWENN on March 02, 2010, 08:47:49 AM
NICE PIC.

http://www.hrcbackstory.org/2010/03/photo-of-the-day-clay-aiken-and-dadt-repeal/

GWENN


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Post by: Glory on March 02, 2010, 10:17:23 AM



                                 EXCUSE ME WHAT IS DADT I HAVE NO CLUE .

                  THE REASON YOU CAN'T GET PEOPLE GWENN IS THAT THEY HAVE TO GET PAID, ANSWERING MACHINES DON'T, THEY DRIVE ME ABSOLUTELY NUTS.

                                MARILYN I AM SO SORYY FOR THE LOSSES THIS PAST WEEKEND, SEEMS LIKE ONE THING AFTER ANOTHER THINKING OF THE FAMILIES AND SENDING PRAYERS UP. :hugg :hugg :hugg


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Post by: Sundancer on March 02, 2010, 10:25:51 AM

                                 EXCUSE ME WHAT IS DADT I HAVE NO CLUE .
It stands for Don't Ask, Don't Tell, Glory--a policy I've always thought was stupid and insulting (although my friends in the military disagree).


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                  THE REASON YOU CAN'T GET PEOPLE GWENN IS THAT THEY HAVE TO GET PAID, ANSWERING MACHINES DON'T, THEY DRIVE ME ABSOLUTELY NUTS.
'Makes sense, I guess, but it drives me nuts, too. :bang




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Post by: Sundancer on March 02, 2010, 10:27:01 AM
Marilyn,

I am so sorry to hear your latest news. How terrible! :hugg


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Post by: Glory on March 02, 2010, 12:16:21 PM



                              ON MY WAY TO HAVE BLOND STREAKS IN MY HAIR. NEED A CHANGE.

                                        STILL WAITING FOR THE BABY, SHE MUST BE NICE  AND COMFY AND COZY DON'T WANT TO LEAVE THE NEST. :lol


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Post by: GWENN on March 02, 2010, 12:25:22 PM
BACK FROM THE DOCTORS.  BARRY'S EARS ARE STATUS QUO.  THAT DOCTOR WORKS WITH THE NEURO GUY WE ARE SEEING.  HAD GOOD THINGS TO SAY ABOUT HIM. THEN WE WENT TO THE ORTOPOD AND GOT HIS RECORDS.  NO IDEA IF THE EPIDURAL FOLKS FAXED THE INFO BUT HAVE TO CHECK TOMORROW.  ALSO HAVE TO MAKE SURE THE REFERRAL GOT THERE.  OMG, THIS IS A FULL TIME JOB.

GLORY---YOU ARE RIGHT.  A PHONE IS FREE.  AND ANNOYING.

SUNNY---AGREE ABOUT THE DADT.  BEYOND STUPID.  I GUESS WOMEN SHOULDN'T BE ALLOWED TO SERVE EITHER.  SAME THING.

HAVING SOME CAMMOMILLE TEA.  TRYING TO RELAX.

GWENN



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Post by: Sundancer on March 02, 2010, 01:19:14 PM
BACK FROM THE DOCTORS.  BARRY'S EARS ARE STATUS QUO.  THAT DOCTOR WORKS WITH THE NEURO GUY WE ARE SEEING.  HAD GOOD THINGS TO SAY ABOUT HIM. THEN WE WENT TO THE ORTOPOD AND GOT HIS RECORDS.  NO IDEA IF THE EPIDURAL FOLKS FAXED THE INFO BUT HAVE TO CHECK TOMORROW.  ALSO HAVE TO MAKE SURE THE REFERRAL GOT THERE.  OMG, THIS IS A FULL TIME JOB.
Seriously! :hypno


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SUNNY---AGREE ABOUT THE DADT.  BEYOND STUPID.  I GUESS WOMEN SHOULDN'T BE ALLOWED TO SERVE EITHER.  SAME THING.
Uh, yeah, that got pretty much the same enlightened response from my Marine buds. :rolleyes






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Post by: Marilyn on March 02, 2010, 10:59:40 PM
Wow!! Almost ten hours since a post.

Well, here is a coinkydink. I posted on CV to see if anyone would be at the airport the same time I was so that we could share a taxi to the hotel. A woman posted that she was arriving around the same time. Then she pm'd that she was leaving from NYC and that her flight would be arriving around the same time as mine. She sent her flight number . It was the same as mine! THEN I found out she is sitting in the row right in front of me! And she is coming from CALIFORNIA!! Her connecting flight is in NY!

And then, I found out about 7 others on the same flight.

We will have to be the epitome of decorum- my usual behavior. Dont want anyone to realize we are Clay fans.

I figured, once we are in the air, and the pilot has made all the announcements and turned off the seat belts signs, I will quietly turn to the others, and in a circumspect way, lead a rousing rendition of Invisible.

That should keep my cover intact, right?  :lol

And evelyn and I will still have to get a taxi. Question- does anyone know if there is shuttle service from the hotel?
Maybe I will call tomorrow and find out.

Hey, and I am one pound down towards my goal weight of 50 pounds by March 11th. Not too difficult a task, right?

I figure half of that will be gone when I shave my legs. What?? I will be doing it several times before I go. That has to count for SOMETHING!!

Good night all!!


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Post by: Glory on March 03, 2010, 04:36:26 AM





                                  ANYONE HEARD OF PHINEAS AND FERB APPARENTLY CLAY AND CHAKA KAN ARE DOING SOMETHING ON THE SHOW. WOW HE IS GONNA BE BUSY.


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Post by: Sundancer on March 03, 2010, 04:45:51 AM
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ANYONE HEARD OF PHINEAS AND FERB APPARENTLY CLAY AND CHAKA KAN ARE DOING SOMETHING ON THE SHOW.
That's a duet I'd like to hear! :bigsmile


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Post by: GWENN on March 03, 2010, 04:58:52 AM
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Via Rainlover at CV:

http://www.nickandmore.com/2010/03/03/disney-channel-new-avengers-series-on-xd-and-more/
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Phineas and Ferb: Across the Second Dimension – a TV movie based on the Phineas and Ferb animated series that will debut on summer 2011 on Disney XD and Disney Channel. In the movie the duo discover their pet platypus, Perry, is actually a secret agent fighting the forces of evil on a daily basis. Together the trio goes up against a super evil version of Dr. Doofenshmirtz in a parallel universe. Additionally, this summer both networks will premiere a new one-hour episode of Phineas and Ferb that features guest stars Clay Aiken and Chaka Khan.

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Wikipedia referring to the Phineas and Ferb series wrote:
The series is also known for its musical numbers, which have appeared in every episode since the first-season "Flop Starz". Disney's managers particularly enjoyed the episode's song, "Gitchee, Gitchee Goo", and requested that a song appear in each subsequent episode. The show's creators write and record each number, and vary musical tempo depending on each song's dramatic use. The music has gotten the series two Emmy nods for songwriting in 2008.

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FYI, from Fox Business Report:
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In the U.S., the Emmy Award-nominated "Phineas and Ferb" has ranked as the #1 animated series among Kids 6-14 for two consecutive years. It airs on Disney XD and Disney Channels in more than 135 countries and in 26 languages around the world.

MORNING.

GLORY---I GUESS THIS ANSWERS WHAT IT IS?  KIND OF INTERESTING AND I AM WITH SUNNY.  INTERESTING COMBO.

QUIET DAY FOR A CHANGE.  A COUPLE OF PHONE CALLS AND A TRIP TO THE LIBRARY. OTHERWISE, NADA.

GWENN


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Post by: corbet on March 03, 2010, 05:46:59 AM

      M,ARILYN,
                         I hope you don"t get thrown of the plane  for riotous behavior,  or I shan"t have a roomate.

                      About the shuttle the Marriott does not have one. However! when I went to the Gala I found

                      there is a shuttle from the airport called Super Shuttle, Blue Van the number is 1-800-258-3826
         
                        I paid $28 or $16 one way to the Marriott. I think they may have a group fare if there are several

                          of you.   They are located right on the airport and you can book ahead. Worked for me!!


                                             Betty


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Post by: Marilyn on March 03, 2010, 06:12:11 AM
Thanks, Betty- appreciate the info


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Post by: claydevotee on March 03, 2010, 08:12:53 AM
Good morning!

Nothing much to say...just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you!  Yesterday's workout at the health club went surprisingly well, although I'm feeling the effects of it this morning.  I loved walking the beautiful track on the perimeter of the gym and using my favorite piece of equipment The NuStep.   .  However, the down side of this is that we ended up going afterwards to a new restaurant in town and eating thick, juicy hamburgers and fries.   So much for the calorie burn!!  :lol  We''ll try to do better tomorrow!   :para  :lol

Enjoy the excitement in planning for the PBS concert trek next week.

Have to make my daily call to my mother  :phone   then get ready to tackle a mountain of laundry.  But at least the sun is shining!!!



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Post by: Marilyn on March 03, 2010, 09:16:53 AM
Ah, Thea- but imagine if you did NOT work out first. At least that  excercise should cancel out the burgers etc.

I REALLY need to work out-and get more sleep!!


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Post by: wvclayfan on March 03, 2010, 09:35:07 AM
Good for you, Thea, on the exercise! Believe it or not, because of the way our bodies burn fat when we exercise, that burger and fries probably wasn't AS bad as you may think.  :smile And, like you said, better choices the rest of the day and tomorrow! I started keeping a food journal in October and strive for "balanced" days, as opposed to "good" and "bad" (as I used to call them). I only recently started incorporating exercise into my daily routine. So far, so good though.  :bouncy

Love Phineas and Ferb ... and that Clay will be "on" the show. :purpbana


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Post by: claydevotee on March 03, 2010, 10:13:02 AM
LINDSAY and MARILYN, thanks so very much for the encouragement.  :hugg :hugg Sore muscles and all, I'm feeling much more alive today than I have in over a year.  Exercise and all of the accompanying pain and misery is a very a good thing!!!   :bouncy

LINDSAY, and kudos on your long-term self-discipline!!!  You're going to be one very beautiful and svelte bride!!!


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Post by: GWENN on March 03, 2010, 01:29:27 PM
I SPENT A QUIET AFTERNOON.  WATCHED A STUPID MOVIE BUT THAT IS FINE.  I JUST NEEDED TO NOT THINK.

GWENN


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Post by: Pepe on March 03, 2010, 01:38:11 PM
THEA, I could almost taste that burger and fries you had, it sounded so good.  Good for you for going to the gym, I hope it helps build your bones and strengthen them.  I am really aware of bones now since mine keep breaking everytime I move.  Hope all goes well with your mother and the move.  You are so lucky to have her to be able to call.  I miss my mother so very much, not a day goes by without me thinking of her.  I know what a wise woman she was now.



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Post by: Sundancer on March 03, 2010, 01:43:58 PM
Ah, I envy you, Pepe. Unfortunately, not everyone is lucky enough to have had a wonderful mom, myself included. For those in the boat with me, :hugg


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Post by: Sundancer on March 03, 2010, 01:44:30 PM
What movie did you see, Gwenn?


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Post by: GWENN on March 03, 2010, 01:51:56 PM
What movie did you see, Gwenn?

500 DAYS OF SUMMER.  INANE AND MINDLESS.  JUST WHAT I NEEDED.

GWENN


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Post by: mimi on March 03, 2010, 05:49:33 PM
I just checked the extended forecast for next Thur & Fri.and it ain't pretty. :j_sad1: :cry

Thur Showers Hi 47 low 34 chance of rain 80%
Fri  Rain Hi 48 low 37 chance of rain 80%

This has changed since this morning, because it was showing Fri was going to be sunny & in the mid 50s...which would have been wonderful.
Hopefully it will change again before next week. If not just be sure an include an umberella in your bag.

Can someone give me a good reason why the concert is not being advertised ?

I was checking for the schedule for Koka Booth Ampitheatre( thought maybe Clay might be scheduled there, NOT) and typed in Clay so tickets for Clay concert came up..These are tickets for the Progress Energy concert and there are SO MANY. Ticket Tango , I didn't even bother to count , some sections there are 5 seats available in a section. At Tickets Now there are 131 tickets available from $25.00 to $267.00 It is really making me wonder how many people are going to actually be in a seat.

What happens to all these tickets ..Do they just go unsold,or are they turned in before the concert ?

What I guess I'm asking is, if good tickets do become available, how are people suppose to know there is a concert without any publicity?  :nixweiss:


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 03, 2010, 06:33:00 PM
Hope everyone is having a good week.

We had snow here this morning and it is supposed to be 60 by this weekend.  I am so ready for Spring, sunshine and warmer temperatures that last longer than one day.

I have wondered if Disney had washed their hand of Clay so I was very happy to read that he is going to be in Phineas and Ferb.  Of course, I have never heard of the show but I will be sure to watch when Clay is on.

Clay really does seem to have a lot of things going on right now and I am very glad to see his name mentioned with the big boys--Decca, Disney, PBS and, hopefully many more to come.  Keep up the good work Clay.

Thea & Lindsay - way to go girls, keep up the good work

Gwenn - hope all your frustration with doctors and medical offices is over soon

Marilyn
- Have a good flight to RDU but I hope I  don't open up the N & O and see your picture with the caption " Clay Aiken fans take over flight from NYC to RDU"     :bigsmile



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Post by: mimi on March 03, 2010, 06:40:06 PM
Looks like I'm here by myself, but I just wanted to let you know that the therapist got Ruth up today. She started out sitting on the side of the bed dangling her leg over the side ..then they got her up, and she stood on her leg for almost 10 min. Moose said, when she laid back down she smiled at him and said," I told you I could stand on my one good leg" At least she hasn't lost her sense of humor. She no longer is on the IV and is eating solid food now.
 The hospital is sending a group of theraptists to evaluate Ruth to see if she will qualify to start in rehab at a local hospital, when she is ready to be released from Duke. This will be a God sent for Moose as he is having to travel back and forth from Raleigh to Durham each day.

Marlene :hugg



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Post by: Sundancer on March 03, 2010, 06:48:46 PM
I was checking for the schedule for Koka Booth Ampitheatre( thought maybe Clay might be scheduled there, NOT) and typed in Clay so tickets for Clay concert came up..These are tickets for the Progress Energy concert and there are SO MANY. Ticket Tango , I didn't even bother to count , some sections there are 5 seats available in a section. At Tickets Now there are 131 tickets available from $25.00 to $267.00 It is really making me wonder how many people are going to actually be in a seat.
Um... one? :wink


Go, Ruth!
:cheer :bouncy


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Post by: mimi on March 03, 2010, 06:58:03 PM
Very clever Sunny, but you know what I meant :bigsmile

Maybe I should have said how many people will actually be filling the seats.

Did anyone watch AI.. Talk about making your ears bleed ,WOW!


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 03, 2010, 07:00:10 PM
Marlene - that is absolutely fabulous news about Ruth.  She really  must be a fighter.  Good for her.


If you want some good reading, run--don't walk over the the ANN and read Caro's blog for today.  

Be absolutely sure to scrolll all  the way down and read "Turnaround".  Wonderful article


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Post by: Sundancer on March 03, 2010, 07:00:37 PM
Very clever Sunny, but you know what I meant :bigsmile

Maybe I should have said how many people will actually be filling the seats.

Did anyone watch AI.. Talk about making your ears bleed ,WOW!
I started watching it, but had to turn it off. What was this week's category--boring performances? :para


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Post by: claydevotee on March 03, 2010, 07:04:53 PM
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Did anyone watch AI.. Talk about making your ears bleed ,WOW!

I did, MARLENE!  And I absolutely loved Siobhan's (sp?) "ear-bleeding" last note.  I really like her;  she seems so comfortable in her own skin, so to speak.  Also love Crystal and the other gal with the platinum-blond hair who played the 12-string guitar.  (Dayum, my memory's going down the tube!   :bang)

Regarding Ruth....I am in awe of the courage she is showing in dealing with her amputation.   I can't even begin to comprehend going through what she is right now.  My prayers and positive thoughts continue to go out to her.  

GWENN, so happy you had a relaxing day.  I know this is just the calm before the storm for you and Barry.   :comfort



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Post by: claydevotee on March 03, 2010, 07:07:13 PM
 :wave WILSON BARB!  Hope you're feeling better.  I will go check out the blog you mentioned.  Thanks!  :hugg


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 03, 2010, 07:18:23 PM

Did anyone watch AI.. Talk about making your ears bleed ,WOW!
I started watching it, but had to turn it off. What was this week's category--boring performances? :para

Sunny, they saved the best for last tonight.  I don't remember her name but the girl that sang "Think" really brought some life to the show and made me think about how much I loved the song in the JBT.


Thea, thanks for the good wishes -- I think I will feel better when it finally gets warm


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Post by: claydevotee on March 03, 2010, 07:27:07 PM
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Sunny, they saved the best for last tonight.  I don't remember her name but the girl that sang "Think" really brought some life to the show and made me think about how much I loved the song in the JBT.

WILSON BARB, the girl's name is Siobhan.  (she's the glass blower).  I loved her story about finally learning to nail that high note in the shower;  she attributed this to listening to Kelly Clarkson!!!



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Post by: clayharmony on March 03, 2010, 10:11:27 PM
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Did anyone watch AI.. Talk about making your ears bleed ,WOW!

I did, MARLENE!  And I absolutely loved Siobhan's (sp?) "ear-bleeding" last note.  I really like her;  she seems so comfortable in her own skin, so to speak.  Also love Crystal and the other gal with the platinum-blond hair who played the 12-string guitar.  (Dayum, my memory's going down the tube!   :bang)

Regarding Ruth....I am in awe of the courage she is showing in dealing with her amputation.   I can't even begin to comprehend going through what she is right now.  My prayers and positive thoughts continue to go out to her.  

GWENN, so happy you had a relaxing day.  I know this is just the calm before the storm for you and Barry.   :comfort



Thea...I'll just say ditto to your entire post!  Completely agreed with it all, including my favorite AI singers...a few bright spots (and I'll admit it...don't have a lot in common with Kara...but I do think Casey is adorable...and talented... :blush)...and indeed, be sure to read that Turnaround blog...it was written by Berkeley...if it hadn't been posted before I got here tonight, I was definitely going to add it....I surely hope to meet her one day...I admire her greatly.


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Post by: GWENN on March 04, 2010, 03:20:08 AM
UP AT THE CRACK OF DAWN.  BARRY SET THE ALARM AN HOUR EARLY. :bang :bang :bang

MARLENE--NOT GONNA STRESS ABOUT CLAY AND THE CONCERT.  ONE PROBLEM IS TM.  BECAUSE OF HOW THEY DID THINGS, MANY SEATS ARE SINGLES.  THAT CAUSES A PROBLEM FOR THE NJU WHO WANT TO SPEND AN EVENING WITH FRIENDS.  ANOTHER IS THE BETTER SEATS WENT TO BROKERS.  THEY DON'T GET THAT CLAY ISN 'T AS HOT A TICKET AS HE USED TO BE AND MANY OF THOSE SEATS WILL GET TURNED BACK.  THEY ARE USUALLY EXCELLENT SEATS.  PBS FOLKS WILL ARRANGE EVERYONE SO THAT THE PLACE LOOKS FULL.  THAT IS THEIR JOB.

ALSO GOOD NEWS ABOUT RUTH.  A VERY BRAVE WOMAN.

DON'T WATCH AI.  DON'T INTEND TO.  THAT BOAT HAS SAILED FOR ME.  FROM WHAT I AM HEARING ON OTHER SHOWS, NOT A BANNER YEAR.

THEA--YOU ARE SO SWEET.

HI TO EVERYONE ELSE.  GOTTA GET IN THE SHOWER AT THIS UNGODLY HOUR. 

PLEASE THINK OF US TODAY.  I AM VERY NERVOUS.

GWENN


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Post by: Marilyn on March 04, 2010, 04:21:11 AM


Marilyn
- Have a good flight to RDU but I hope I  don't open up the N & O and see your picture with the caption " Clay Aiken fans take over flight from NYC to RDU"     :bigsmile



Nah, not me- I am the epitome of decorum

AI- I like Crystal, too. Lilly not so much-yes, she is different, but to me her voice seemed to be all over the place. I like the one who played the piano but the song was slooooow (tmCA). Siobhan was refreshing, also.
I think to me Crystal is a front runner.

GWENN,  :hugg :hugg


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Post by: lovinclay on March 04, 2010, 06:25:59 AM
Gwenn,  :hugg

AI.....I think it's going to be a ladies year.  Love Crystal and Siobhan.  The only guy who interests me at this point is the guy with the glasses.  Has anyone noticed Kara's "head-atude"?  She shakes that head and finger and it gets on my last nerve.   :bang I never thought I'd say this, but I want Paula back.  I'm actually liking Ellen.  I shouldn't judge this early in the season, but this year seems to be AI's worst.  However, I could change my mind two months from now. 

Seems like Clay will be very busy this year.  That's great news!  I'd love to see him on some prime-time programs where he would get great exposure.  Who knows?  Maybe we will. 



Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 04, 2010, 06:28:54 AM
I'd love to see him get great exposure, too. :slick


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayfannj on March 04, 2010, 06:32:58 AM
We're with you, Gwenn... :ghug :cross

Even in the worse scenario and the venue is not sold out, it will be shot accordingly to cover that. And, let's keep in mind the "Eye on the Prize" is that he will have a PBS special to be shown to a much wider audience potentially over and over again. This will hopefully expand his fan base. All I can do is to share with you the fact that this "worked" for me. I watched a PBS  special several months ago  with an Israeli singer  named Dudu Fisher. I never heard of him but read he was becoming a sensation throughout Europe. He was a smashing success in his role of Phantom in London and Israel. After watching it I found his voice so compelling that  several weeks later when he appeared on his tour at the State Theater in New Brunswick I got tickets.  It was wonderful, but more importantly the house was PACKED..Not an empty seat, even up to the rafters.. I credit that PBS special that played several times the weeks before he toured.. It was the promo for him. Same formula I am hoping will work for Clay.

Great news for Ruth.. Thea, I am so proud of you!!

It works..I just got back my Bone Density test and I am at risk for the 2 meds I am on for Thyroid and Breast cancer..They both leach out Calcium. Anyway, I hav been doing the gym on a fairly regular basis. My report came back for my age, gender, body, height that I am above normal in bone strength. That was worth every  pull and every lift!! I'm seeing there is a "health sub culture " of people who attend the gym regularly and  being one who abused her body for so many years it was like immigrating into a foreign country. It is not so alien to me now. and like everything else one changes in her life ,is something I am getting comfortable with and enjoying. I feel 100% better , stronger  and more energized that ever..  It really is all about what is on the inside..Go for it ,Thea..Make yourself important enough...


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 04, 2010, 06:56:59 AM
 :hugg :hugg MARION, thank you so much for the pep talk and inspiration regarding "putting myself first" by regularly working out at the gym.  Very interesting about the breast cancer med leaching the calcium out of our bones , although I did know about thyroid meds doing so.   Anyway, I so needed to hear this today.  And congrats on your excellent stats....it seems you've found your fountain of youth, woman...

MICKI, I agree that already Kara's antics are wearing thin.  I also miss Paula---I always maintained that under that "gibberish" there was some validity to her critiques.  I'm also starting to enjoy Ellen more....it was actually a welcome relief when she threw out a few comedic observations.  As to Randy, I'm actually feeling sorry for him as he is trying so hard to keep the peace on the judge's panel and to prevent Simon from jumping all over Ellen.  That being said, I still value Simon's often harsh criticism, and I would hope the contestants do, as well.

Life was so much simpler in the old "AI 2 Days", don't you think???

Hugs to all here....I'm so happy to come here every morning to see what all of you intelligent, insightful and dear ladies have to say. 

Off to the races!!! Have a good one. 



Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Jan on March 04, 2010, 08:17:13 AM
HELLO TO ALL YOU GALS
I USUALLY PEEK IN AT YOU AND FIND OUT THE LATEST CLAY NEWS BUT SEEMS I NEVER HAVE ANYTHING OF INTEREST TO SAY SO JUST READ.

WONDERFUL THAT CLAY IS GOING TO BE ON PBS. MAYBE THAT IS THE BEGINNING OF A BRAND NEW , FRESH START TO HIS CAREER. WISH I COULD BE GOING TOO BUT CANNOT. MAYBE HE WILL TOUR IN TAMPA, IT SEEMS HE ALWAYS HAS LIKED THAT VENUE. THEN I COULD MEET BETTY!!!!!

FINALLY AFTER 6 WEEKS I GOT MY DRIVERS LICENSE. UNDER THE NEW RULES IT IS NOT SO EASY ANYMORE.
AND THIS MONTH HAVE SPENT MOST OF MY TIME IN THE DENTISTS CHAIR :bang ONE LAST VISIT AND I AM THROUGH.
MY ART HAS BEEN BADLY NEGLECTED TOO.

WAITING FOR MY GIRLFRIEND TO PICK M E UP FOR LUNCH AND A MOVIE. (I SHOULD BE PAINTING  :naughty

I DO BELIEVE THAT SUMMER IS RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER. ENOUGH OF THIS COLD WINTER!!!!

LUV
JAN AKA JEANNE

HI THEA, MISS YOU  :wave


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 04, 2010, 08:43:00 AM
BACK FROM THE NEUROSURGEON.  BARRY'S SURGERY IS MARCH 17.  PREOP NEXT WEEK.  I AM HAPPY WITH THIS MAN AND THE HOSPITAL IS IN THE TOP 10 OF THE WHOLE COUNTRY.  THIS GUY WENT TO DUKE MEDICAL SCHOOL.  ETC.  ANYWAY, HIS PAIN WILL SEE AN END.  THANKS FOR ALL THE HUGS.

THEA--GOOD FOR YOU AND THE GYM.  IF I COULD DRIVE, I WOULD JOIN, BUT I CAN'T STAND WAITING UNTIL SOMEONE HAS DECIDED TO TAKE ME AND PICK ME UP.  BARRY DOES ENOUGH.  SO, I WALK AND DO MY BEST HERE.  BESIDES, I HATE TO SWEAT AND WHEN I EXERCISE, IT JUST POURS. 

JAN--GOOD TO SEE YA. :hugg

MICKI--HOW IS THE PACKING GOING?

GOTTA WALK THE DOGS AND PLAY MAH JONGG.  I REALLY NEED IT. 

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Pepe on March 04, 2010, 10:28:42 AM
MARION, how wonderful that you got a good report on your bone density.  I am so very happy for you.  It is no fun breaking bones everytime you bend over or reach the wrong way.  Of course mine I am sure is caused from the steriods I have taken for the past two years for my lungs. 

Since there was some comment on AI here I guess I can post my view also.  Still  not quite sure what is allowed as topics on this thread at times I heard it was just Clay topics so if I am ever in the wrong just let me know.  I also like Crystal the best, I feel she is what I call a real artist.  I have a feeling she has a real health problem though.  I think this year is the weakest in contestants I have seen  yet almost to the point of not caring if I miss a show or not.  I have become very fond of Ellen, that is a real surprise to me.  Kara I never liked her and still don't.  What is going on with her and Simon  now that he is not going out with that other girl any more is Kara trying to take her place.

GWENN, I wish Barry the best in his  upcoming surgery which happens to be St. Patricks Day, I hope the surgery is successful and leaves Barry pain free.  Mary from the Red Thong thread just had neck and back surgery yesterday and is doing very well and will be facing another back surgery in the future. 




Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Glory on March 04, 2010, 10:47:17 AM



                                     WELL MY LANDLORD ASK ME IF I WANTED TO BUY THE HOUSE, HE IS GOING TO SELL IT. I THINK I WILL GO ON MY BEAUTIFUL DECK AND SCREAM. :lmao ,NOT FUNNY, NOT EXACTLY SURE WHAT TO DO NOW.ITS A OLD HOUSE BUT CHARMING, ON 1.1/2 ACRE OF LOVELY LAND. I THINK I WILL JUST GO TO SLEEP MAYBE WHEN I WAKE UP IT WILL BE A BAD DREAM.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Marilyn on March 04, 2010, 11:20:33 AM
I'd love to see him get great exposure, too. :slick

Ahh!! a gal after my own heart!!


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 04, 2010, 11:54:07 AM

                                     WELL MY LANDLORD ASK ME IF I WANTED TO BUY THE HOUSE, HE IS GOING TO SELL IT. I THINK I WILL GO ON MY BEAUTIFUL DECK AND SCREAM. :lmao ,NOT FUNNY, NOT EXACTLY SURE WHAT TO DO NOW.ITS A OLD HOUSE BUT CHARMING, ON 1.1/2 ACRE OF LOVELY LAND. I THINK I WILL JUST GO TO SLEEP MAYBE WHEN I WAKE UP IT WILL BE A BAD DREAM.
Oh no, Glory! And you worked so hard to find that house! I'm so sorry he's going to sell it. Maybe the buyers will not want to move in, but will want to continue your lease. :cross :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Marilyn on March 04, 2010, 12:31:18 PM



                                     WELL MY LANDLORD ASK ME IF I WANTED TO BUY THE HOUSE, HE IS GOING TO SELL IT. I THINK I WILL GO ON MY BEAUTIFUL DECK AND SCREAM. :lmao ,NOT FUNNY, NOT EXACTLY SURE WHAT TO DO NOW.ITS A OLD HOUSE BUT CHARMING, ON 1.1/2 ACRE OF LOVELY LAND. I THINK I WILL JUST GO TO SLEEP MAYBE WHEN I WAKE UP IT WILL BE A BAD DREAM.

Oh, no Glory- that is awful! Would you be able to buy it? Can your kids help you out? I would be screaming too


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Moonshot on March 04, 2010, 12:32:56 PM



                                     WELL MY LANDLORD ASK ME IF I WANTED TO BUY THE HOUSE, HE IS GOING TO SELL IT. I THINK I WILL GO ON MY BEAUTIFUL DECK AND SCREAM. :lmao ,NOT FUNNY, NOT EXACTLY SURE WHAT TO DO NOW.ITS A OLD HOUSE BUT CHARMING, ON 1.1/2 ACRE OF LOVELY LAND. I THINK I WILL JUST GO TO SLEEP MAYBE WHEN I WAKE UP IT WILL BE A BAD DREAM.

Will he let you rent to own?


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Glory on March 04, 2010, 12:42:13 PM




                                          I AM GOING TO TALK MORE TO HIM TONIGHT AND SEE IF SOMETHING CAN BE WORKED OUT. I FOUND A NICE HOUSE IN TOWN BUT ITS 200.00 MORE A MONTH. GEE LIFE WITH OH MIGHTY ONE IS NEVER DULL. I AM  STILL IN SHOCK I NEED TO CALM DOWN WRITE MY PRIORITIES OUT AND CONSIDER WHAT IS BEST FOR ME.

                                   


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 04, 2010, 01:21:01 PM
GLORY, so sorry to hear about your rental house being put up for sale.  I wouldn't panic quite yet, though, since the housing market is so slow right now.  Hopefully he won't actually be able to sell it for a very long time;  in the meantime I would think he would be happy to have somebody living in the house to keep it tidy, nicely decorated and furnished.  However, all that being said, I can certainly understand your frustration right now.   :comfort


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 04, 2010, 01:37:02 PM
 :wave JEANNE, it's good to see you too :wave!  :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 04, 2010, 01:54:14 PM
GWENN, please lean on us over the next few weeks.   :hugg

Need a short nap.  zzzzzzzzzzzz


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 04, 2010, 04:14:44 PM
I WANTED TO SHARE THIS.

ANYONE WHO KNOWS BARRY KNOWS HE HAS ABOUT AS MUCH ROMANCE IN HIM AS THE MAN IN THE MOON.  BUT HE DID THE MOST ROMANTIC THING TODAY HE EVER DID IN THE NEAR 35 YEARS I KNOW HIM.  I TOLD HIM I FELT SO BAD ABOUT GOING TO RALEIGH NEXT FRIDAY.  I FELT GUILTY THAT MAYBE THE DOCTOR COULD DO THE SURGERY SOONER.  HIS RESPONSE---YOU DESERVE TO GO AFTER ALL YOU HAVE BEEN DOING FOR ME.  I STARTED TO CRY.

HE MAY BE ANNOYI9NG----AND HE IS----BUT I WILL NEVER FORGET THIS CONSIDERING HOW MUCH PAIN HE IS IN.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 04, 2010, 04:27:50 PM
Ohh, Gwenn! That is so sweet! He's a good man. :hugg

I'm glad he wants you to do the Raleigh trip--for purely selfish reasons. :wink


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 04, 2010, 04:34:50 PM
Oh, Gwenn, how sweet is that.  Barry may be annoying but I think you better hang on to him -- he  is a keeper.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 04, 2010, 05:00:01 PM
GWENN,  it's amazing how adversity can bring a couple even closer together.  What a sweet gift Barry gave you today.   Now you can go to Raleigh with joy and lightness in your heart.   :hugg


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Post by: Glory on March 04, 2010, 05:53:07 PM


                                   turned out to be a miscommunication I AM NOT MOVING AFTER ALL. LONG STORY :bduh

                                    GWENN HOW SWEET OF BARRY. :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 04, 2010, 06:18:00 PM
Yay, Glory! :bouncy I'm glad you won't have that hassle to go through. :bigsmile


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 04, 2010, 06:23:45 PM

          :yay       Glory, that is really good news


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on March 04, 2010, 10:35:39 PM
So glad to read the posts today...in particular, the good news about your confidence in Barry's medical team, Gwenn...and his sweet, loving comment about your upcoming trip (Clay fans have some amazing husbands...just read of a similar hubby's kindness on another board...keepers, oh yes!...now if one would just bop on into my life! lol)

And, Glory...what a relief, oh mighty one...you need to just nest in your cute little house...and be free to concentrate on our next Clay trek...why I'd love to rent a car, come pick you up...and drive us to what ever venue might be nearby... :bigsmile

Thea...maybe I'll catch the gym bug from you...it's so near...I've not got an excuses...must get beyond my discomfiture about my delightful workout appearance, and get on with it!...the day's when I could impress someone with my figure live on in yesteryear...sigh...at least I had some glorious times with all of that... :goodscales

Gwenn...a little Mah Jongg comment for you...third time...how  I started...with 3 0r 4 jokers...and then I drew more...trying to recall...I think I ended up with five!...and lots of ones...and by the end of the game, I think I had some idea what I should have tried to put together...such a waste ...hope I get lucky like that when I  have a bit of a clue how to play... :icon_rolleyes: :wink

Went to my first Sondheim class...saw a fabulous video of rehearsals for Follies at the Lincoln center...showcased Carol Burnett, Elaine Stitch, Betty Comdom and Adolf Green, a young and absolutely handsome/adorable Mandy Patinkin...oh I was in heaven!  ...at the Palm Springs Art Museum...wonderful venue...a fellow in my class knows/knew? Sondheim and was able to share extensively about casting...so cool!  (how I'd love to have been a part of musical theater/Broadway...just thrilling!)

ETA...I loved Danny Gokey tonight...love his single...he was my fav last year...still think he's terrific!


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: lucrezianoine on March 05, 2010, 12:38:55 AM
I WANTED TO SHARE THIS.

ANYONE WHO KNOWS BARRY KNOWS HE HAS ABOUT AS MUCH ROMANCE IN HIM AS THE MAN IN THE MOON.  BUT HE DID THE MOST ROMANTIC THING TODAY HE EVER DID IN THE NEAR 35 YEARS I KNOW HIM.  I TOLD HIM I FELT SO BAD ABOUT GOING TO RALEIGH NEXT FRIDAY.  I FELT GUILTY THAT MAYBE THE DOCTOR COULD DO THE SURGERY SOONER.  HIS RESPONSE---YOU DESERVE TO GO AFTER ALL YOU HAVE BEEN DOING FOR ME.  I STARTED TO CRY.

HE MAY BE ANNOYI9NG----AND HE IS----BUT I WILL NEVER FORGET THIS CONSIDERING HOW MUCH PAIN HE IS IN.

GWENN

Aww GWENN that is sweet indeed. :hugg I hope Clay appreciates it as well :bigsmile

Jules


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 05, 2010, 05:52:59 AM
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ETA...I loved Danny Gokey tonight...love his single...he was my fav last year...still think he's terrific!
I really liked his performance, too! I was sort of hit-or-miss on him last year. But I checked his CD out on Itunes, and I think I'm going to buy it. :bigsmile


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Post by: Sundancer on March 05, 2010, 06:00:18 AM
Angela had a baby last month. Haven't seen a copy of his birth certificate on the 'net yet. What's up with those CV chicks?? :lol

ANGELA ON FACEBOOK (http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000226401733&ref=mf)


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Glory on March 05, 2010, 06:56:55 AM


                                    WE HAVE A NEW BABY BORN 1 HR, AGO TIM DID NOT HAVE TIME TO GO INTO DETAIL, SO HE HAS THREE LITTLE GIRLS FAITH 4, HAVEN 2. AND NOW NEELIE I AM EXCITED TO BE A GRANDMA AGAIN. BUT I AM A YOUNG AT HEART GRANDMA I DON'T FEEL ANY DIFFERENCE :lol

                                           WHERE DOES IT SAY ANGELA HAD A BABY. :bduh


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 05, 2010, 07:08:24 AM
Aw, congratulations, Grandma Glory! :bouncy :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 05, 2010, 07:47:10 AM
MONRING--

CONGRATS TO GLORY AND FAMILY.  :clap :clap :clap GRANDCHILDREN--MAYBE SOMEDAY.   :nixweiss: :nixweiss: :nixweiss:  AND SOOOOO GLAD ABOUT THE HOUSE.

SO, ANGELA IS A MOM AGAIN.  INTERESTIN'. :icon_rolleyes: :nixweiss: :footinmouth:

JOHANNA---YOU WILL GET THE HANG OF IT.  5 JOKERS.   :icon_eek: :icon_eek: :icon_eek:  WOW.  A TIP--LOOK AT THE QUINTS WHEN YOU HAVE ALL THOSE JOKERS.  ANOTHER HINT--IF YOU ARE LOOKING TO TRY A HAND WITH 2 OF ANYTHING, TRY TO HAVE AT LEAST ONE SET.  FOR EXAMPLE, THE CONSECUTIVE HANDS--TRY TO HAVE EITHER 2 ONES OR 2 FIVES BEFORE YOU START PICKING.  YOU CAN CALL THE OTHER NUMBERS AND IF YOU NEED A ONE OR A FIVE FOR MAH JONGG, YOU CAN DO IT.  PERSONALLY, I AVOID HANDS THAT ARE CONCEALED AND HANDS WITH ALL DOUBLES.  TOO HARD CAUSE YOU CAN'T CALL ANYTHING.  NEW CARD COMING IN APRIL.  I DON'T LIKE THIS ONE SO I AM HAPPY.

NO IDEA WHAT I AM DOING TODAY.  DON'T CARE.  I AM POOPED.

GWENN


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Post by: Sundancer on March 05, 2010, 07:49:47 AM
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NO IDEA WHAT I AM DOING TODAY.  DON'T CARE.  I AM POOPED.
I do believe this is a first, my friend! :wink :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: lovinclay on March 05, 2010, 08:19:07 AM
Gwenn, I'm so happy that Barry will finally have his surgery and be on his way to "no pain". 

Glory, congrats on the new grandbaby and the house.  I'm glad you won't have to move.   I know you love your home. 

Marion, I have a similar story with PBS.  I was surfing channels before Xmas and came across a group of 10 men called "Straight No Chaser".  I loved their proformance so much, I immediately bought their CD.  I'm hoping for good things for Clay this year.

Thea, you go girl! 

I missed Danny Gokey last night.  I was watching AI, but I fell asleep before Danny's proformance.  (That's how interesting I find American Idol this year).   But, I will check out his CD on Amazon.  He was my favorite last year.....love his voice!!

So, Angela had another baby.  I'm happy for her.  I was shocked to see her other son is 11 years old!  Boy, time flys!


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 05, 2010, 10:17:28 AM
THE SUN IS SHINING AND I AM GOING OUT SOON FOR A DRINK WITH A FRIEND.  I NEED IT.

I NEED SOME MOVIE RECOMMENDATIONS.  PM IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING I CAN ORDER FROM NETFLIX.

GWENN


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Post by: Glory on March 05, 2010, 10:26:49 AM





                                     SINCE I DON'T DRINK I HAD A KIT KAT TO CELEBRATE ALL THE GOOD THINGS IN MY LIFE. WORKS FOR ME.


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Post by: GWENN on March 05, 2010, 10:30:23 AM





                                     SINCE I DON'T DRINK I HAD A KIT KAT TO CELEBRATE ALL THE GOOD THINGS IN MY LIFE. WORKS FOR ME.

GLORY---YOU CRACK ME UP. :lmao :lmao :lmao

GWENN


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Post by: corbet on March 05, 2010, 10:49:16 AM

    Gwenn,

                 How sweet of your husband to tell you to go to Raleigh and enjoy yourself. Husbands
                 can surprise uo from time to time.
                         
                  I"m glad you have found a surgeon you have confidence in...that is really important.
                   How wonderful it will be for you both when Barry is free from pain.

                      Do you still watch "Good Wife" it is one of my favourite TV shows. So much rubbish
                       on now.
                                                                   Betty


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 05, 2010, 11:56:40 AM
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Do you still watch "Good Wife" it is one of my favourite TV shows. So much rubbish
                       on now.

YES, WE DO.  LOVE IT.  I THINK IT IS SO WELL WRITTEN AND A DIFFERENT SPIN.  I ENJOY ALL OF THE CHARACTERS.  YOU ARE RIGHT.  MOST TV IS RUBBISH.

GWENN


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Post by: GWENN on March 05, 2010, 12:12:39 PM
SOMETHING THAT CROSSED MY MIND.   BARRY HAD A VINCE GILL CD PLAYING.  I THINK VINCE IS THE ONLY MALE COUNTRY SINGER WITH A VOICE COMPARABLE TO CLAY'S.  HIS CD'S SELL.  NOT MILLIONS BUT THEY SELL.  HE HAS TONS OF RESPECT IN THE COUNTRY WORLD.  HIS SONGS ARE MOSTLY SSSSSLLLLLOOOOOOWWWWWW SONGS.  IT IS JUST HIS STYLE.  HONESTLY, WITH ALL THE CRAP I HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH, THE SWEETNESS OF HIS VOICE WAS SOOTHING.  NOW I LOVE CLAY ROCKING AS MUCH AS ANYONE, BUT MAYBE HE IS MORE INTERESTED IN SINGING THIS KIND OF MUSIC NOW AND THEN.  I DON'T THINK I MIND.

GWENN


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Post by: Glory on March 05, 2010, 01:56:15 PM




                                       CLAY IS GONNA SING WHAT HE WANTS ANYWAY MIGHT AS WELL LIKE IT.

                                             BEEN TRYING TO CALL TIM TO FIND OUT MORE ABOUT THE BABY GET NO ANSWER. WILL TRY LATER.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: lorilovesgolf on March 05, 2010, 02:01:44 PM
Congratulations Glory!!!   :hugg


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Post by: Glory on March 05, 2010, 02:46:57 PM




                                             THANKS LORI, WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN I MISS YOU. :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 05, 2010, 05:08:50 PM
HAS ANYONE EVER DONE BATHFITTERS OR RE-BATH?

GWENN


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 05, 2010, 05:11:21 PM
Congratulations, Glory

Enjoy being a grandmother.  I whole-heartedly agree with something I saw on a T-shirt a few years ago -- If I'd known grandchildren were so much fun, I'd have had them first   :bigsmile

I seem to be down to my netbook because my "real" computer locked up last night and quit working.  I turned it on tonight and can't get it to boot up.  May not have time to take it in tomorrow because I have several appointments already scheduled. 

I have a real knack of losing posts on this computer about the time I finish one, so if you see a half a post that doesn't make any sense -- it's just me.   At least I'll be able to read.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 05, 2010, 05:51:03 PM
Looks like another concert has been announced -- can others be far behind

http://www.ciweb.org/popular-entertainment/





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Post by: Sundancer on March 05, 2010, 06:47:29 PM
Chautauqua, NY, in August. Should be pretty there, and not so oppressively hot, like Cary.

Still, I just can't get excited about half a concert's worth of Ruben. :para


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 05, 2010, 07:17:00 PM
Chautauqua, NY, in August. Should be pretty there, and not so oppressively hot, like Cary.

Still, I just can't get excited about half a concert's worth of Ruben. :para


Not my preference either, Sunny, but it looks like it will be that or nothing    :dunno


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 05, 2010, 07:29:48 PM
Chautauqua, NY, in August. Should be pretty there, and not so oppressively hot, like Cary.

Still, I just can't get excited about half a concert's worth of Ruben. :para


Not my preference either, Sunny, but it looks like it will be that or nothing    :dunno
Oh yes, that's true. I was just thinking that I probably won't be lining up 3 concerts in a row this tour. On the bright side, it'll save me some money. :shrug


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 05, 2010, 07:36:03 PM
Chautauqua, NY, in August. Should be pretty there, and not so oppressively hot, like Cary.

Still, I just can't get excited about half a concert's worth of Ruben. :para


Not my preference either, Sunny, but it looks like it will be that or nothing    :dunno
Oh yes, that's true. I was just thinking that I probably won't be lining up 3 concerts in a row this tour. On the bright side, it'll save me some money. :shrug


Good point    :yes


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Post by: clayharmony on March 05, 2010, 07:40:57 PM
Hi you all... :wave

Just speculating here...no basis for it...hee...I didn't get to the AI tour...but I don't think the show is going to be split in halves...ala the Independent tour...rather, I think they will intersperse their performances...and have some 'group' numbers too...I hoping with the gals...I like their singing/love their banter with Clay...and with Ruben in the mix...I think it might be the flavor of the Jukebox tour...dancing, sets etc.  After all they've both done musicals since they were last together...as you can see, my speculating includes what I think would be quite entertaining...sure hope CA/west dates show up soon...I think I'll check out a few venues... :bigsmile



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Post by: clayfannj on March 05, 2010, 07:41:28 PM
What nice news to find tonight...  Congratulations Glory. How wonderful for you to welcome your new grandchild....

Clay's concerts are starting to peek out between the clouds..

I'm with Sunny... But we need to regard the half concert as a glass half filled... He better put Reuben on last. I'll bet many won't stick around for the end of the show if Clay opens..


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Post by: Sundancer on March 05, 2010, 07:53:14 PM
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I'm with Sunny... But we need to regard the half concert as a glass half filled... He better put Reuben on last. I'll bet many won't stick around for the end of the show if Clay opens..
That's one reason I think they'll do it the way Johanna describes--mixing solos, duets, etc. throughout the show, rather than the way he and Kelly did it years ago, taking turns going first.


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Post by: claydevotee on March 05, 2010, 07:53:45 PM
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I'm with Sunny... But we need to regard the half concert as a glass half filled... He better put Reuben on last. I'll bet many won't stick around for the end of the show if Clay opens..
  
 

 
MARION, actually I think Clay fans are more likely stick around for Ruben than the other way around.  To me over the years it seems Clay fans in general have been more supportive of Ruben than Ruben fans have been of Clay.  

And add me to the list of those who aren't jumping for joy over watching Ruben share in Clay's limelight.  I just hope the critics are as kind to Clay as in all likelihood they will be to Ruben.  Right now I'm not sure I understand how anybody would think this collaboration is such a great idea.  However, I don't plan to lose any sleep over it.   :hypno

That being said, I'm trying to look at this in terms of "the glass is half full",  a la our very wise and sage friend MARION.  

GLORY, congrats on yet another (and then another....) grandchild!  You are richly blessed, and I know you know that, too!   :hugg

Off to bed....I'm exhausted.  See ya'll tomorrow!   :wave



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Post by: Glory on March 05, 2010, 07:56:44 PM


                                       DOES NOT EXCITE ME IN THE LEAST. WISH HE HADN'T DONE THIS.NOT SURE I CAN SPEND THIS KIND OF MONEY FOR A HR. CONCERT. MAKES ME SAD.  WILL SEE WHAT HAPPENS AT ONE BEFORE I BOOK A FLIGHT THATS FOR SURE.

                                           BABY NEELIE WEIGHED 8LBS SLEPT ALL DAY ACCORDING TO TIM. EMILY SAID SHES POOPED. :lol NOPE QUITE EXHAUSTING WHEN LABOR GOES FOR 2OR 3 DAYS. TIM SAID SHE IS A DOLL. AWE.


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Post by: Marilyn on March 05, 2010, 09:33:32 PM
HAS ANYONE EVER DONE BATHFITTERS OR RE-BATH?

GWENN

I have done bathfitters. I love it- one piece with a corner shelf. Peach colored. Clean, no nooks and crannies. Absolutely wonderful


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Post by: mrs. c. on March 06, 2010, 03:13:05 AM
HAS ANYONE EVER DONE BATHFITTERS OR RE-BATH?

GWENN

I have done bathfitters. I love it- one piece with a corner shelf. Peach colored. Clean, no nooks and crannies. Absolutely wonderful

 :yeahthat Me too Gwenn.  Our main bath was done about 10+ years ago.  Still love it, still looks like brand new, I would reccomend to anyone!


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Post by: quynn on March 06, 2010, 05:42:36 AM
 :hello2  I haven't had a chance to keep up with all the news here.

Gwenn, so happy to hear that Barry's doc appointment went well and things are moving forward to help relieve his pain.  He really "gets" how medicinal this PBS concert will be for your soul.  It has the potential to make you a happy nurse.  :wink :smile

Congratulations on your grand baby, Glory!  I bet you can't wait to get your hands on her.

Bath Fitters...I've never done it, but know people who have and they loved the outcome.


Marlene...your friend Ruth is a remarkable woman.  She is very fortunate to have such a supportive, caring friend.

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but I don't think the show is going to be split in halves...ala the Independent tour...rather, I think they will intersperse their performances...and have some 'group' numbers too...I hoping with the gals...I like their singing/love their banter with Clay...and with Ruben in the mix...I think it might be the flavor of the Jukebox tour...dancing, sets etc.

I like the way you speculate, Johanna!  Could you please some how get this concept to Team Clay!   :lol  I think something like this could make for a fun concert.  I did enjoy the JBT.  The two of them had "chemistry" on AI and were fun to watch.  I also wonder what Ruben will be singing.  Will it be a "themed" show....oldies covers, or will he be singing new R&B from his CD's?  Is he considered R&B? 

Been missing my kitty who passed away last month.  I have an appointment at the shelter today to adopt a kitty who needs a new family to love.   :kitty

Only 6 more days to the concert.   :shappy   I'm looking forward to the party.   


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 06, 2010, 05:43:42 AM
MORNING--

SHARON AND MARILYN--THANKS FOR YOUR IMPUT.  ER'S HOUSE HS A TUB THAT NEEDS HELP.  IT IS NOT DIRTY OR CRACKED OR ANYTHING BUT IT APPEARS SOMEONE IN THE PAST TRIED TO RESURFACE THE TUB AND NOT A PROFESSIONAL.  IT IS A LITTLE MORE EXPENSIVE THAN I THOUGHT IT WOULD BE.  THEY NEED TO GET AN ESTIMATE.  THE TUB IS PERFECTLY USABLE.  THE TILES ARE FINE.  IT JUST DOESN'T LOOK NICE.

CLAY AND RUBEN TOURING----I MAY NOT BE NUTS FOR RUBEN, BUT HE HAS A PLEASANT VOICE AND FROM THOSE WHO SAW HIM WITH DF, HE HAS GOTTEN BETTER.  TO ME IT IS A GOOD IDEA.  WE HAVE SOMETHING WE HAVE TO FACE.  CLAY IS NO WHERE NEAR THE STAR HE WAS 4 YEARS AGO.  HE JUST ISN'T.  IF WE WANT TO SEE HIM ON TOUR, WE ARE GONNA HAVE TO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT HE CANNOT FILL A VENUE ON HIS OWN.  THE CONCEPT OF REENACTING THE FUN AND EXCITEMENT OF AI2 IS NOT A BAD IDEA.  THERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO MAY REMEMBER THAT "FIRE" OF WHO WOULD WIN.  THERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO IDEA WHAT CLAY OR RUBEN HAVE BEEN UP TO THE LAST 7 YEARS.  AND IF THEY KEEP THE TICKET PRICES THIS LOW, MORE PEOPLE WILL OPT TO SPEND AN EVENING TO SEE.  IT GIVES CLAY AN OPPORTUNITY TO LURE BACK THOSE WHO MIGHT STILL BE CASUAL FANS.  COMBINED WITH THE PBS SPECIAL, IT MAY GARNER NEW FANS.

LADIES, LET'S BE BRUTALLY HONEST.  IF CM IS A MICROCOSM OF WHAT THE FANDOM USED TO BE, MANY, MANY, MANY LEFT THE FANDOM WHEN CLAY CAME OUT.  MANY.  THOSE OF US WHO ARE STILL HERE RESPECT THE TALENT, THE INTELLIGENCE, THE WIT, AND THE CHARM.  PEOPLE NEED TO SEE THAT AGAIN.  NEW FANS NEED TO BE MADE.  PUSHING THAT ---OH, YES, I REMEMBER THEM TOGETHER---BUTTON ISN'T A TERRIBLE IDEA.

WHO ELSE CAN HE TOUR WITH?  I HAVE WRACKED MY BRAIN FOR AGES AND CANNOT COME UP WITH ANYONE.  COUNTRY DOES NOT EMBRACE A GAY MAN.  NEITHER DOES CCM.  HE CERTAINLY IS NOT ROCK.  CLAY HEADLINED FOR A LONG, LONG TIME AND VERY SUCCESSFULLY.  HE CANNOT OPEN FOR ANYONE AND SAVE FACE. 

SO WE HAVE TO REALIZE THAT CLAY IS REINVENTING HIMSELF AND STARTING FROM THE GROUND UP.  HE ISN'T DOING THIS JUST FOR MONEY.  I THINK HE HAS PLENTY OF THAT.  HE IS DOING THIS TO REVITALIZE A CAREER THAT FELL WHEN HE CAME OUT.  HE IS DOING THIS FOR "US" CAUSE WE LOVE HIM IN CONCERT.  HE IS DOING THIS TO GET SOME NEW FANS.

ALL WE CAN DO IS WAIT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

GWENN


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Post by: clayharmony on March 06, 2010, 07:53:43 AM
MORNING--

CLAY AND RUBEN TOURING----I MAY NOT BE NUTS FOR RUBEN, BUT HE HAS A PLEASANT VOICE AND FROM THOSE WHO SAW HIM WITH DF, HE HAS GOTTEN BETTER.  TO ME IT IS A GOOD IDEA.  WE HAVE SOMETHING WE HAVE TO FACE.  CLAY IS NO WHERE NEAR THE STAR HE WAS 4 YEARS AGO.  HE JUST ISN'T.  IF WE WANT TO SEE HIM ON TOUR, WE ARE GONNA HAVE TO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT HE CANNOT FILL A VENUE ON HIS OWN.  THE CONCEPT OF REENACTING THE FUN AND EXCITEMENT OF AI2 IS NOT A BAD IDEA.  THERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO MAY REMEMBER THAT "FIRE" OF WHO WOULD WIN.  THERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO IDEA WHAT CLAY OR RUBEN HAVE BEEN UP TO THE LAST 7 YEARS.  AND IF THEY KEEP THE TICKET PRICES THIS LOW, MORE PEOPLE WILL OPT TO SPEND AN EVENING TO SEE.  IT GIVES CLAY AN OPPORTUNITY TO LURE BACK THOSE WHO MIGHT STILL BE CASUAL FANS.  COMBINED WITH THE PBS SPECIAL, IT MAY GARNER NEW FANS.

LADIES, LET'S BE BRUTALLY HONEST.  IF CM IS A MICROCOSM OF WHAT THE FANDOM USED TO BE, MANY, MANY, MANY LEFT THE FANDOM WHEN CLAY CAME OUT.  MANY.  THOSE OF US WHO ARE STILL HERE RESPECT THE TALENT, THE INTELLIGENCE, THE WIT, AND THE CHARM.  PEOPLE NEED TO SEE THAT AGAIN.  NEW FANS NEED TO BE MADE.  PUSHING THAT ---OH, YES, I REMEMBER THEM TOGETHER---BUTTON ISN'T A TERRIBLE IDEA.

WHO ELSE CAN HE TOUR WITH?  I HAVE WRACKED MY BRAIN FOR AGES AND CANNOT COME UP WITH ANYONE.  COUNTRY DOES NOT EMBRACE A GAY MAN.  NEITHER DOES CCM.  HE CERTAINLY IS NOT ROCK.  CLAY HEADLINED FOR A LONG, LONG TIME AND VERY SUCCESSFULLY.  HE CANNOT OPEN FOR ANYONE AND SAVE FACE. 

SO WE HAVE TO REALIZE THAT CLAY IS REINVENTING HIMSELF AND STARTING FROM THE GROUND UP.  HE ISN'T DOING THIS JUST FOR MONEY.  I THINK HE HAS PLENTY OF THAT.  HE IS DOING THIS TO REVITALIZE A CAREER THAT FELL WHEN HE CAME OUT.  HE IS DOING THIS FOR "US" CAUSE WE LOVE HIM IN CONCERT.  HE IS DOING THIS TO GET SOME NEW FANS.

ALL WE CAN DO IS WAIT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

GWENN

Gwenn...your post is right on...especially the part about the evolution of the interest right here on this board...it's time to face some facts, isn't it.  Even knowing what Clay's disclosure cost him, and the choices he has made regarding the genre he feels is his natural niche, I see how happy he is today, and I am so glad...and so in awe of his courage. 

I've not wanted to think so many fans found Clay's choices/and 'non-choices' not to their liking.  Remember how he used to say, you don't know everything about me...and he'd have a bit of a rueful look on his face.  The discomfiture that must have been for him...the pain.  I am sure he agonized over how to 'right' his life...realign it, if you will.  He probably had plenty of 'experts' telling him the damage it would do.  But thank goodness our Clay is stubborn, and is dedicated to the values he holds dear. 

David Foster  was greeted by a CHer...I think Pink Armchair over at her PBS station...shortly after Clay appeared on the People cover, and David talked proudly about his new nephew, etc....and she posted the serious/intent look on David's face, as she spoke of the fans that were still there for Clay.

I think many of Clay's inner circle of respected entertainment figures have given Clay advice as to how to proceed...Foster, Sedaka, Nichols, Sawyer - I bet even Dr. Phil...the list goes on...what other idol has such a varied set of mentors to draw upon...and with that I remain ever so hopeful that there is a reality to that phrase...'the best is yet to come' 

Clay's recent event re gay rights helped get an accurate perception out there about who he really is...the Clay we love so much...intelligent, witty, self-effacing...I am indeed hopeful...ah yes...that he'll finally garner the respect he is so due...and gain whole new segments of fans in the process...the gay community...the PBS community...to list a few.

The highlighted, underlined sentence of your post touched my heart, Gwenn...I teared up, ...this man loves us lots...and I hope he once again, basks in the love March 12th and he begins his personal 'season 2'...!


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 06, 2010, 08:01:59 AM
GWENN, I agree.  There aren't that many options available to Clay at this point in his career.  I'm not going to boycott Clay's concerts because I'm not a fan of Ruben's, but I'm certainly not enthusiastic.  I'm hoping to be pleasantly surprised by the "blending" of these two entertainers into a concert.  I wish Ruben well (but I wish Clay even more than that! )

As I said earlier, I'm just hoping that Ruben's fans will be as accepting and welcoming to Clay as I'm certain Clay fans will be with Ruben.  I'm just having a difficult time getting  some of the hateful comments about Clay made on the Ruben fan sites years ago out of my mind;  I hope all of that bitterness (and BTW why should they have been bitter...Ruben won!) has been replaced by mellowness and a willingness to move on from here....I'm sure all of us here are willing to make that effort and to move on, as well.

Regarding Bathfitters....I don't have any personal experience with them, but I do remember what a huge difference replacing our shower stall with another material made in the appearance of our bathroom.  I say "go for it".  Since we all spend a lot of time in our bathrooms, it's important to have things the way we prefer.  And I agree with you that "clean and no nooks and crannies" is definitely the way to go in a bathroom.  The alternative..EWWWWWW!!!


So happy ER and Gabe found their new home so quickly after all of the disappointments they had experienced!

JILL, so sorry about your little kitty.   :comfort  I hope that when you are ready you can find another little kitty that will help to fill the void you are now experiencing.  

Beautiful day today.  I'm going to try to get out to walk Mimi around the block.  Need to keep soaking up that Vitamin D from the sunshine.   Have a good one!!!







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Post by: Sundancer on March 06, 2010, 09:11:50 AM
Jill,

I'm so sorry about your kitty. Animals are so much a part of the family. I hope you find a new feline family member who wants to love you as much as you want to love him or her. :hugg


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Post by: Jan on March 06, 2010, 09:28:17 AM
GUYNN

sORRY ABOUT YOUR KITTY. OUR PETS HAVE A SPECIAL PLACE IN OUR HEARTS.
MY TESSIE IS 17 AND I WORRY ABOUT HER EVERY DAY, BUT SHE IS PRETTY HEALTHY.
 A NEW KITTY WILL NOT FILL THAT SPACE BUT WILL MAKE A NEW WARM ONE.

JUST HAD TO PUT MY 2 CENTS IN; REGARDING CLAY AND HIS TOUR WITH RUBEN.

CLAY JUST COULD NOT BRING IN ALL THE FANS THAT USED TO SPEND UNTOLD AMOUNTS OF MONEY ON TICKETS AND HOTELS AND PLANES NOW ANYWAY.
 THE ECONOMY IS SO BAD THAT THE AVERAGE FAN CANNOT AFFORD TO SEE HIM UNLESS HE PLAYED IN THEIR TOWN. SO THAT IS ONE STRIKE AGAINST HIM.

I WOULD STILL LOVE TO SEE HIM, HE IS WITTY AND FUNNY AND ENTERTAINING ALONG WITH HIS BEAUTIFUL VOICE, BUT I WOULD ONLY GO TO HIS TOUR IF HE PLAYED WITHIN DRIVING DISTANCE.
 I COULD NOT GET EXCITED ABOUT RUBEN BUT HE HAS A PLEASANT VOICE.

I CAN SEE CLAY IN THE FUTURE DOING WHAT BARRY MANILOW DOES. MAYBE WITH A GROUP BACK UP. I WISH HIM WELL AND I KNOW HE WILL NEVER JUST DISAPPEAR.

THEA
WE HAD OUR BATHROOM TOTALLY REDONE LAST YEAR AND LOVE IT. IT WAS IN THE 1950'S STYLE AND REALLY NEEDED AND FACELIFT. NOTHING LIKE A SPANKING NEW BATHROOM.

GOING TO A BRAHMS CONCERT THIS EVENING. WILL THINK OF YOU .  :smile

LUV :hugg
JEANNE AKA jAN


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Post by: clayharmony on March 06, 2010, 10:20:18 AM
If you are taking an R and R today...like me... :wink...you might want to have a listen to this...(I still am an ignoramus on the attractive way to post a link... :nixweiss:)  it's Crystal from the latest AI season...the almost only bright talent this time around...she is really good!...did I share that I loved the 60s folk era!...oh my, the girl has it!  Really!  Okay...here it is:

http://mjsbigblog.com/

scroll down...and click on Farmer's Daughter...and the next...

BTW...this is why I still watch the show...


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Post by: claydevotee on March 06, 2010, 11:47:54 AM
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GOING TO A BRAHMS CONCERT THIS EVENING. WILL THINK OF YOU . 


Thanks, JEANNE!   :hugg  Actually Phil is more of a Brahms fan than I am, but it certainly would be nice if we could all attend together.  Sigh, someday.

JOANN, I like Crystal, as well.  But I'm still thinking Lilly and Siobhan (sp) have yet to show us how really good they really are.  I agree with Simon Cowell that Siobhan could be the "dark horse" of this year's competition. 

As for  an "R&R" day fo, those days are few and far between for me anymore  :hypno .  Enjoy yours!  After all of these years of working, you deserve it!  :bigsmile


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Post by: GWENN on March 06, 2010, 02:33:15 PM
GETTING READY TO GO TO DINNER WITH THE KIDS AND GABE'S MOM AND STEP-DAD.  THEY ARE NICE PEOPLE.

A VERY QUIET DAY.  KIND OF NICE FOR A CHANGE.

GWENN


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 06, 2010, 04:24:35 PM
Gwenn - what a wonderful, thought provoking post you made this morning.

Whether we want to admit it or not, so many of the things you pointed out are the absolute truth.  I, too, think Clay and the people advising him are starting over on the ground level and going to try to build a good, solid foundation for a long-lasting career.

I plan to be around as long as I am able, so bring it on Clay      :smile


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Post by: Invisible Touch on March 06, 2010, 08:59:22 PM
 :hello2
Sorry to throw myself in here out of the blue but I decided to come out of lurkdom after about a month!  :inv2:
 
I've met some of you and always know that Claymaniacs and this thread is the place to go to get the best Clay info and a pulse on the fandom!

From my perspective, there hasn't been a great deal of "daily news" to keep me as alert on the message boards since he first started Spamalot.  I did make a trip to NYC for Spamalot (and LOVED it), but still never quite made it back to the message boards until about a month ago.

I never stopped loving Clay or his voice, there just didn't seem to be much info around and it was easy to get involved in real life and I slipped away from the constant Clay stuff.  It really had nothing to do with his coming out.   

I am excited at the prospect of a new album, PBS Special and tour.  I think it will be important to have a great deal of publicity simply to let people know he is back and has new material.  Hopefully there are plenty more like me that are just waiting for new stuff from Clay! 


Thanks,
Molly


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome
Post by: Prissy on March 06, 2010, 09:53:48 PM
Gwenn,

I just read your post and found it very insightful!  I wonder about Kimberly Locke joining Ruben and Clay for a tour? They were quite the threesome on AI2, and Kimberly was a good friend to both and even kept Clay's secret for a long time.  It would be fun to recapture the magic of AI2.  I have not watched AI for a few years, but I don't think any season since has grabbed the public's attention as much as AI2.  This could be the jump start needed for the career of all three!

If I were "staging" the show, I would have Kimberly come out first and start a song, then Clay come out and join her, and then Ruben join in.  Then let Kimberly have the stage first, and Clay second after a duet with Kim.  After Clay's numbers, Ruben comes out and sings a duet with Clay,  Then Ruben has the stage for a few songs.  Then Clay and Kim rejoin Ruben and they all sing a few more songs together to close the show.  Clay is absolutely hilarious, so I hope there would be lots of "happy banter" among all three.  It would be fun if an original song was written about their AI2 experience that they could sing together!!   :bigsmile





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Post by: Marilyn on March 06, 2010, 10:26:24 PM
Prissy, KLo has made it quite clear that she and Clay are no longer friends. I think it stems back to a couple of years ago (I think before the Summer 07 tour) where she was announcing a tour with herself, Clay and Ruben. Clay was surprised and said it was not going to happen. Evidently she suggested it to him and he said he would think about it and get back to her, but nothing was made definite. Then she went and jumped the gun and told an interviewer that they were all going to tour. When Clay said no way- it made KL look bad (as well it should have) so she claims he is not her friend any more.

Besides, after seeing her singing in her underwear on a cruise ship, and the things she has done since, makes me not want to see her again in concert. She is just not my cup of tea.

I do like Ruben- if he sings like "Luther Vandross" I wouldnt mind.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 07, 2010, 06:17:02 AM
Why was she singing in her undies?  I confess I went out onstage once in a costume bra when I couldn't find the sheer top that went with it, but that's different--I still wore the rest of the costume. Do you think maybe she just couldn't find the rest of what she was supposed to wear? :dunno


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 07, 2010, 07:20:14 AM
Good morning ladies

Just finished reading this article in the N & O this morning.  Since it has been the topic of much discussion lately, I thought I would bring "the rest of the story"


http://www.newsobserver.com/2010/03/07/374515/tickets-gone-before-theyre-even.html

Now we know why TM is so darn frustrating.

Check back after GD soccer game later today.


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Post by: lovinclay on March 07, 2010, 07:28:59 AM
Pam, it wasn't a costume bra.  It was her underwear.  Don't know why she did it.  Maybe she was a little tipsy.  :nixweiss: She has a huge gay following, and they seem to like that.  Go figure.  :bduh

I really don't mind Ruben and Clay touring together.  I always liked their chemistry during AI2.  With that said, I agree with everything Gwenn said up post.  Clay could never tour alone at this point.  There's not enough of us to fill venues like we did years ago.  I don't think there are many of us who would (or could) do multible concerts.  I believe the days of going to 7 or 8 concerts during a tour are over for most of us.  I hope to attend one if he tours near me, but I doubt I'll do more than that.....ok, maybe two.  Bringing Ruben into the mix will help sell tickets and possibly gain new fans.  I'm being optomistic and thinking it will be a fun tour, and I'm looking forward to it.   

Molly, good to see you again.  Don't be a stranger.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: lovinclay on March 07, 2010, 07:54:46 AM
Barb, interesting article.  Unfortunately, scalping has been going on forever.  I doubt it will ever change.  TPTB just turn their heads and pretend it doesn't happen.  If they start prosecuting the offenders like they did in NJ, maybe our grand children will see a change.  I know I've fed the fire by buying higher priced tickets from time to time.  I will again.  I just don't have the energy to fight Ticketmaster anymore for a seat in the last row of the balcony when I slept outside the venue and was second in line.   Or, 44th in line and told "sold out" when they got to the 35 person.  Nope, been there, done that.  If I'm fortunate enough to see Clay this summer, I'll probably go to an alternative ticket site, and avoid the "stress".  If not, I'll watch clack.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: wvclayfan on March 07, 2010, 08:06:33 AM
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I believe the days of going to 7 or 8 concerts during a tour are over for most of us.
Isn't that the truth. And a shame. :bigeyes:

Molly - I firmly believe there are more "online" fans like that. I say that because I was/am one of them. We can't be the only two. :lol I think the number of fans participating on the boards started to drop during the drought between JBT and ATDW. People move on and find other interests, but they still buy CDs and attend concerts (if they can). Although I agree Clay couldn't pull the concert attendee numbers he once did (right now anyway), I'm still amazed by the amount of people who log on to various boards when there is "news". 


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 07, 2010, 08:08:05 AM
MORNING--

MOLLY--LOVED SEEING YOU.  AND PRISSY ALSO.  I LOVE WHEN MORE FOLKS POST THEIR OPINIONS.

MICKI--I AM SO WITH YOU.  I HAVE USED BROKER TIX IN THE PAST.  DON'T LIKE DOING IT BUT I HAVE TO SEE.  THAT IS WHAT IS SO WONDERFUL ABOUT TELECHARGE.  THEY WORK WITH ME.  TM JUST DOESN'T. 

I AM NOT GONNA SAY HOW MANY CONCERTS I WILL OR WON'T SEE.  I MAY KNOW MORE AFTER FRIDAY.  BUT I WILL SAY THIS AS I HAVE SAID BEFORE.  SEEING CLAY IS NOT JUST ABOUT SEEING CLAY.  IT IS THE WHOLE EXPERIENCE.  INTERESTING PLACES AND SEEING AND BEING WITH NOW VERY DEAR FRIENDS.  SO, I WILL NOT MAKE A STATEMENT ONE WAY OR THE OTHER.  LET'S WAIT.

I  CANNOT BELIEVE IT IS IN ONLY 5 DAYS.  I CANNOT WAIT.  I NEED A BREAK AND I NEED CLAY'S VOICE RIGHT NOW.  HE SOOTHES MY SOUL AND MY SOUL NEEDS SOME MAJOR SOOTHING.  WATCHING BARRY IN SO MUCH PAIN IS JUST KILLING ME.

LAST NIGHT WAS LOVELY.  ER"S FUTURE IN-LAWS ARE NICE PEOPLE.  ER ON THE OTHER HAND NEEDS SOME STRESS RELIEF.  THE HOUSE CRAP IS OVERWHELMING.  GABE IS HANDLING IT BETTER.   AND SOME OTHER PROFESSIONAL STUFF THAT IS CAUSING PRESSURE.  THIS IS LIFE.  WATCHING YOUR KIDS DEAL AS ADULTS IS AN INTERESTING AND DIFFICULT THING.

GETTING TAX CRAP TOGETHER TODAY. 

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 07, 2010, 09:35:47 AM
Pam, it wasn't a costume bra.  It was her underwear.  Don't know why she did it.  Maybe she was a little tipsy.  :nixweiss: She has a huge gay following, and they seem to like that.  Go figure.  :bduh
Okay, there's a lot I don't understand about being gay. Like, why they would appreciate seeing Kim Locke in her underwear. :shrug

And, apparently, there are a few things I don't get about Kim Locke, either. :hypno


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 07, 2010, 09:37:35 AM
Good morning ladies

Just finished reading this article in the N & O this morning.  Since it has been the topic of much discussion lately, I thought I would bring "the rest of the story"


http://www.newsobserver.com/2010/03/07/374515/tickets-gone-before-theyre-even.html

Now we know why TM is so darn frustrating.
I know Dave from church; he's such a nice guy. And people there were already buzzing about his column this morning, so I'm looking forward to reading it.


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Post by: lucrezianoine on March 07, 2010, 10:16:06 AM
 :wave  Good morning/afternoon~

Hope everyone is having a nice weather for once. I know I was getting tired of the rain. It was nice to be able to take Ava on a walk in the park after a long period of not being able to.

Wow I'm really looking forward to how the PBS special will be. I'm really interested to hear Clay sing again in concert after seeing old videos of him in concert. Most of all I just want to hear his voice.

GWENN ~ Sorry about Barry and all the crazy stuff ER is going through right now with the house...I know I've been out of the loop for a while but is ER engaged? I think a reunion tour with Kelly Clarkson would be cool. Seems like compared to Kim Locke, she has stayed a strong friend to Clay, in addition to Reuben.

Just enjoying the day today. Will probably take the little girl out to the park again since its a nice day and I will eventually sit down to knit my first baby blanket for her. Hope it turns out alright!

Hugs and hellos to everyone else.

Jules


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Post by: Sundancer on March 07, 2010, 11:00:18 AM
Quote
I think a reunion tour with Kelly Clarkson would be cool.
Oh, I'd like that, too! Kelly has such a powerhouse voice, and she's so versatile. :thumb


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Post by: claydevotee on March 07, 2010, 11:34:05 AM
Quote
I think a reunion tour with Kelly Clarkson would be cool.
Oh, I'd like that, too! Kelly has such a powerhouse voice, and she's so versatile. :thumb

 :yeahthat  Absolutely, SUNNY.  But I'm afraid the days of a Kelly/Clay collaboration could be over, unless Clay's new CD becomes a blockbuster hit!  IMO Kelly has ascended to the position as one of the great divas of the decade, while Clay's start hasn't ascended to those heights....yet! 



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Post by: GWENN on March 07, 2010, 12:19:56 PM
JULES---ER IS ENGAGED.  HAPPENED AT MARDI GRAS.

CLAY AND KELLY---MAYBE SOMEDAY IN THE FUTURE.  SHE DOESN'T NEED HIM AT ALL.  TOO BAD.  THEY ARE SUCH GOOD FRIENDS.  SHE HAS COME A LONG WAY SINCE THE IT.

BEAUTIFUL AFTERNOON.  BEEN READING IN THE SUNROOM.  BEEN A LONG TIME SINCE I COULD DO THAT.

GWENN



Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 07, 2010, 01:40:11 PM
For those coming to the PBS taping, so you'll know what to pack. At least, it'll be warm:

RALEIGH WEATHER FOR THE WEEK (http://www.weather.com/outlook/travel/businesstraveler/tenday/27601?from=36hr_topnav_undeclared)


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Post by: GWENN on March 07, 2010, 02:30:15 PM
71!!!!!!!!  I STILL HAVE MOUNDS OF SNOW.  SOUNDS GOOD.  MAYBE IT WON'T RAIN.  I COULD EVEN BE THRILLED WITH CLOUDS.

GWENN


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Post by: mimi on March 07, 2010, 05:36:40 PM
Gwenn~ One of the forecasts has partly sunny,another has mostly sunny but the chance of prec. is only 40%..I can live with the 68-70 temperatures

It was very nice here today and was in the 60s.

Have any of you that are coming decided what you are going to wear?Are you wearing dressy clothes? I have changed my mind 3 times already. Stacey my ex DIL came over last night and she is wearing black slacks,and a dressy top..I showed her two of my choices and she likes my grey silver brocaded jacket with the grey shell/black slacks.The other choice is not so dressy.

DH & I went to see Ruth today. She is doing very well and she cried when she saw us coming down the hall..We hugged & cried, it was so good to see her.
I told her how proud I was of her and that she was so courageous for making the decision to remove her leg..She told me that she will never forget our last conversation before she had made her final decision....I told her I loved her heart ,not her leg...she said she had thought about that over & over. You never know how what you say may effect someone.

She is off most pain medicines,is eating very well,and her hair is coming back in (after losing it after chemo.)
She will be moving from Duke to a re-hab center in town on Tuesday, so this will be a big relief for Moose because of the drive, plus I can visit.
She has an area in the incision that is not healing as well as they would like,and they are trying some new salve on it to see if it will help, if not they may have to prolong her re-hab, and take her back to surgery and do some repair work..so please continue praying for her,and her recuperation, and hopefully she won't have to go through the ordeal of surgery again.  Thanks again.





Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 07, 2010, 06:31:13 PM
Regarding what to wear, Clay said to go with "business casual." That doesn't sound too dressy to me, but I guess it depends on what "business" one is in. :shrug


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Post by: mimi on March 07, 2010, 06:47:28 PM
Well Sunny since I am a nanny..I wear casual clothes everyday at work, mostly jeans, so anything ,other than that ,would be dressier for me.:bigsmile


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Post by: Moonshot on March 07, 2010, 07:11:58 PM
Regarding what to wear, Clay said to go with "business casual." That doesn't sound too dressy to me, but I guess it depends on what "business" one is in. :shrug

My business casual consists of a uniform or pajamas. I'm thinking neither would fly with PBS. :scratch


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Post by: clays#1fan on March 07, 2010, 07:37:39 PM
Hello!!! Been awhile! Some of you may know me. Some of you may  not. And some of you just have forgotten me. lol. But at any regards is it Friday yet????? lol. Miss him!!!


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Post by: Marilyn on March 07, 2010, 08:18:35 PM
Regarding what to wear, Clay said to go with "business casual." That doesn't sound too dressy to me, but I guess it depends on what "business" one is in. :shrug

What if you are a "lady of the night"

That attire might be interesting

and no, I don't have any secrets  :lol


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on March 08, 2010, 06:11:30 AM
Good Morning!

There was a small(very small) mention this morning in the N&O,under HOT TICKETS

Clay crazies will crowd Raleigh's Memorial Auditorium on Friday to see their hometown hero. For those not bitten by the bug, the hero's last name is Aiken.

Gosh, that would make me want to run out and buy a ticket. Oh well, it was a mention.

It still looks like warm temps for Fri (69-70)but it is also calling for possible thunderstorm in the afternoon. Still believe you may need to pack an umberella, because showers are also perdicted for Thursday...but it will be WARM :bouncy


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Post by: Sundancer on March 08, 2010, 07:09:01 AM
Maybe one day, people who like to hear good singing won't be described as crazies, rabid, or any of the other insulting names they give us. Really, would that be too much to ask? :hypno


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Post by: claydevotee on March 08, 2010, 07:29:30 AM
Quote
There was a small(very small) mention this morning in the N&O,under HOT TICKETS

Clay crazies will crowd Raleigh's Memorial Auditorium on Friday to see their hometown hero. For those not bitten by the bug, the hero's last name is Aiken.

Maybe one day, people who like to hear good singing won't be described as crazies, rabid, or any of the other insulting names they give us. Really, would that be too much to ask? :hypno

MARLENE and SUNNY, apparently it is too much to ask of those people who have managed to give us all this reputation in the first place.  Of course, it's never too late to change????  :para   

I was absolutely thrilled to see Sandra Bullock win the Oscar. What a beautiful, talented, yet humble person she is.   I think I would have  :bang if Helen Mirran had won again.

Talked to both of my sons last night. Tomorrow DIL is going for a second interview with a D.C. government defense contractor.  So hoping she gets this job so that they can put their long nightmare  of unemployment behind them.   My Chicago son and his wife are coming to our home for Easter!   :bouncy  They want to show off their new car....a Scion.  It looks like a toaster on on wheels to  me, but what do I know????  :lol


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Post by: GWENN on March 08, 2010, 08:32:49 AM
MORNING--

SOME ERRANDS TODAY.  GOTTA GO IN THE AFTERNOON WHILE BARRY'S PILL IS SOMEWHAT HELPING.  NOT MUCH BUT AT LEAST HE CAN DRIVE.  HE DRIVES, I DO THE ERRAND.  TOGETHER WE MAKE ONE PERSON. :bang :bang :bang  THIS NOT DRIVING IS THE WORST.

THEA---FINGERS CROSSED.  AND A TOASTER ON WHEELS??????? :lmao :lmao :lmao

MARLENE--THE N & O IS ONE OF THE MOST ANNOYING PAPERS.  YOU WOULD THINK THAT A HOMETOWN GUY MAKING GOOD WOULD BE APPLAUDED.  MAKES NO SENSE TO ME.  NONE.

AND I AGREE.  I AM NOT RABID.  I AM NOT CRAZY.  I LIKE TO LISTEN TO SOMEONE WHO ISN'T SCREECHING AND SCREAMING AND MAKING AN ASS OUT OF HIMSELF. 

I AM GLAD SANDRA WON ALSO.  I THINK SHE DID AN AMAZING JOB.  I ALSO THOUGHT MO'NIQUE DESERVED TO WIN.  SHE WAS INCREDIBLE.  THE SCENE SHE DID WITH MARIAH CAREY IS ONE I WON'T SOON FORGET.  HAVEN'T SEEN THE HURT LOCKER YET.  IT IS IN MY NETFLIX QUEUE. 

MARLENE--NOT SURE EXACTLY WHAT I AM WEARING YET.  I HAVE A NEW PAIR OF DARK DENIMS THAT I MIGHT PAIR WITH A REALLY  NICE TOP.  I FIGURE THE TOP IS MORE IMPORTANT BECAUSE NO ONE IS GONNA LOOK AT ME.  LORD, I HOPE NO ONE DOES. 

STILL A LITTLE BUMMED THAT I WON'T BE ABLE TO USE BINOCS.  BUT I AM GONNA TRY TO SNEAK A PEAK IF THERE IS A CHANCE WHEN THEY AREN'T FILMING.  MINE ARE TOO BIG.  JILL'S ARE SMALLER.  GONNA GET HER TO BRING HERS.

GOD, DO I NEED TO HEAR HIM SING TO US.

GWENN


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Post by: claydevotee on March 08, 2010, 10:40:07 AM
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My business casual consists of a uniform or pajamas. I'm thinking neither would fly with PBS.


MICHELLE, just caught this post..... :lmao :lmao :lmao

Quote
GOD, DO I NEED TO HEAR HIM SING TO US.

Me too...  Just got off the phone with my mother.  She is now refusing to allow the Medicare lady who comes three times a week to help her shower.  She says "sponge bathing is just as good".  I said "OK".  I no longer argue with her.  :zip   Probably TMI for this thread, though!   :lol 

Sigh.


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Post by: GWENN on March 08, 2010, 01:17:24 PM
TALKING TO MARION IT JUST REALLY HIT ME-----

I AM GOING TO SEE AND HEAR CLAY ON FRIDAY!!!!!!!

 :icon_eek: :icon_eek: :icon_eek: :icon_eek: :icon_eek: :doh :doh :doh :doh :doh :purpbana :purpbana :purpbana :purpbana :purpbana

GWENN


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Post by: Sundancer on March 08, 2010, 01:19:31 PM
TALKING TO MARION IT JUST REALLY HIT ME-----

I AM GOING TO SEE AND HEAR CLAY ON FRIDAY!!!!!!!

 :icon_eek: :icon_eek: :icon_eek: :icon_eek: :icon_eek: :doh :doh :doh :doh :doh :purpbana :purpbana :purpbana :purpbana :purpbana

GWENN
Um, surprise? :lol :wink :purpbana


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Post by: corbet on March 08, 2010, 03:06:42 PM

     Mimi,
               I"m so glad to hear Ruth is doing well, the fact that she is eating is a good sign.
                     
                 Having her hair grow back must be a little comforting to  her. I feel so sorry for
                 people losing their hair because of chemo, it is one of the devastating sides of
                  chemo.

                 As for what to wear, I wonder is Clay remembered that many offices are very
                 casual on Fridays.!!!!I have decided on black slacks and fairly dressy top.

                          Right now I am trying to get the laundry cleared up. The house is chaotic
                        at the moment. As my daughter is leaving for a vacation in Scotland on
                         Friday and I leave on Weds. night there are clothes laid out everywhere.
                         I"ll just clean the house when I get back.


                                         Who cares as long as I see and hear Clay, All is Well!!!

                                                                   Betty



Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: corbet on March 08, 2010, 03:12:52 PM
                 
       Thea,
                Sorry about the angst with your mother. I think the easiest thing

                is to go along with her for the small things and try to cope with the
               important issues.

                                    Hope your DIL gets the job, and then they can enjoy
                 life, without all the worry.

                                                       Betty


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Post by: wvclayfan on March 08, 2010, 03:57:01 PM
 :wave Hi folks!

I've come seeking some good thoughts and prayers for my 24-year-old brother. He came down with a severe sore throat and temperature of 103 on Saturday. He went to the ER and was diagnosed with a "throat infection." They ran no tests. Gave him a shot of penicillin, Motrin and sent him home. His temp was still elevated yesterday, but the steady dosage of ibuprofen eventually brought it down to 99. Today, although he felt better and his temp. was still under 100, he started having chest pains that he could feel in his arm, shoulder and back. Back to the ER he went. They did an EKG which the doctor said looked fine. His blood work, however, showed one of his cardiac enzymes was elevated (I don't know which one). He has since been admitted for more tests and heart monitoring.

My brother is an athlete (played high school and college football), so I want to wait for the results before I get TOO concerned. But every little good thought is bound to help. TIA!

ETA: Just talked to my mom. They are transferring him to another hospital - one with a cardiac unit. When they repeated his blood work, Matt's troponin level had risen again. The doctor was baffled because he wasn't seeing ANY signs of cardiac event on the monitor.  :nixweiss: They gave him several doses of nitroglycerin which gave him a headache, so now he is on morphine as well.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 08, 2010, 04:36:55 PM
LINDSAY-- :hugg :hugg :hugg

GWENN


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Post by: Sundancer on March 08, 2010, 04:41:34 PM
Of course, Lindsay. :pray :comfort :hugg


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Post by: lovinclay on March 08, 2010, 04:59:38 PM
Lindsey, prayers and good thoughts coming your way for your brother.  :hugg


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Post by: wvclayfan on March 08, 2010, 05:04:32 PM
Thanks so much! :hugg My parents should be there within the hour. Hopefully they'll get to speak to the doctor.


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Post by: claydevotee on March 08, 2010, 05:07:42 PM
Oh my goodness, LINDSAY, of course your brother Mattwill be in our prayers.  This sounds eerily similar to what my 27-year old younger son went through last fall when he finally was diagnosed with  the H1N1 flu virus.   It can affect your cardiac function.  Hopefully they will be able get a firm diagnosis and stabilize Matt so that he can get  back on the road to recovery.

 :comfort  


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Post by: claydevotee on March 08, 2010, 05:10:44 PM
BETTY, thanks so much.   :hugg  I just worry mainly that my mother will be so uncooperative once we move her into assisted living this summer that she will be asked to leave.  :para She is a very stubborn lady. One tough cookie!!!  :lol

I'm so excited for you,  JILL, GWENN, MARILYN and ???? on your upcoming travels to NC! 

GWENN, are you absolutely sure the concert is this Friday?   :lol



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Post by: clayharmony on March 08, 2010, 05:17:19 PM
Sending prayers to all in need...and asking for some, too...

Golly Lindsey...I'm so sorry to read of your news...at least the doctors seem on top of it now...here's hoping that the tests will reveal what his condition actually is and they can begin to treat it fully.

And Thea, hugs Clay friend...I remember only too well when we heard that my dad (in stroke recovery at the time) was resisting assistance with showering...the worst of it...beyond the obvious hardship it placed on his wife, was noting the change in him as he had always been so fastidious about his personal hygiene...just another indicator of his changing mental state.  Good luck with all of that...and I think you've got the right attitude...just have to pick your battles.

On my front, just heard from my brother...and our dear relative passed away yesterday morning...a cousin on my mom's side...she is just about the last of such a lively clan...we had amazingly good times together...(I am very fortunate, I know)...Gloria was such a character...full of good cheer, wonderful company...literally everyone loved her...just so much fun...a real treasure.  Somehow, however irrational this sounds...and it actually is...since I've been retired, I've missed my folks more than ever.  They had such a bond...my extended family...gathered together to have dinner, play cards all of the time in their senior years...I yearn for that warm cocoon of conversation...and wish they could see that I finally have a lovely home. (Thank goodness I believe they see it from where they are...but I would love to be able to hear their laughter and receive their hugs once again...)

I am so glad there will be Clay excitement soon.  It will surely lift my heart, just as knowing my dear cyber friends here will be having a fabulous time.  


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Post by: claydevotee on March 08, 2010, 05:32:13 PM
JOHANNA, thanks so ver much for understanding my frustration about this latest problem with my Mom.  I am worried about how she will get along in a group living situation, especially now with this latest "development". 

So very sorry to hear about the loss of your dear cousin.  It does seem as if there are certain people in famlies who become the hub of all the activity.  I hope you can somehow find a way to become the one who gets people together.  Keep trying, JOHANNA.  Keep on inviting family members over and eventually they might catch on to the fact that you all need one another. 

Well, I'm going to finish cleaning up the kitchen and then get ready to watch "24".  I know most everybody will be watching the "Bachelor Wedding" of Jason and Molly, but I'm just not all that interested in that show these days...."24", on the other hand, has become a major addiction in our household.  Even my Chicago son and DIL watch it faithfully, so we talk about it a lot on the phone.   :lol :bduh.  My son is always trying to get me to catch up on the early seasons when I wasn't watching.  Heck, even I'm not THAT interested in sitting  there for hours on end  watching videos of Jack Bauer running around saving the country. One hour a week is plenty for me!!!

I was wondering how soon we'll know when they will be broadcasting the Clay PBS special....I am so looking forward to it!!!


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 08, 2010, 05:50:52 PM
My goodness, so many here are going through so much.  My thoughts, prayers and best wishes to you all.

Gwenn - hope everything goes well for Barry and that he will have relief from his pain.

Thea - I hope you can get your mother settled in a nice place where she can make some friends and be content

Lindsay - I will pray for your brother and my thoughts are with you and your family while you await the diagnosis and then the doctors can go about their job of getting him back to good health

Johanna - so sorry to hear about the loss of your cousin.  I do believe that the older we get, the more we value family and close friends.  My prayers are with you.


This is for all of you    :ghug2


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Post by: corbet on March 08, 2010, 05:59:59 PM

     Lindsey,
                   I"m so sorry to hear about your brother, it"s even more worrying when
                   you don"t know what is causing  these symptoms. I hope they can find
                    what is wrong very quickly.
 
                            Nitro does give you bad headaches.
                   
                       Prayers for him , for you and your parents, it must be very frightening.

                                                     Betty


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Post by: corbet on March 08, 2010, 06:03:27 PM

        Barb,
                 I think it"s true, as we grow older we tend to miss our parents and loved one"s more.
 
                   We do miss the family closeness and love.

                 Looking forward to seeing you again.

                          Betty


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 08, 2010, 06:24:17 PM
Thanks, Betty

I really enjoyed getting to spend time with you the weekend of the Gala and I am looking forward to seeing you this weekend.

It will be wonderful seeing so many friends again.  To me it is so amazing that one very talented, witty young man has had the ability to make friends of so many women scattered all around the country.

See you Friday      :clap      :clap


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Post by: Tiffany on March 08, 2010, 06:33:23 PM
Lindsey- My prayers for your brother. :hugg

Johanna-So sorry about your cousin's passing. :hugg

Coming in early to say looking forward to seeing everyone for dinner on Friday and I'm looking forward to meeting you Betty, Barbara and Marlene. Have a safe trip to all traveling. Leaving early Thursday and staying in Durham so I'll be meeting you all at the Marriott. Can't wait to see Clay in concert mode. Been so long. So excited. :bouncy

Oh I'm wearing black pants, a yellow turtle neck and a dressy jacket.

Thea-It should be on TV sometime in June but don't know when excatly yet.

Team Clay tweeted this. How nice.

clayaiken- Headed to Raleigh for Friday's show? Don't forget to pack an umbrella! Check out the forecast here - http://bit.ly/bjekyn


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 08, 2010, 06:35:47 PM
Tiffany - looking forward to finally getting to meet you Friday.


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Post by: Glory on March 08, 2010, 06:44:14 PM



                                   THEA MY MOM WAS NO ANGEL. AFTER HER STROKE SHE HAD TO GO TO A NURSING HOME ONE OF THE GIRLS TRIED TO GIVE HER A BATH SHE TOOK THE SPRAYER AND SPRAYED THE POOR GIRL IN THE FACE, ONE NIGHT IN THE MIDDLE SHE GOT UP AND HIT HER ROOMATE WITH HER CANE. SHE WAS A HANDFUL.


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Post by: corbet on March 08, 2010, 06:53:16 PM

      Barb,
                 

     I think he is the Pied Piper for grown ups!!!!!

        We are leaving on the train Weds. night and will arrive
         early Thurs. morning.
       
              I"m really looking forward to seeing you again, you were
 
               so much fun at the Gala.
           
                                     Betty




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Post by: corbet on March 08, 2010, 06:55:19 PM

       Tiffany,
                       How nice to be able to meet you in person, looking forward to it.

                       Your outfit sounds very nice.

                                      Betty


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Post by: claydevotee on March 08, 2010, 06:58:15 PM
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THEA MY MOM WAS NO ANGEL. AFTER HER STROKE SHE HAD TO GO TO A NURSING HOME ONE OF THE GIRLS TRIED TO GIVE HER A BATH SHE TOOK THE SPRAYER AND SPRAYED THE POOR GIRL IN THE FACE, ONE NIGHT IN THE MIDDLE SHE GOT UP AND HIT HER ROOMATE WITH HER CANE. SHE WAS A HANDFUL.
 
 

GLORY, if that wasn't such a tragic story I'm afraid I'd be laughing right now.  The visual is bizarre!!! .....Unfortunately I can picture that same scenario with my mother.  Her mind is going very quickly and she is defintely becoming a handful.  This was once a very beautiful, strong and talented woman.   She once had a gorgeous operatic singing voice.  She has spent her entire adult life wishing she could have become an opera star instead of being a housewife and mother.  Very, very sad.  

WILSON BARB, I am so happy for you that you and the entire Raleigh gang will be getting together for what should be an momentous occasion.  I promise you I will be there with you in spirit.   :hugg


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Post by: clayfannj on March 08, 2010, 07:08:52 PM
Thea,

    Hope Glory's story was helpful. Such behavior is all part and parcel of the reactions the aging have as they "gracefully" go through this last stage of their journey.  Maybe it's fear, anger or aform of deterioration in their emotional  self control.It is both frightening and  frustrating to those of us who are caretakers as we are expecting to see gratitude and cooporation for the  loving efforts we put in to help them. More often than not this is not the case. What I just want you to be reminded of is that ALL the professionals that work with geriatrics are well aware of these behavioral  patterns and know how to handle them very well. Yoiur mom is certainly NOT the exception. I used to remind myself that it was the dementia and not my mother who did these bizarre and erratic things. It helped keep me from getting upset with her.

Marlene,
     I just have to tell you the words you said to your friend Ruth were brilliant and so beautiful. I am sure you helped her in a significant way to face this challenge.

   Although I'm not going down to Raleigh this time, I am very excited  for all of you attending, and look foward to seeing it on PBS in June...


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Post by: claydevotee on March 08, 2010, 07:36:02 PM
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Hope Glory's story was helpful. Such behavior is all part and parcel of the reactions the aging have as they "gracefully" go through this last stage of their journey.  Maybe it's fear, anger or aform of deterioration in their emotional  self control.It is both frightening and  frustrating to those of us who are caretakers as we are expecting to see gratitude and cooporation for the  loving efforts we put in to help them. More often than not this is not the case. What I just want you to be reminded of is that ALL the professionals that work with geriatrics are well aware of these behavioral  patterns and know how to handle them very well. Yoiur mom is certainly NOT the exception. I used to remind myself that it was the dementia and not my mother who did these bizarre and erratic things. It helped keep me from getting upset with her.

MARION, thank you so much for sharing your insights.   :hugg  I appreciate those willing to share their experiences with aging parents who weren't sweet,  docile and loving as they aged.   Those of you who have memories of parents who were are truly blessed.    Knowing that this behavior is going to be understood as my mother takes this next step into asst. living is very, very comforting to me.   I wish we could move her sooner, but we cannot get her out of her current apartment lease until  August 1;  however, if her behavior and ability to function continue to deterioriate, we will be moving her much sooner.  It's all on a day-to-day basis at this point.



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Post by: claydevotee on March 08, 2010, 07:40:44 PM
P.S.  I'd love to hear about get-togethers around the country as the tour itinerary unfolds.  I hope to make it to at least 1 concert, and hopefully it will be where I can reconnect with those who have become dear friends to me over the past several years..   It is true (I think it was BARBARA who mentioned it earlier)....we tend to cherish our friends even more as the years go by.  Thank you, Clay!!!


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Post by: Marilyn on March 08, 2010, 10:59:06 PM
Now that you are all quiet and I missed chatting with everyone, I wanted to say something.

I was not going to go to Raleigh. It was not in my budget.

But thanks to SEVERAL "Clay angels" (I will NOT say fairy godmothers- :lol) I will be going. There are angels here on this board and at CV who have "Clayed it forward" as a couple of them told me.

His fans are absolutely amazing, and my heart is full when I think of the generosity that abounds.

I am so very excited, and I sure do need this Clay distraction.


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Post by: Marilyn on March 08, 2010, 11:01:52 PM
From Clayzedover at CV:
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Bringing this from OFC with permission

There is still time to donate tickets... the time is NOW!

Thursday at noon is the deadline to donate tickets. Ticketfast only, please!

Sufficient time is needed for all involved, especially the agencies who need to distribute tickets on their end.

A huge thank you to everyone who has donated tickets thus far!

Because of your generosity, over 60 (and counting!) people with and without disabilities will be able to experience the joy of attending a concert together -- a Clay Aiken concert and TV taping! What a wonderful opportunity...

The ARC of Orange County, located in Chapel Hill, has many program participants who are excited at the prospect of attending this show. We are also working with Ronald McDonald Houses in Durham and Chapel Hill. They are excited and very pleased with the offer!

~ Sometimes change begins with something as simple as a concert ticket. ~

To donate a ticket(s), please EMAIL: ticketdonation@thewaywemakeadifference.org

Thank you!

www.thewaywemakeadifference.org 


I have looked on ebay and on Stub HUb, and there are many tickets selling from $4.00 and up. If any one here wishes to help out the less fortunate, purchase a couple of these tickets, and donate them, I think it would be a wonderful thing to do. The prices are very low on some of the tickets, so it might only cost you the price of a lunch to buy the ticket and donate.
Of course, they have to be the downloadable kind that you can email forward, not the hard copy.

What do you all think?
   


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Post by: GWENN on March 09, 2010, 05:01:56 AM
MORNING--

UP EARLY TO MAKE A CAKE FOR A FUNERAL WE CANNOT GET TO.  TOMORROW IS BARRY'S PREOP AND THE FUNERAL IS THURS.  HE WILL NOT BE IN ANY SHAPE AFTER TOMORROW TO GO.  SO, AFTER I GET MY HAIR COLORED WE WILL DROP THIS OFF.  HE IS IN SO MUCH PAIN.  IT GETS WORSE BY THE DAY.  HE WILL SIT IN THE CAR WHILE I GET MY HAIR COLORED.  I WILL DRY IT AND STYLE IT AT HOME. 

THEA--WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH IS TYPICAL.  WE ALL HAVE STORIES AND THE OLDER OUR PARENTS GET, THE MORE OUTRAGEOUS THE STORIES.  THE ONES WITH MY MOM ARE LONG AND COMPLICATED.  BARRY'S MOM THREW MILK ON THE GOOD LOOKING NURSES AND CALLED THEM WHORES.  THEY REMINDED HER OF HOW SHE USED TO LOOK AND SHE COULDN'T STAND WHAT BECAME OF HER.  SO SAD.  MY GOOD FRIEND'S MOM REFUSES HAVING A CAREGIVER.  SHE IS IN AN ASSISTED LIVING AND SHE NEEDS ADDED HELP.  WON'T ALLOW IT.  SHE FALLS CONSTANTLY AND IS IN THE HOSPITAL A LOT.  CALLS IN THE NIGHT.  BEEN THERE, DONE THAT.  IT WAS A NIGHTMARE WHEN ER WAS IN ELEMENTARY SCHOOL AND WE HAD TO WAKE UP BARRY'S AUNT TO TAKE CARE OF ER AND WE WOULD RUN TO DEAL WITH MY PARENTS.  THE STORIES GO ON AND ON.  JUST KNOW YOU ARE NOT ALONE.  WE HAVE ALL BEEN THERE.  IT IS NOT PRETTY.  IT JUST IS A FACT OF LIFE.  SOMETIMES I WONDER IF WE DO OUR OLDER LOVED ONES A FAVOR BY PROLONGING A NOT SO WONDERFUL LIFE.

ON A BRIGHT NOTE---IT IS GORGEOUS OUT.  3 DAYS UNTIL CLAY.

GWENN


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Post by: Sundancer on March 09, 2010, 05:16:39 AM
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SOMETIMES I WONDER IF WE DO OUR OLDER LOVED ONES A FAVOR BY PROLONGING A NOT SO WONDERFUL LIFE.
... which taps into issues of ethics, politics, and all sorts of sticky things. But, :yeahthat and :hugg


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Post by: wvclayfan on March 09, 2010, 05:45:06 AM
Thea - I have no personal experience to share with you, but I do have lots of virtual :hugg I can give.

Wanted to thank you all for the kind thoughts and prayers for my brother. They did a heart catheterization this morning and it showed no blockages or signs of heart attack. The doctor said it's a viral infection that moved to his heart, so there is nothing to do but let it run its course. They're going to keep him overnight for observation. Although the infection could have come from anything, I do hope Matt re-thinks passing on the flu vaccines next year - especially since he's a teacher/coach.

-------

The moment has passed, but I can't resist. Since we may be "reliving" AI2 soon (to an extent), anyone hoping to see some spikes? Even if it's just baby ones?

 :para

It's okay if I'm the only one. :wink


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Post by: lovinclay on March 09, 2010, 06:13:43 AM
Lindsey, that's encouraging news about your brother.  I'll keep him in my thoughts.

Thea, your are definitely not alone in your concern for your mother.  Most of us have gone (or will go) through what you are now experiencing.  As Marion said, the health care workers in those facilities are trained to deal with all types of patients.  Just make sure you follow her care closely. 

Johanna, I'm so sorry about your cousin.   :hugg

So happy for all who are attending the concert this week!  Marilyn, you're very fortunately to have Clayangels.  They treat you well! 


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Post by: lovinclay on March 09, 2010, 06:18:04 AM
Gwenn, please tell Barry I'm praying for him.  I know what he's going through having pain 24/7.  I hope the surgery is a success, and that he'll be back on his feet soon.    :hugg


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Post by: Sundancer on March 09, 2010, 06:35:00 AM
The moment has passed, but I can't resist. Since we may be "reliving" AI2 soon (to an extent), anyone hoping to see some spikes? Even if it's just baby ones?

 :para

It's okay if I'm the only one. :wink
Saw spikes at the Gala, I think it was. And I remember thinking he was a bit old at 30+ for them. He looked great in AI2, but since then, his hairline has reced--   forehead has grown.  :blush


I'm so glad to hear your brother is getting good treatment and doing better. :hugg


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Post by: Sundancer on March 09, 2010, 06:35:53 AM
Johanna,

I'm very sorry for the loss of your cousin. 'Sending you loving thoughts. :hugg


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Post by: claydevotee on March 09, 2010, 06:56:04 AM
Wow, thank you all so much for your supportive, understanding and wise comments about the circumstances of our aging parents.  And especially I want to thank you for not brushing off my concerns with "I wish I still had my mother" and "You need to appreciate your mother while she's here".  Of course I am grateful to still have a mother and definitely I do appreciate and honor her for having brought me into the world and raised me to the best of her ability.   Just knowing somebody understands my frustration and conflicted feelings right now is very comforting!    :thx

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SOMETIMES I WONDER IF WE DO OUR OLDER LOVED ONES A FAVOR BY PROLONGING A NOT SO WONDERFUL LIFE.
...  And GWENN, I have often thought about this.  And actually on occasion my mother will say the same thing.

LINDSAY, thankfully they have come up with a legitimate diagnosis for your brother.  :comfort Prayers that the virus will run its course without permanently damaging his heart or other vital organs.  And I definitely agree with you about the flu shots.  I think my younger son learned that lesson this past fall.

SUNNY, "enlarged foreheads" are the bane of many men's existance, for sure! :lol

Off to the gym today.  My Ipod is loaded with lots of good stuff...it's amazing how putting a question out on Facebook can help you in your daily lives.  I got tons of great suggestions from friends about gbod workout music.  I'm OK with songs from the 70's and '80s, but when it comes to 21st century music I'm clueless (except for Clay's music).

MARION, you mentioned working out 4 times a week?   :notworthy  I'm going to shoot for 3 times this week.  I don't think my twice weekly sessions at the gym are enough. 

Have a good one, ladies!!!  :ghug2
 





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Post by: claydevotee on March 09, 2010, 07:00:15 AM
GWENN, Barry's surgery is right around the corner.  Hopefully relief from pain will be, as well!   :comfort

MICKI, I'm sure you're looking forward to getting moved to your new home and starting your new life!  :comfort

 :moped


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Post by: mimi on March 09, 2010, 08:06:16 AM
The beautiful weather Barbara, Michelle,Sunny,& I ordered, is here ..It is suppose to be 72 today. The only problem the weatherman did not seem to understand that this order was not to include rain.:bigsmile
The forecast is still showing mostly cloudy & warmer for Fri,(71) with a small chance of a thunderstorm.Rain also possibly for Thur & Sat.,but the temperatures will be warm.

Gwenn~ I hate Barry is suffering so but we are praying for him and I hope he will find the relief he has been needing after his surgery.

Lindsey, It was good news this morning to see that your brother will be alright,and I hope he will have a speedy recovery without any problems.
When are you getting married?

Johanna, Sorry to hear about the death of your Aunt. I had and Aunt that I was very close to that filled the empty space ,after my Mom passed away,but unfortunately she is gone now too,and I am left with no Aunts or Uncles on either side of my family tree. So sad.

Thea~ Its also sad to hear about the problems with your Mom. I do know what Rogers family went through with his grandmother(she was 96) when she was in a nursing home,and it wasn't pretty. Her biggest problem was that up until she fell & broke her hip she had been keeping house,and adjusting to being in a nursing facility didn't go over to big with her..the problem was that that most of her children were also up in years,with their own health problems, and they were unable to take care of her in their homes.
Good luck, and we will also be praying for you (and your Mom)


3 DAYS GIRLS,...3 DAYS :bouncy





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Post by: PHILLYLUVSCLAY on March 09, 2010, 11:21:27 AM
BREAKING NEWS....BREAKING NEWS....BREAKING NEWS...

MERECAL.COM (http://merecal.com/releases/music/tried-true-cd-dvd-deluxe/96553/)


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 09, 2010, 11:47:58 AM
Philly,

You da woman!! :thumb


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Post by: GWENN on March 09, 2010, 11:48:26 AM
NOW, MS. THERESA, THAT IS SOMETHING WONDERFUL TO SEE.  A CD/DVD!!!!!!!!!  OMG.  HOW LONG DID WE WAIT FOR THIS????? :bigsmile

I SOOOOO NEEDED TO SEE THAT TODAY.

GOT MY ROOTS TOUCHED UP.  WALKED THE BEATS.  GONNA READ IN THE SUNROOM.  I HOPE TONIGHT IS A GOOD ONE.

3 MORE DAYS. :purpbana :purpbana :purpbana :purpbana

GWENN

I ALSO READ THAT TM IS PUTTING OUT SOME MORE CLOSE TIX IF YOU WANT TO UPGRADE.


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Post by: PHILLYLUVSCLAY on March 09, 2010, 12:00:35 PM
YOU'RE WELCOME... :smile

TRIED & TRUE JUST WAS PUT ON AMAZON AS WELL.

AMAZON.COM (http://www.amazon.com/Tried-True-CD-DVD-Deluxe/dp/B003BGRGAM/ref=sr_1_10?ie=UTF8&s=music&qid=1268164705&sr=1-10)


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Post by: Pepe on March 09, 2010, 02:47:31 PM
 THEA, when talking about mothers I didn't mean to upset you.  I know everyone does not have the same relationship as I had with mine.  I was fortunate.  Although other people might think they  were mistreated but I never did.  While growing up I never had ice skates, or was never given a bike I  lived in a apartment where hide and seek was the form of entertainment.  I asked for things but parents never saw fit to provide me with any thing .  but they did give me lots of love and that is the important thing .  On the other hand my children were given everything but to hear them talk they never had enough.  I am afraid sometimes when I post I don't think what others have lived with.  I have raised five children and it is all but impossible to please them all, i don't even try anymore.  :lol  I know it will be better when your mother is moved , better for you and her.  It is hard to deal with things clear across the state. 

 


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Post by: claydevotee on March 09, 2010, 03:03:24 PM
Pepe, I was speaking in generalities.  You needn't take my comments personally.    :shrug


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Post by: claydevotee on March 09, 2010, 03:06:00 PM
PHILLY, thanks so much for bringing the good news about the Amazon presale of TNT.  Now I know how I'm going to spend my Amazon gift card from my older son!  :wink :bouncy


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Post by: wvclayfan on March 09, 2010, 03:17:03 PM
YOU'RE WELCOME... :smile

TRIED & TRUE JUST WAS PUT ON AMAZON AS WELL.

AMAZON.COM (http://www.amazon.com/Tried-True-CD-DVD-Deluxe/dp/B003BGRGAM/ref=sr_1_10?ie=UTF8&s=music&qid=1268164705&sr=1-10)
:bouncy I just pre-ordered it!!  :bouncy :bouncy


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Post by: claydevotee on March 09, 2010, 03:19:32 PM
YOU'RE WELCOME... :smile

TRIED & TRUE JUST WAS PUT ON AMAZON AS WELL.

AMAZON.COM (http://www.amazon.com/Tried-True-CD-DVD-Deluxe/dp/B003BGRGAM/ref=sr_1_10?ie=UTF8&s=music&qid=1268164705&sr=1-10)
:bouncy I just pre-ordered it!!  :bouncy :bouncy

That's exciting, LINDSAY!!  BTW, what's the update on your brother's condition???


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Post by: wvclayfan on March 09, 2010, 03:49:10 PM
I just can't help myself when it comes to Clay. :giggle

As for my brother, they were doing an echo cardiogram when I called Mom around 5 p.m. She seemed to think it was part of the original order and somehow didn't get done. He has his choice of darvocet, percocet, or morphine for pain. :eek He does alright when he's on it, but the pain comes back as the meds wear off. As of right now, he will be released tomorrow as long as there is no arrhythmia.


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Post by: claydevotee on March 09, 2010, 04:17:53 PM
LINDSAY, glad there's a possibility of your brother being released tomorrow.  Prayers and positive thoughts continue for his complete recovery.  As to the menu of pain-killers,  :icon_eek: indeed!


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 09, 2010, 05:42:31 PM
Philly - thank you so much for bringing the news about TNT over here.  Things are really starting to roll.


Lindsay - so glad the doctors found out what is wrong with your brother.  Best wishes to him for a very speedy and complete recovery.


I'll see some of you ladies in 3 days.


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Post by: claydevotee on March 09, 2010, 06:07:48 PM
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I'll see some of you ladies in 3 days.

The lucky "some", for sure!  :lol


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Post by: mimi on March 09, 2010, 06:28:47 PM
My friend Ruth has been moved to re-hab and she will be there .for approximately 2 weeks. Visiing hours are from 4pm-8pm and  during the day Ruth will be in therapy for around 3 hours each day..during that time they do not want vistors and do  not want the spouse there...They want her to strictly concentrate on her therapy.After therapy you are usually exhausted and need to rest until the visiting hours.

There will be certain times when they will schedule family days, and Moose & their children are included in the therapy. Moose will need to learn how to get her to bed, get her in the shower & numerous other things .
Roger is going to help Moose build a ramp into their house for the wheelchair.
Today they had her sitting in a wheelchair twice for about 30 min each time..Moose said she told him it hurt pretty bad the 1st time but the next time it wasn;t to bad.
Hope i am not boring you with all this but to me it is just a miracle and an answer to prayer. 

It was great to finally get a release date,and I've pre-ordered my2 ,"Tried & True"  Just think it won't be long until we are able to hear some of the music from Mr Aiken :bouncy


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Post by: claydevotee on March 09, 2010, 06:40:47 PM
MARLENE, it's so good to hear that Ruth is preparing to get on with the next chapter in her life.  What an amazing story of faith and determination.  How wonderful of Roger to help build the wheelchair ramp.  It's nice to see people reaching out to one another in this manner.  During Phil's and my various health challenges we, too, were the recipients of so many random acts of kindness;  there aren't enough words to express the positive impact they had on our dealing with these challenges.

I am also planning to buy two of TNT...one for the house and one for the car!

Absolutely loved Crystal Bowersox and, to a lesser extent this evening, Siohban.  Lily was a disappointment to me, to say the least.  This is turning out to be a very interesting year with such a range of vocal styles and genres.  I'm actually enjoying this AI season and especially have found myself to be pleasantly surprised with the quality of the critiques of the judges (well, Randy.....not so much). 



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Post by: Sundancer on March 09, 2010, 06:51:34 PM
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Absolutely loved Crystal Bowersox and, to a lesser extent this evening, Siohban.  Lily was a disappointment to me, to say the least.  This is turning out to be a very interesting year with such a range of vocal styles and genres.  I'm actually enjoying this AI season and especially have found myself to be pleasantly surprised with the quality of the critiques of the judges (well, Randy.....not so much).
I watched tonight for the first time this season. Liked Crystal and Siobhan, and maybe one other. Thought most of them sounded flat or like "nothin' special."

Does Ellen ever say anything independent of Randy? Or is she there just to agree with his critique of everyone?


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Post by: Marilyn on March 09, 2010, 08:35:55 PM
I had to fast forward at the beginning-Ellen on Simon's lap nuzzling him just made me gag- she was really pissed at him and now she is kissing up to him- so to speak. And Kara hangs all over him, too. Yuck!

Check it out, check it out!! Maybe Randy is a bit jealous.

Anyway, I liked Crystal and Siobhan. I really cannot see what anyone "hears" in Lily- I think she was all over the place the last couple of weeks. But she sure does march to a different drummer.

What I do now is DVR the whole show, and fast forward through the commercials and Ryan. Sometimes Randy too-and Kara DO.NOT.LIKE.HER. I can watch the whole show in about 35 minutes.

Never thought I would miss Paula.
and does Ellen glue her eyes open so that she looks like a deer in headlights? Although I will have to say that she has been relatively concise and honest. If she didn't like it, she says so.

And I will order my TnT or 2 also. The price went from $12.02  (an odd amount) to $18.98. But he is #5 on the best sellers for today.



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Post by: Sundancer on March 09, 2010, 08:47:09 PM
I had to fast forward at the beginning-Ellen on Simon's lap nuzzling him just made me gag
'Probably made her gag, too. :wink


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- she was really pissed at him and now she is kissing up to him- so to speak.
I thought she was making fun of all the gossip that says they're always arguing, by sitting on his lap and playing all lovey-dovey. :shrug


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And Kara hangs all over him, too. Yuck!
What is it about her that so many people seem to dislike? I can't put my finger on it, but there's something.


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Check it out, check it out!! Maybe Randy is a bit jealous.
:lol



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Post by: GWENN on March 10, 2010, 05:08:19 AM
MORNING--

AN INCREDIBLY BUSY DAY.  GYNO THIS MORNING AND THEN PRE-OP WITH BARRY THIS AFTERNOON.  BY DINNER, I WILL BE BEAT.  I AM NOT SLEEPING WELL AT ALL.  UP EVERY HOUR.  I WENT TO BED EARLY, BUT IT DOESN'T HELP.  I GUESS IT JUST ISN'T MEANT FOR ME RIGHT NOW.  I AM JUST SO EXHAISTED.

I DIDN'T PREORDER YET.  WAITING UNTIL CLOSER.  RIGHT NOW T&T IS #5 ON AMAZON.  IT WILL FALL LIKE CRAZY AND THEN I WILL PREORDER MINE.  IT IS ALL EXCITING, THOUGH.

CANNOT WAIT UNTIL FRIDAY.  IT IS SURREAL THAT AFTER ALL THIS TIME, WE REALLY GET SOME CONCERT CLAY.  I AM THRILLED.  AND ALSO-----ALL OF YOU WHO ARE GOING TO BE THERE.

I ASKED JILL TO BRING HER SMALLER BINOCS.  I AM DETERMINED TO SNEAK A PEAK.  I JUST NEED TO SEE THAT FACE CLOSE UP FOR A SECOND.  JUST ONE SECOND.  THEN I WILL BE GOOD AND PUT THEM AWAY.  I WILL NOT BE EMBARRASSING. 

MARLENE--RUTH IS QUITE A WOMAN.  SHE IS BLESSED TO HAVE YOU AND ROGER IN HER LIFE.

LINDSAY--YOUR BROTHER IS GONNA BE OK.   :hugg

GOTTA GO GET INTO THE SHOWER AND GET THE DAY GOING.  I AM READY FOR BED AND HAVE BEEN UP  LESS THAN AN HOUR.  OY.

GWENN



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Post by: mimi on March 10, 2010, 07:06:30 AM
Gwenn ~ No wonder you are exhausted, I got wore out just reading all you have to do, which,by the way, did not include packing.  Sorry to hear you are not sleeping though but you certainly do have a lot on your mind right now.

It's good that Barry doesn't have to much longer to put up with the pain.

Hope everyone else is doing well today..

The time is flying by, just 2 more days,and for those of you traveling tomorrow I hope you have a safe trip to Raleigh...and we will see you Friday.


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Post by: claydevotee on March 10, 2010, 07:10:08 AM
Good morning!  It is rainy and gloomy here (a little bit like Raleigh except much colder!).  I am going to stay in the house and get stuff done.  I now consider Mondays and Wednesdays to be "my days off" since we are busy on the other days with going to the health club and doing various church/community activities.  

By now our little BETTY is probably on the train enroute to Raleigh.  I hope she meets up with her other travel buddies without any problems and has an enjoyable and uneventful trip.  Wishing the same to the rest of you as you get ready to travel!  Wishing I were going, too.......... :sigh

Yesterday Phil and I spent some time after the gym checking out 2 very lovely assisted living facilities for my mother.  We are trying to stay within a 10 mile radius of our home so that we can keep a close watch on her and so that I can take her on little outings throughout the week.  We discussed her personal hygiene problem with the admissions coordinators,  and they assured me that, yes, this is a common situation and that they have a lot of experience with this.  Let's hope... :para

So off I go to start my day, as well.  GWENN, if I were you I'd plan to take a short cat nap if you're dragging this morning.  I am definitely a firm believer in naps!!!  :nap

Have a good one, one and all!!!


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Post by: lovinclay on March 10, 2010, 09:05:52 AM
Preordered my TNT.   :bigsmile


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Post by: wvclayfan on March 10, 2010, 09:34:04 AM
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And Kara hangs all over him, too. Yuck!
What is it about her that so many people seem to dislike? I can't put my finger on it, but there's something.
I have multiple friends on Facebook who always post about how awful she is, can't stand her, etc. The morning DJs who do the Idol recap stopped mentioning her critiques long ago. I'm like you - just can't put my finger on what it is. Maybe I need to pay better attention. :lol

Safe travels to all heading to Raleigh. I hope you all have a WONDERFUL experience.  :bouncy :bouncy

My brother gets to go home today. :purpbana Doctor said the echo showed the valve of the heart that was attacked by the virus --- wants Matt to see him in 3-4 months, but expects him to have a complete recovery! Thank you all for your kind thoughts and prayers. :hugg


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Post by: Sundancer on March 10, 2010, 09:57:33 AM
Lindsay,

I'm very glad to hear the good news about your brother! :hugg


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Post by: wisconsinmaniac on March 10, 2010, 10:02:01 AM
Preordered my TNT.   :bigsmile

MICKI - It is exciting just to be talking about ordering BF's CD/DVD!  I'll be counting the days until it is HERE! :bouncy (Lots of days to count . .but we've got a date)!

LINDSEY - So glad that the news about your brother is so positive.  YAY!  :bouncy

THEA - The Assisted Living personnel usually have loads of experience in caring for the physical and the emotional needs of their residents.  My Mom was pretty independent, but when she needed extra care or reassurance, the staff at the "home" was patient and helpful.  I liked the fact that they could remain "objective" easier than our family. I hope that the situation with your Mom's move will be a win/win.  :hugg

PBS TAPING ATTENDEES!  I am suddenly sooooo envious of all of you!  Just couldn't make it this time . . . but I'm glad we'll have excellent CLAYMANIAC representation.  BUT . . remember . . . the rest of us will be very HUNGRY for news after the taping. 

I'm very shallow . . .  I want him to LOOK GOOD!  :blush  Seriously, I want to know all about his voice and interactions with the audience . . . . any any crumb you can pass on to us!

Travel safe and enjoy the show!  :clap   I will miss that . .  and also the hugs and laughter that you are bound to share!  :hugg


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Post by: claydevotee on March 10, 2010, 10:33:33 AM
BARBARA, thank you for the sage advice and supportive words.  I know you are extremely familiar with Asst. Living Homes, as well.   :hugg 

LINDSAY, what fabulous news about your brother.  :hugg IMHO The fact that he was in such good physical shape to start with probably saved his life.  So glad you can take that worry off of your already-full plate.  Full-speed ahead! 

MEESA is getting married on Saturday!  Saying that just puts a huge smile on my face.   :bigsmile    :flower   :cheer2 :heart

Although I've already wished safe travelS to all of the fortunate people attending the PBS taping.....I'd like to say it again....ENJOY THE CONCERT AND THE COMPANY OF ONE ANOTHER!!!  :ghug


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Post by: claydevotee on March 10, 2010, 10:44:42 AM
On a more somber note.  I just heard that a young man from our local high school took his own life last night.  He was found in his bedroom closet hanging from the ceiling.  His younger sister found him this morning.  He was bullied incessantly because he was in the Drama Club and not part of the "In Crowd".   I bring this to you because we have discussed bullying here on the CM, esp. in regards to Clay.

 I  can't begin to tell you how enraged I feel right now.  At the same time I am so very grateful that somehow through the grace of God above my 2 now adult sons escaped taking this tragic and final step.  As I have mentioned often in the past, both were bullied incessantly throughout jr. high and high school because they were "nerds", "geeks" and not particularly athletic.  They were accused of "using too many big words" and not being like the rest of the kids.    My heart goes out to this family at this time.  I don't know them personally, but I do feel that I understand the pain the mother is feeling right now.  They will be in my prayers.


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Post by: Marilyn on March 10, 2010, 10:47:40 AM
Lindsay, so glad your brother is going home- wishing him a speedy recovery.

Thea, what a horrible ending for a young life. Why do kids have to be so cruel to one another? And those kids will probably never see that they are the ones who drove him to this tragic final step.

Praying for his family, and praying that bullies will see the light and shoulder the blame for this- although it will never happen.


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Post by: claydevotee on March 10, 2010, 10:49:52 AM
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Praying for his family, and praying that bullies will see the light and shoulder the blame for this- although it will never happen.

MARILYN, you are so right.  Sadly, it will most likely never happen.   :icon_frown: :cry


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Post by: Sundancer on March 10, 2010, 10:54:29 AM
On a more somber note.  I just heard that a young man from our local high school took his own life last night.  He was found in his bedroom closet hanging from the ceiling.  His younger sister found him this morning.  He was bullied incessantly because he was in the Drama Club and not part of the "In Crowd".   I bring this to you because we have discussed bullying here on the CM, esp. in regards to Clay.

 I  can't begin to tell you how enraged I feel right now.  At the same time I am so very grateful that somehow through the grace of God above my 2 now adult sons escaped taking this tragic and final step.  As I have mentioned often in the past, both were bullied incessantly throughout jr. high and high school because they were "nerds", "geeks" and not particularly athletic.  They were accused of "using too many big words" and not being like the rest of the kids.    My heart goes out to this family at this time.  I don't know them personally, but I do feel that I understand the pain the mother is feeling right now.  They will be in my prayers.

 :bang :bang :bang

This makes me so angry. What about the parents of the kids doing the bullying? Are they just as ignorant and mean-spirited as their kids are? How can anyone teach a child that it's okay to set out to hurt someone?


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Post by: corbet on March 10, 2010, 11:20:45 AM

     HoW very sad about that poor young boy,I do believe hate and ignorance begins at home.

       As someone said." these tormentors have no remorse"

           I can"t begin to imagine the sorrow of his family.
           
                                           Betty


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Post by: claydevotee on March 10, 2010, 11:45:28 AM
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This makes me so angry. What about the parents of the kids doing the bullying? Are they just as ignorant and mean-spirited as their kids are? How can anyone teach a child that it's okay to set out to hurt someone?


SUNNY, based on my personal experience about 15 years ago, some parents of bullies would blame the victim for being so "different" that he "invites bullying" and then chalk it up to the old "Survival of the fittest" theory.   Truly...it's ugly out there. 

BETTY,  :hugg  Safe travels, sweet lady!


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Post by: Sundancer on March 10, 2010, 12:40:26 PM
SUNNY, based on my personal experience about 15 years ago, some parents of bullies would blame the victim for being so "different" that he "invites bullying" and then chalk it up to the old "Survival of the fittest" theory.   Truly...it's ugly out there. 
:doh :bang

AAUUUGGGHHHHHH!!! You have got to be kidding me!! If we're talking survival of the fittest, how have people like this made it for so long? This kind of thinking boggles my mind!


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Post by: corbet on March 10, 2010, 01:34:28 PM

        Thea,
                                Thank you. Just getting my bits and pieces together and then Corina will

                               take me to the train station. It"s years since I went on the train, I think the
                               four of us will have fun.
                       
                                   Looking forward to seeing everyone again. Wish you were going.
                                                     
                                                             I bet Clay is so excited, I pray this will be a wonderful
                                             Night for him.

                                                                                     Betty
                               


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Post by: GWENN on March 10, 2010, 02:44:26 PM
WHAT A LONG DAY.  ALL SEEMS WELL FROM THE GYNO.  TOOK ER TO BREAKFAST AFTER.  THE PRE OP WASN'T ALL THAT BAD.  WHAT A PLACE.  LIKE A SMALL CITY.  I ROLLED BARRY AROUND IN A WHEELCHAIR SO HE HAD NO PAIN.  I GOT A WORK OUT. :wink :lol  HE WILL HAVE TO STOP THE CELLEBREX ON FRIDAY SO THEY GAVE HIM A NARCOTIC UNTIL THE SURGERY.  HE COULD NOT EXIST WITHOUT SOMETHING AND TYLENOL ISN'T WORTH A THING.  SO, TOMORROW WE HAVE A FEW ERRANDS AND THEN OFF I GO.  ONCE HE STARTS THE NARCOTIC, HE WILL NOT DRIVE.  BY NEXT WEEK AT THIS TIME, HE WILL BE OUT OF SURGERY, IN A ROOM, AND DRIVING THE NURSES NUTS.  I TOLD THE NURSE PRACTITIONER  THAT HE NEEDS TO STAY AT LEAST 2 DAYS.  I AM SCARED.  I STINK AS A NURSE.  I HAVE TO GO BUY A THERMOMETER.  I CAN TELL WITH MY LIPS IF YOU HAVE A FEVER, BUT I HAVE TO BE MORE EXACT.  ANNOYING.

THEA--HORRIBLE NEWS.  HORRIBLE.  BUT, AS A TEACHER, I HAVE SEEN MORE PARENTS THAN I CARE TO SAY WHO FEEL THEIR KIDS ARE NEVER WRONG.  IT IS ALWAYS SOMEONE ELSE'S FAULT.  BLAME THE SCHOOL.  BLAME THE VICTIM.  GOD FORBID YOUR KID IS WRONG.  AWFUL.

LINDSAY---GOOD NEWS FROM YOU.

WELL, GOTTA GO MAKE DINNER.  THEN AN EARLY NIGHT FOR ME.  I AM POOPED.  NOT AS BAD AS YESTERDAY, BUT I AM TIRED.

I BET CLAY IS PUMPED.  I CANNOT WAIT.

GWENN


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Post by: clayharmony on March 10, 2010, 02:53:14 PM
SUNNY, based on my personal experience about 15 years ago, some parents of bullies would blame the victim for being so "different" that he "invites bullying" and then chalk it up to the old "Survival of the fittest" theory.   Truly...it's ugly out there. 
:doh :bang

AAUUUGGGHHHHHH!!! You have got to be kidding me!! If we're talking survival of the fittest, how have people like this made it for so long? This kind of thinking boggles my mind!

Indeed, my experience is like Thea's...I'd announce that bullying would not be tolerated in my classroom each year, and show a portion of Oprah's show on it...which aired shortly after Columbine...and told my parents not only would it not be tolerated, but that I would have severe consequences in place.  Well, through regular 'class meetings'... having my antenna up...and ongoing personal talks with my students, every year I'd have to have that dialogue about what differences really are...and discuss bully behavior, target behavior and on-lookers' roles.  And every year, I'd have at least one parent outraged at me..."you are picking on my kid"... When I had administrative support, a glorious 8 years of it...we were able to turn things around for these students.  Otherwise, it was don't blame me...and I don't want that complaint counted on my review, that suspension...and what not...yes, that is what derails stronger intervention on the part of school officials...you can that NCLB for it all. (The more moronic among school leaders think they can tout a safe school and just suppress any data/responsible consequences to the contrary)
As you can see I am especially passionate about this subject...I wrote my counseling master's thesis on it.

One positive note was in the news recently...it was announced that a recent study found that formal antibullying programs reduced the incidence of it by 20% and more...well duh!!!!  :icon_rolleyes:


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Post by: Glory on March 10, 2010, 03:13:10 PM



                               AS ONE THAT WAS BULLIED IT WAS NOT ONE BIT FUN. ..THESE PEOPLE WHO BULLY ARE TRYING TO MAKE THEMSELVES LOOK BETTER , I ALWAYS HAD A LOT OF FRIENDS AND BOYFRIENDS, THEY REALLY DID NOT. SO GUESS WHO WAS HAPPY.

                             THEA MY FOLKS DID NOT TRY AND HELP ME THEY WERE CLUELESS ABOUT BULLIES I TOLD THEM ENOUGH. I GUESS THEY FIGURED IT WAS A PHASE,

                                MEESA, I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU I KNOW YOU WILL BE A BEAUTIFUL BRIDE, SWEETHEART. I LOVVVVVVE YOU MUCH.

                         HAVE A GREAT TIME THE ONES GOING TO SEE CLAY. I HAD INTENDED ON GOING BUT CIRCUMSTANCES PREVENTED ME FROM DOING SO. MAYBE I CAN CATCH A COUPLE CONCERTS THIS SUMMER.


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Post by: Sundancer on March 10, 2010, 04:19:39 PM
It would be interesting to hear from the bullies themselves--past and present. I'd like to hear the justifications behind their behavior.



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Post by: GWENN on March 10, 2010, 05:09:01 PM
It would be interesting to hear from the bullies themselves--past and present. I'd like to hear the justifications behind their behavior.



ME, TOO.

BTW---I HAVE AN AMAZING DAUGHTER.  WE JUST TALKED FOR OVER AN HOUR.  I LOVE HER.

GWENN


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 10, 2010, 07:18:19 PM
As far as bullying is concerned, some children can be very cruel and even think it is funny to ridicule and humiliate others that they think are not as good as they are--or even worse, just for the "fun" of it.  Unfortunately, some parents are either not aware or don't take it seriously.


Now on a lighter note -- everyone travelling to Raleigh tomorrow or Friday, have a safe trip and I'm looking forward to seeing all of you.


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Post by: claydevotee on March 10, 2010, 07:25:17 PM
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It would be interesting to hear from the bullies themselves--past and present. I'd like to hear the justifications behind their behavior.

SUNNY, I'm afraid it would go something like this:  "He deserved it.  What a dweeb" OR "He was just different from the rest of us;  he didn't fit in". Or shall we go with the complete denial, "I never thought I was bullying him".   Shall I continue?   :bang

JOHANNA, I'm sure you were able to make a difference in your classroom in regards to bullying.  One step at a time,right???

GWENN, you're feeling the way I do when I talk to my sons on the phone.  It's wonderful to have adult, heart-to-heart conversations with our children.  I feel like I'm finally reaping the benefits and joy of having put in my time raising these kids!  What a great feeling!!!

GLORY, I'm sure you were able to give those bullies hell when you were in high school.  :slap I wish I had had your spunk when I was in high school, that's for sure!   :lol

GWENN, JILL, BARBARA, MARLENE, SUNNY, MICHELLE, MARILYN, BETTY and all of the PBS attendees.........Will you please have a "moment of silence" for those of us who aren't able to be there with you????   :lol


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 10, 2010, 07:29:32 PM
Here is the answer to one question we have had:


From CV via CH..Quiana Tweet


QUOTE
from qparler,via twitter:

Getting Ready with my sweety for the Raleigh Show! Yaay!
less than a minute ago via UberTwitter


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Post by: clayfannj on March 10, 2010, 08:54:11 PM
Tomorrow begins "THE GATHERING!!"  Safe journeys to all who are going...My goodness it is like a pilgrimage to MECCA!!!! :lmao

So tragic about the boy from Thea's post. I really believe there has to be a way to make bullying a criminal activity just as harassment has finally been recognized as such. Perhaps then criminally or civilly the courts can help to make youngsters or their families accountable for the terrible consequences bullying brings..  IMHO....


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Post by: GWENN on March 11, 2010, 04:31:39 AM
BEEN UP SINCE 7.  SO EXCITED.

I USUALLY THINK CORABETH IS DELUSIONAL AND OTT BUT I LOVED THIS--

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It’s a special man and a special voice that can create this bond amongst so many strangers. Some of us have been friends for seven years now. Some of us will meet for the first time. People are coming from nearly forty states and three countries on planes, trains, busses and automobiles. But all roads lead to Clay this week. Because Tried and True is more than an album title. It’s a bond between singer and fan.

LOVED THIS.  IMAGINE, 40 STATES AND 3 COUNTRIES.  3 FANS FROM SINGAPORE.  WE CERTAINLY DO LOVE THIS MAN.

ERRANDS AND THEN PACKING.  JILL IS ARRIVING AROUND 8. 

GONNA TRY AND BE TOTALLY POSITIVE ABOUT EVERYTHING TODAY. 

GWENN


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Post by: claydevotee on March 11, 2010, 07:00:14 AM
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So tragic about the boy from Thea's post. I really believe there has to be a way to make bullying a criminal activity just as harassment has finally been recognized as such. Perhaps then criminally or civilly the courts can help to make youngsters or their families accountable for the terrible consequences bullying brings..  IMHO....
 
 
 


Yup, MARION, I agree about the need for more tangible and steeper punishment for bullies.  Something more is needed to make them and esp. their parents accountable for their actions.   If it means civil or even criminal prosecution with the possibility of a jail sentence, then I say, "So be it".  A bully serving time in a Juvenile Detention Center is still better off than a person who has taken his own life.

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Tomorrow begins "THE GATHERING!!"  Safe journeys to all who are going...My goodness it is like a pilgrimage to MECCA!!!!


 :lmao :lmao  Maybe somebody can bring us home some vials of "holy water" from the tap of the Marriott downtown Raleigh!  It may have special healing powers.....Who knows???!!!

GWENN, enjoy and don't get nervous.  You and everybody privileged to be going will most certainly have wonderful time in Raleigh.  And  hopefully HRH is going to be at the top of his game for the PBS performance.  Here's to new beginnings!   :confetti

Off to the gym.   Not fun, but I am feeling stronger and in more control!



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Post by: mimi on March 11, 2010, 07:00:47 AM
Thea~ We also have Tiffany & Irene(1Chris1)coming from our board. Irenes husband is also coming with her. They left today by train, and Tiffany also left today from MD.with her parents..they are driving.

Right now the sun is shining in Raleigh but it is suppose to start raining this afternoon and we are going to have some showers tomorrow.Temps. will be in the 60s,so that won't be to bad...believe me there will be plenty of warmest in that theatre tomorrow night...0r should I say hottness??

For those traveling today & tomorrow..a safe journey.  For those not able to come we will be missing & thinking of you. We will be posting as soon as we can,and letting you in on all the details that are important(eg.hair,&etc.)


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Post by: lovinclay on March 11, 2010, 08:07:41 AM



 :lmao :lmao  Maybe somebody can bring us home some vials of "holy water" from the tap of the Marriott downtown Raleigh!  It may have special healing powers.....Who knows???!!!






Thea, this just cracked me up.   :lmao :lmao

So sad about that young boy.  I wonder how many bullied children actually let their parents know what's going on.  My youngest niece was cyber-bullied a few years back by a classmate.  Thank God she told her mother and older sister.  My SIL marched herself right over to the school and police station.  The bullying stopped.  I agree, there should be a law against it.  Make it a criminal act.  Let the schools expell (not suspend) the offenders.  It must stop!

Meesa, if you reading here.....Best of Luck, sweetie!   :purpbana   

Gwenn, I wish I lived closer and was more mobile.  I'd come help you with Barry.  If you need any pointers, just call.  Best of luck to him on his recovery. 

Lindsey,  wonderful news about your brother.   

OT:  Does anyone hate bra shopping as  much as I do?  Seriously, I'd rather clean toilets.  Why in the world would they make larger cup sizes with stretch straps?  This makes no sense to me.  The straps stretch and your boobs hang.   :bang :bang :bang


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Post by: Sundancer on March 11, 2010, 08:12:11 AM
My youngest niece was cyber-bullied a few years back by a classmate.  Thank God she told her mother and older sister.  My SIL marched herself right over to the school and police station.  The bullying stopped. 
Way to go, SIL!! :clap :clap


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I agree, there should be a law against it.  Make it a criminal act.  Let the schools expell (not suspend) the offenders.  It must stop!
'Works for me.




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Post by: GWENN on March 11, 2010, 08:36:54 AM
MICKI--THANKS, SWEETIE.  I WISH I COULD DRIVE AND COULD HAVE HELPED YOU PACK. :hugg  AS FOR BRAS----I SPEND A FORTUNE ON MINE.  I WEAR WACHOL.  BUT IT IS WORTH IT.  NO STRETCH STRAPS.  NORDSTROM.  AND HURRAY FOR DEBBIE.

GWENN


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Post by: Marilyn on March 11, 2010, 09:04:05 AM
Rainlover posted this at CV last night.

I saved this poem back in 2006. Written by geni.


I WILL BE HERE

When the hush is loud and heavy
When the heat begins to rise
When a knife could cut the tension
When exultation fills our eyes

When house lights start to flicker
When our hearts begin to rage
When the air's alive and crackling
And Clay Aiken stalks the stage

(Though the wait had seemed forever
And we’d bitched beyond belief
He had wanted to be perfect
All we wanted was relief)

But Clay Aiken’s back in concert
Claymates arrived en masse
Yes, our fervor is amazing
And we’ve proven we’ve got class

He’s finally here before us
The spell he spins is cast
The angst has been forgotten
It’s opening night at last

The crowd is on its feet now
The screaming has begun
United in euphoria
Our voices rise as one

He shines with arms outstretching
Eyes twinkling with delight
When he bites that swollen lower lip -
I’ll pass out at the sight

Just my luck to miss the opening
And no one will notice me
Lying here semiconscious
Awash in ecstasy  


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Post by: Marilyn on March 11, 2010, 09:06:09 AM
I wonder if Clay is nervous-I bet he has a big grin all over his face. I bet his eyes are twinkling. I will bet he is twitching (be still my heart)

Its strange that we havent heard of any guest names. We know Quiana will be there.
Praying that everyone has a safe journey. My son is picking me up at 6:00 a.m. tomorrow morning. I hope that LI traffic cooperates with me!


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 11, 2010, 09:31:58 AM
From notacanuck at CH:

From Twitter:
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lloveland: We're talking to Clay Aiken tomorrow morning about his concert in Raleigh. Make sure to listen to Mix 101.5!
 



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Post by: clayharmony on March 11, 2010, 10:08:54 AM
 

OT:  Does anyone hate bra shopping as  much as I do?  Seriously, I'd rather clean toilets.  Why in the world would they make larger cup sizes with stretch straps?  This makes no sense to me.  The straps stretch and your boobs hang.   :bang :bang :bang


I have wondered the same thing!!  After resisting for years, I got up the 'gumption' sp?! lol to finally get fitted...I thought I'd have to pay over a $100 for one to fit... :icon_eek: ...but in fact, they had pretty ones...no stretch straps for half of that...(and they were sensitive, if you will, for modesty...didn't have to stand there topless, thank heavens...  :blush)  I looked up the one I now wear on the net for you Micki...here's the link...they carry it at that fabulous store, Nordstroms.

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/3021222/0~2376776~2374325~6023665?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6023665&P=1

ETA: Corrected the link...

It's getting so exciting...love it that Quiana will be on hand.

Good luck to all of our travelers...especially those dealing with the storms that are suppose to be rolling in to the Atlanta area this evening.

And Meesa...if you read over here...best wishes to you and your hubby to be...may your wedding dreams come true...

Marilyn...thanks for posting that version of I Will Be Here...it just says it all!



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Post by: Pepe on March 11, 2010, 10:26:31 AM
JOANNA, was interested in the bra  you were talking about.  I have the same problem.  I would like a good minimizer bra.  The website you posted doesn't work for me.



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Post by: GWENN on March 11, 2010, 12:09:24 PM
BOTH MY DAUGHTER AND I WEAR THE SAME BRA FROM WACHOL.  IT IS A MINIMIZER.  WE BOTH LOVE IT.  IT IS ABOUT $65 AND WORTH EVERY PENNY.  THE UNDERWIRE DOESN'T HURT.  WASHES WELL. 

WON A GAME AGT MAH JONGG.  I NEEDED TO GET OUT.

SOME ERRANDS AS SOON AS BARRY CAN GET HIMSELF UP.

GWENN

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Post by: claydevotee on March 11, 2010, 12:26:40 PM
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OT:  Does anyone hate bra shopping as  much as I do?  Seriously, I'd rather clean toilets.  Why in the world would they make larger cup sizes with stretch straps?  This makes no sense to me.  The straps stretch and your boobs hang.     


 :lmao :lmao :lmao MICKI, I can SO relate to that!  Well, add my name to the list of Wacoal fans.  Some styles of Wacoals come in a wider variety of sizes than others, so may I suggest you go to their website (wacoal.com) and look at all of the minimizers.  There's no comparison to other brands IMHO.   I love, love, love Wacoal, too!!!!  :bigsmile  :purpbana

Hmmmmm, I wonder if Clay will somehow work the word "Wacoal" into his banter during his concert tour.  (I doubt that he would for the taping, though??? ) 


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Post by: claydevotee on March 11, 2010, 12:32:25 PM
MICKI, check out www. barenecessities.com.  The Wacoal site has changed and isn't of much help for ordering. 

Based on my previous experiences and observations at Clay concerts over the years, one would think 50% of the women at the concert tomorrow night will be wearing Wacoals!!!!  :bigsmile


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Post by: Marilyn on March 11, 2010, 02:14:39 PM
It is reported that Sean and Ben were spotted in Raleigh.


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Post by: wvclayfan on March 11, 2010, 03:44:31 PM
OT:  Does anyone hate bra shopping as  much as I do?  Seriously, I'd rather clean toilets.  Why in the world would they make larger cup sizes with stretch straps?  This makes no sense to me.  The straps stretch and your boobs hang.   :bang :bang :bang
Good lord. Tell me about it. You're looking at the girl who wears two bras to exercise. :lol

I will have to check out those bras you all speak of. I'm all about minimizing AND supporting. :wink

Even though I can't be there tomorrow, I'm  :bouncy :bouncy just thinking about it. Feels like it's been an eternity.


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Post by: Sundancer on March 11, 2010, 04:16:32 PM
It is reported that Sean and Ben were spotted in Raleigh.
I wouldn't know them if I bumped right into them. :shrug


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 11, 2010, 04:20:04 PM
Here is a very new interview on WRAL.com.   Enjoy as we wait for tomorrow


http://www.wral.com/entertainment/video/7217335/


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Post by: Sundancer on March 11, 2010, 04:27:25 PM
Here is a very new interview on WRAL.com.   Enjoy as we wait for tomorrow


http://www.wral.com/entertainment/video/7217335/

Thanks, Barb! :bigsmile

Oh my, that's a, um, new look.


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Post by: claydevotee on March 11, 2010, 04:35:16 PM
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Oh my, that's a, um, new look.

Looks like Clay applied a few too many dabs of Brylcream....as the commercial used to go:"Brylcream...A little dab'll do ya"!  (Oops, I'm really dating myself.... :para)


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Post by: Sundancer on March 11, 2010, 04:38:38 PM
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Oh my, that's a, um, new look.

Looks like Clay applied a few too many dabs of Brylcream....as the commercial used to go:"Brylcream...A little dab'll do ya"!  (Oops, I'm really dating myself.... :para)

Did Perry Como or Andy Williams use that stuff? Maybe he's catching the vibe. :dust


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Post by: claydevotee on March 11, 2010, 04:46:39 PM
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Oh my, that's a, um, new look.

Looks like Clay applied a few too many dabs of Brylcream....as the commercial used to go:"Brylcream...A little dab'll do ya"!  (Oops, I'm really dating myself.... :para)

Did Perry Como or Andy Williams use that stuff? Maybe he's catching the vibe. :dust

I'll have to do some research..  Although as I recall, Clark Gable used a whole glob on his hair, thereby making his ears stick out even more. 


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Post by: claydevotee on March 11, 2010, 04:49:18 PM
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Oh my, that's a, um, new look.

Looks like Clay applied a few too many dabs of Brylcream....as the commercial used to go:"Brylcream...A little dab'll do ya"!  (Oops, I'm really dating myself.... :para)

Did Perry Como or Andy Williams use that stuff? Maybe he's catching the vibe. :dust

Reporting back after extensive research.....it appears that neither Perry Como nor Andy Williams used more than a little dab of Brylcream on their hair. 


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 11, 2010, 05:03:42 PM
Here is a very new interview on WRAL.com.   Enjoy as we wait for tomorrow


http://www.wral.com/entertainment/video/7217335/

Thanks, Barb! :bigsmile

Oh my, that's a, um, new look.

Yep,  it's long in the back, possibly like the picture we got from Decca that was so popular.  Maybe he's growing it out for the photo shoot but has it slicked back because that may give him the look  of the 50' & 60's for the special--looks blond again too


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Post by: Sundancer on March 11, 2010, 05:06:18 PM
I'll have to do some research..  Although as I recall, Clark Gable used a whole glob on his hair, thereby making his ears stick out even more. 
Ah. Then this could be a bad look for Clay. :lmao


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Post by: claydevotee on March 11, 2010, 05:07:38 PM
I'll have to do some research..  Although as I recall, Clark Gable used a whole glob on his hair, thereby making his ears stick out even more. 
Ah. Then this could be a bad look for Clay. :lmao

Indeed!  But maybe the Clark Gable look, ears and all, is what Clay is aiming for.  If so.....well....BINGO!!!!  :lol


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Post by: Sundancer on March 11, 2010, 05:08:05 PM
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Oh my, that's a, um, new look.

Looks like Clay applied a few too many dabs of Brylcream....as the commercial used to go:"Brylcream...A little dab'll do ya"!  (Oops, I'm really dating myself.... :para)

Did Perry Como or Andy Williams use that stuff? Maybe he's catching the vibe. :dust

Reporting back after extensive research.....it appears that neither Perry Como nor Andy Williams used more than a little dab of Brylcream on their hair. 
They got it right. :giggle


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Post by: GWENN on March 11, 2010, 05:09:19 PM
WAITING FOR JILL.

LOVED THE INTERVIEW.  BUT THE HAIR. :icon_eek: :icon_eek: :icon_eek: :icon_eek: :icon_eek: :icon_eek: :icon_eek:  THOSE EARS LOOK ............ INTERESTING.  I DON'T THINK THEY LOOKED THAT BIG SINCE EARLY IDOL.  HOPE THE BRYLCREAM DISAPPEARS BEFORE TOMORROW.  THE COLOR IS FINE.  HE SURE SEEMS HAPPY.  AND DOES HE LOVE HIS HOME TOWN OR WHAT?

I DIDN'T LIKE THE COMMENT OF JUNE OR AUGUST FOR THE SPECIAL TO AIR.  YIKES.

TOMORROW SEEMS SURREAL.

GWENN


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Post by: clayharmony on March 11, 2010, 05:11:59 PM
MICKI, check out www. barenecessities.com.  The Wacoal site has changed and isn't of much help for ordering. 

Based on my previous experiences and observations at Clay concerts over the years, one would think 50% of the women at the concert tomorrow night will be wearing Wacoals!!!!  :bigsmile

I have to check that site out too, Thea...I love Wachol bras...didn't think they'd be in my size and price range...once again...'hope springs eternal'... :bigsmile ...just got in, now I'm off to first enjoy the interview...whee!...I love all of this...hope fans are arriving safely and on time...

BTW...as long as we are helping each other with attire....I've got a dilemma out her in SoCal...as in skimpy sweaters for winter...brrrr...I'm cold in my new location...it gets quite chilly out here, and I am having difficulty finding warm sweaters for plus sized gals...maybe you folks who've had to dress for snow and all know of some resources...I'd be really grateful for any tips! :bouncy


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Post by: claydevotee on March 11, 2010, 05:12:49 PM
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TOMORROW SEEMS SURREAL.

I'm wondering if Clay's thinking the same thing????  


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Post by: mimi on March 11, 2010, 05:13:59 PM
I just watched the video,and I've got my fingers crossed that he hopefully had just got out of the shower,and had washed his hair :doh

I just talked to Betty. She said her train trip was very tiring and she has rested up most of the day. Marilyn will be rooming with her,and is coming tomorrow.

We had one of the heaviest rains this evening that I have seen in a long time.I was unfortunately driving home from work,and it was pouring so hard I could barely see the road.very scary. I would have pulled off but on the road from Rebecca it is a hilly road and there is no soft shoulder on the side just drop offs. I was glad to get home.

I hope it will clear up a little tomorrow..It is warm,today it was 71,and it is suppose to be in the upper 60 tomorrow.

For those of you traveling... I hope you have a safe trip, & we will see you tomorrow.


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Post by: Sundancer on March 11, 2010, 05:20:00 PM
I just watched the video,and I've got my fingers crossed that he hopefully had just got out of the shower,and had washed his hair:duh
I hope that's it, Marlene. :para


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Post by: claydevotee on March 11, 2010, 05:28:04 PM
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I'm cold in my new location...it gets quite chilly out here, and I am having difficulty finding warm sweaters for plus sized gals...maybe you folks who've had to dress for snow and all know of some resources...I'd be really grateful for any tips!

JOHANNA, off the top of my head.....Land's End, Eddie Bauer, Coldwater Creek, JC Penney.  Of course the selection of winter clothes may not be as good this time of year because of the spring and summer lines.  But maybe you can find some end-of-winter-season bargains!   :wink


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Post by: GWENN on March 11, 2010, 05:33:55 PM
ANOTHER INTERVIEW.  WONDERFUL.  HAIR DOESN'T LOOK AS BAD AND NEITHER DO THE EARS. :bigsmile

http://wake.mync.com/site/wake/news/story/49208/clay-aiken-talks-about-concert-special-wake-co.-school-board

GWENN


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Post by: lovinclay on March 11, 2010, 05:37:15 PM
The interview was really good, but ohlordy, that hair.  :doh   I sure hope that's not the style for the album cover.    :para

Everyone traveling to Raleigh......be safe. 


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Post by: clayharmony on March 11, 2010, 05:40:36 PM
There are two interviews...have you all seen this one, too?

http://www.wral.com/entertainment/video/7217335/


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 11, 2010, 05:47:58 PM
ANOTHER INTERVIEW.  WONDERFUL.  HAIR DOESN'T LOOK AS BAD AND NEITHER DO THE EARS. :bigsmile

http://wake.mync.com/site/wake/news/story/49208/clay-aiken-talks-about-concert-special-wake-co.-school-board

GWENN

I just watched this and it is a great interview--he talked for 10 minutes and covered a lot of subjects.  Hair doesn't look so blond in this one.

This is one smart man.


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Post by: mimi on March 11, 2010, 06:01:50 PM
I just watched the Wake mync interview,and that is one of the best interviews I have seen in a long time..He is a very intelligent & articulate man.(but I don't like that hair pulled back..I like it fluffy,not flat)


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Post by: lovinclay on March 11, 2010, 06:04:06 PM
That second interview was great!  Boy, can that man talk, and I love listening!  Sorry, but the hair still looks like crap.   


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Post by: Sundancer on March 11, 2010, 06:17:36 PM
Oh god, that 'do is awful.

Gwenn,
forget the binocs! :para


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 11, 2010, 06:34:02 PM
Oh god, that 'do is awful.

Gwenn,
forget the binocs! :para

 :lmao        :lmao        :lmao


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Post by: claydevotee on March 11, 2010, 07:20:30 PM
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Oh god, that 'do is awful.

Gwenn, forget the binocs!



Maybe he'll read all of this talk about his "do" and surprise you with a nice spikey AI2 "do" tomorrow night.  Here's hoping!   :please


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on March 11, 2010, 07:31:20 PM
Some are thinking(on other boards) maybe he had his hair combed like that to keep us guessing until tomorrow...I'm hoping thats what it is. :hmmm: :cross :please


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Post by: clayharmony on March 11, 2010, 07:59:31 PM
Some are thinking(on other boards) maybe he had his hair combed like that to keep us guessing until tomorrow...I'm hoping thats what it is. :hmmm: :cross :please

I wouldn't put it past him...we all know how he loves to tease - keep us guessing...and his current hair style is always a priority topic... :lol


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Post by: Marilyn on March 11, 2010, 08:42:59 PM
It looks too long to do the spiky bit. I sure hope he doesnt

Anyway, I did not want to tell tales but we, I mean HE had just had a shower right before the interview. He needed to wake up because he was plumb wore out!! :lol :bouncy :bouncy

Yeah, I too believe he does not want to let us see what the hair will be like tomorrow. I just hope it is NOT that slicked back.

Maybe a duck tail or whatever the heck they called it?
Gotta go to bed- getting up at 5:00 -son Jay picking me up at 6:00 for the ride to JFK. Hatessss traffic!!


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Post by: clayfannj on March 11, 2010, 09:13:56 PM
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Oh god, that 'do is awful.


It's more like a DON'T!!!!! :doh


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Post by: Marilyn on March 12, 2010, 02:28:50 AM
Waiting for my son to pick me up and I will be on my way.


See some of you ladies in Raleigh-latah!!!


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Post by: GWENN on March 12, 2010, 02:29:12 AM
LEAVING IN 15 MINUTES.  SEE Y'ALL!!!!!!

LOVE,
GWENN AND JILL


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 12, 2010, 04:33:26 AM
You ladies already in Raleigh might want to pick up a copy of the N & O this morning.  There is a good artilce on Clay by Matt Ehlers on the front page of the weekend section.  Could have used a newer picture but the article is good.  I love all the positive press this time around.

I'm headed to work for a half day then I'll be headed to Raleigh.  See some of you later today.  Everyone have a safe trip.


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Post by: mimi on March 12, 2010, 05:39:40 AM
EEEEEEEEE!!! Sorry ,just had to get that out of my system. :bouncy :purpbana :bigsmile

Lynda Loveland & Bill did an interview this morning on the radio, heres the link for WRAL..then on the left side under Bill & Lynda, click on As Heard On, and you can listen to the whole interview.

http://www.wralfm.com/

ENJOY!


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Post by: mimi on March 12, 2010, 06:07:41 AM
There is a report(on CV) from one of the gals that went to the rehearsal last night 

BE PREPARED TO BE BLOWN AWAY ,also a report not to worry about this voice that he sounds fabulous, wonderful ,etc

Also reports there will be DANCERS

Also his hair was not slicked back but But styled like the HRC speech..THANK GOODNESS!

SOON ,IS FINALLY HERE,and THIS IS THE NIGHT :bouncy


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on March 12, 2010, 06:17:55 AM
Marlene, your excitement is a a wonderful morning treat!


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Post by: claydevotee on March 12, 2010, 06:42:51 AM
Safe travels to all and most importantly.....ENJOY!!!!  :dancingparty :ghug


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Post by: lovinclay on March 12, 2010, 07:47:42 AM
Dancers?   :para   :bduh


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Post by: Glory on March 12, 2010, 08:33:55 AM



                                               OH I WISH I HAD GONE, I GUESS ITS TO LATE HUH. :icon_rolleyes:


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Post by: wisconsinmaniac on March 12, 2010, 09:17:40 AM



                                               OH I WISH I HAD GONE, I GUESS ITS TO LATE HUH. :icon_rolleyes:

So do I, GLORY!  :hugg  Hoping there will be "a next time"!  :bouncy :bouncy

It sounds like tonight will be an unforgettable experience for those who attend! A full Clay concert . . . it's about damn time!! :smile


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Post by: mimi on March 12, 2010, 10:26:41 AM
One of the dancer's is from SYTYCD season 2, Allison...That's all I know about that but she tweeted one of her friends she was on her way to Raleigh to dance for the Clay Aiken PBS show.

I wonder if Reed might be dancing?..just me wondering!

It is almost time for Barbara to pick me up.

I've talked to Betty this morning ,and she and Marilyn were having lunch in a coffee shop.

Will check in with you gals later..I just wish everyone could have gone.

Ruben was spotted at the RDU airport this morning.


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Post by: clayharmony on March 12, 2010, 04:36:37 PM
Wow...CM is sure empty...I hope we don't crash the site later this evening!


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Post by: lorilovesgolf on March 12, 2010, 05:23:34 PM
Oh I hope everyone is having a great time in Raleigh!!!  I'm hoping to catch this show on the road!!!!


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Post by: claydevotee on March 12, 2010, 07:37:01 PM
Oh I hope everyone is having a great time in Raleigh!!!  I'm hoping to catch this show on the road!!!!

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Wow...CM is sure empty...I hope we don't crash the site later this evening!

Hi, LORI and JOHANNA!  I'm sorry it's been so lonely around here today.  Phil and I were out all day;  we just got home about 30 minutes ago.  The drive home was treacherous....so foggy we could barely see 10 feet ahead of us.  Plus there's always a chance a deer will run out into the road.  'Tis the season for deer mating, so we all know where their minds are!   :lol

Well now......hopefully some PBS concert reports will start dribbling in.  Sigh, it just wasn't meant to be for me to be there this time around, but as LORI mentioned, I'm hoping to catch this show on the road!!!

Might be back on a little later..... :wave


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Post by: clayfannj on March 12, 2010, 07:37:07 PM
Waiting patiently to hear from Gwenn. She promised to call me when it was over.. Sounds like he is ready to make quite a splash.!!!  I'm glad... Happy we'll be able to see it in June...


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Post by: claydevotee on March 12, 2010, 07:42:02 PM
Waiting patiently to hear from Gwenn. She promised to call me when it was over.. Sounds like he is ready to make quite a splash.!!!  I'm glad... Happy we'll be able to see it in June...

Before I go slip into my jammies.... :wave  :hugg MARION!  I'm sure Gwenn will be calling you any minute.  Probably right now the Claymaniacs are gathered in the Marriott Hotel lobby basking in the afterglow of the concert.  Once they come back down to earth I'm sure the reports will start coming in! 

In the meantime......SO HAPPY THAT TOMORROW IS MEESA AND JOE'S WEDDING DAY!!!  Her wedding invitation was so beautiful.  There was a black and white sketch of a castle with the caption "Dreams do come true".  So sweet and so meaningful for the two of them undoubtedly.   I couldn't be happier for them!!!   :hugg


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Post by: Moonshot on March 12, 2010, 09:56:17 PM
Hey Johanna, if you're wondering where all of your posts went I moved them into a thread of their own here:

PBS Special Filming Reports 3-10-12 (http://www.claymaniacs.com/forums/index.php/topic,16133.0.html)

I had meant to create a thread earlier and completely forgot in all the hustle and bustle of today. Thanks so much for bringing over all those reports! :hugg


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Post by: Moonshot on March 13, 2010, 08:28:12 AM
Hello Ladies,

Please take a moment to read the PBS Special Filming Disclaimer. (http://www.claymaniacs.com/forums/index.php/topic,16134.new.html#new)

Thank you!


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Post by: Glory on March 13, 2010, 03:36:43 PM




                              ANYBODY KNOW WHAT TIME MEESA WAS GETTING MARRIED, I CCAN'T WAIT TO SEE PICTURES.


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Post by: claydevotee on March 13, 2010, 03:46:07 PM




                              ANYBODY KNOW WHAT TIME MEESA WAS GETTING MARRIED, I CCAN'T WAIT TO SEE PICTURES.

 :wave GLORY, the wedding was scheduled for 2:00 CST today.  And I believe they're going to Las Vegas for their honeymoon!  :bigsmile


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Post by: GWENN on March 13, 2010, 04:00:49 PM
I AM BACK.  MY RECAP IS IN THE PBS THREAD.  I WILL JUST SAY THAT I AM SOOOO IN LOVE WITH THIS MAN. 

DIDN'T READ ANY OTHER RECAPS AND DON'T WANT TO.  I AM HOPING SOMEONE CAN ENLARGE ONE OF THE PROFESSIONAL PIX SO I CAN REALLY SEE HOW CLAY LOOKED.  I AM NOT LOOKING AT THE ONES TAKEN BY FANS.  CLAY MADE IT PERFECTLY CLEAR THAT HE DIDN'T WANT THAT.  I RESPECT HIS WISHES EVEN THOUGH SOME FANS THINK THEY DON'T HAVE TO.

GOTTA GO TEND TO BARRY.

GWENN


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Post by: Sundancer on March 13, 2010, 05:03:35 PM
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I RESPECT HIS WISHES EVEN THOUGH SOME FANS THINK THEY DON'T HAVE TO.
How can you be a fan of someone if, when they ask you to do something, your response is, "Screw you. It's all about me" ? :scratch


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Post by: mimi on March 13, 2010, 05:49:45 PM
Hi ,
Just got back home from spending a wonderful day with Barbara Betty & Marilyn..
We started out with breakfast, then back to the hotel to met up with one of Bettys friends that she met on the train on her trip to Raleigh, Meg.

We caught the R Bus to downtown Raleigh and went to The Museum of NC Natural History..It was very interesting, and we had a very good time. Then we later had lunch at a English Pub(The Oxford)..walked back to hotel and on the way stopped in at the Krispy Creme Donut Shoppe(which fortunately for us, was right next door to the Marriott :bigsmile)

We had a full busy day so we said our goodbyes and Barbara brought me home,and she is on her way back to Wilson.

Did I forget to tell you we have some great gals on this board ,and I treasure each & everyone of your friendships.

I left my recap on The PBS Special Filming thread.


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Post by: wvclayfan on March 14, 2010, 05:03:05 AM
:wave Happy DST! Did everyone get enough sleep? :lol

Sunny - What did you think of the show/songs? I'm curious.



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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 14, 2010, 07:22:42 AM
I think I am still in a fog (or maybe I'm always in one) but this weekend was so very special.

We saw an absolutely remarkable show and the extra added bonus was getting so see so many long-time friends (notice I didn't say "old") and make some new ones.

Marlene, Gwenn, Jill, Betty & Marilyn -- it was great spending the time with you.  The one thing I didn't get to experience until 2005 is the fun that being with other fans is half the enjoyment of seeing a Clay show.  Not only do you see Clay but we can relive it that night and into the next day with friends who are there for the same purpose and understand exactly what you feel and are talking about.

Sunny & Michelle -- it was wonderful to see both of you again and to realize that we were sitting together at the show was an added bonus.

Tiffany -- it was so nice to finally meet you and I enjoyed the time we got to spend together.  Hopefully, I'll run into you at future concerts.

To Betty's friend, May, and all other ladies I met in the lobby -- you really don't meet a stranger in this fandom.

OK, Clay, we need info on the tour so we can make plans

Now I am going to have to turn this computer off and do what I have got to do to get ready for another week, otherwise, I'll probably sit here all day and read.

Marilyn and Betty - hope your trips home are safe and uneventfull

Gwenn -- my thoughts will be with you and Barry this week as he has his surgery.  I hope he will have complete relief from his pain.

To all others -- hope I see you "SOON" on the road.

Everyone have a great day and I'll see you later


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Post by: GWENN on March 14, 2010, 09:31:20 AM
I LOVE THIS--

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From cablegirl at CV:
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One tidbit that I will share is about who I was seated next to. When Clay asked all of his teachers to stand we ended up seated next to most of them (hoping the camera missed us). As the gentleman next to me started to sit down I said oh you were one of his teachers and he said, "No I was his High School Principal and he hated me." Well the show continued on and I waited till the end to talk to him again. He said that Clay was quite a hand full his senior year and that they had more than a few run ins... all said with a big smile on his face... he then told me that he had loved the show, thought Clay was fantastic and then shared something with me that I thought was so cool..... Back at the end of the second run of Spamalot Clay flew him, his wife and a few of the other teachers and their families to New York for 3 days... all expenses paid. He then said "He may have been a handfull, but I think we're all even now" and he smiled and laughed.

I AM INTERESTED IN THIS SINCE PINK WORKS FOR PBS.

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Pink Armchair wrote:

I was so thrilled with the way the taping went. Clay, first of all, really was better than I've ever seen him and vocally he knocked it out of the park over and over again. Unbelievable. I have to say (and was fortunate to get to say to a couple of people associated with the production) that I had sat in a lot of tapings but had never seen something with that many elements go so smoothly, with so few retakes (damn it *g*) and almost no problems (the poor guy who broke his leg notwithstanding -- hope he's doing okay). I have a huge amount of respect for whoever directed it -- it was choreographed and orchestrated to the NTH degree -- a really first class production. It's very difficult to film something as if it were going out live, and they did it in spades. My hat is off to them.

In fact, my main emotion watching the performance was that it was like seeing a rare and priceless jewel, after years stuck in a drawer, finally placed in its proper setting. It was, in a word, dazzling, both visually and aurally. I think I'm always going to remember it that way.

And I can't wait to see how the whole thing translates on TV. If I recall correctly, Clay has always gone over pretty well on there. *g*

SO SORRY SM ISN'T ON THE CD.  I READ THAT 19E OWNS THE RIGHTS TO MUCH OF ELVIS'S STUFF.  WONDER IF THAT HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 14, 2010, 09:51:05 AM
:wave Happy DST! Did everyone get enough sleep? :lol

Sunny - What did you think of the show/songs? I'm curious.



I always want more sleep! :lol

I thought the show was very well done. They only used a couple different backdrops, but with lots of creative lighting effects, they worked to set the mood and keep the energy flowing. I liked some of the songs; others... just no. Either I was unfamiliar with them or they were slowed down to the point where the energy just dropped through the floor. Two older ladies next to me were bawling their eyes out at every song, clasping hands and passing paks of Kleenex back and forth. I remember sitting there and thinking a couple times, "Maybe I'm too young to be a Clay fan. I just can't appreciate this stuff." :shrug

When he sang Suspicious Minds, the whole audience perked up. He followed it with Buttercup, and I thought, "If he keeps this going with a 3rd up-tempo, he'll blow the roof this place." But, he didn't. Two upbeat songs, and then he was back on the stool for something slow. I was disappointed--more so to read that neither of those songs will be on the CD. It looks like Mack the Knife will be the token uptempo. :sniff

Unchained Melody was a little different. But honestly, I heard him do it on AI... heard him do it in concert... heard him do it with David Foster... and never really cared for the song to begin with. So, I'm tired of it. I would have traded that one for something upbeat. :giggle

His voice was great, though. I think Decca probably said, "We'll do our part and support you financially to make a great album, promote you, etc., but you have to do your part and work with a coach and rehearse." And I thought it was sweet, and a little revealing, that he was so nervous when he first came out. :smile



Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: corbet on March 14, 2010, 10:39:48 AM

      Barb and Mimi,
                                 
                     
                   Before I do anything else I want to thank you both for your wonderful Southern Hospitality.
                    You are such kind and welcoming people.
                             
                           Loved our tour around  the town and Marilyn and I got our wish........fish and chips
                    at the Oxford.

                                   May and I arrived into Winter Park about  11AM and Kay and Linda had to continue
                                  to Tampa and Sarasota.
                                                                                          Betty


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: corbet on March 14, 2010, 10:48:18 AM

      Gwenn,
                                It was lovely spending time with you and Jill, Why do I get the impression
                                that you really do like { love}Clay???
 
                                     I pray that and he Barry"s surgery is very succesful and the pain will be gone.

                                          Wish the concert had been televised so we could watch it again...NOW!!!!!!

                                                                        Betty


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: corbet on March 14, 2010, 10:53:11 AM

       MIMI,
                     I know you will be hurting today, you walked a long time yesterday.
     
                          Rest now and put your feet up.
             
                                                   Betty


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Glory on March 14, 2010, 11:03:34 AM




                              A QUESTION DID HE SING CONWAY TWITTYS ITS ONLY MAKE BELEIVE IF HE DID DID HE KILL ON IT I LOVE THAT SONG.

                           SUNNY SOUNDS LIKE YOU WERE NOT TO IMPRESSED OR MAYBE YOU ARE TO YOUNG FOR CLAY :lol HE IS A YOUNG OLD SOUL. :lmao

                           BUT HE CAN KILL ON SOME FAST ONES TO WE HAVE HEARD THAT. sigh.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 14, 2010, 11:19:50 AM

                           SUNNY SOUNDS LIKE YOU WERE NOT TO IMPRESSED OR MAYBE YOU ARE TO YOUNG FOR CLAY :lol HE IS A YOUNG OLD SOUL. :lmao

          BUT HE CAN KILL ON SOME FAST ONES TO WE HAVE HEARD THAT. sigh.
I probably wasn't as impressed as some folks were. It's not the kind of music I would listen to--and clearly, the songs didn't have the same meaning for me that they had for the women sitting next to me, swapping tissues the whole time. :para

I thought the show was well-done, and I thought he did a good job in it. I just think his idea of a good tempo for a song and mine are radically opposite.

                 


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Glory on March 14, 2010, 12:18:02 PM




                                      SUNNY SOME I LIKE SOME NOT SO MUCH BUT THATS THE WAY IT IS WITH MUSIC I LIKE THE UPTEMPO SONGS TO .


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Post by: GWENN on March 14, 2010, 02:00:41 PM
SUNNY---I KNOW WHAT YOU HAD SAID AND I HAVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT IT.  IT ISN'T AGE.  NOT AT ALL.  SM IS OLDER THAN SOME OF THE SLOWER SONGS.  YOU LIKE UPTEMPO SONGS.  THAT IS YOUR TASTE AND, FOR THE MOST PART, I DO ALSO.  THEY ARE MORE FUN. 

I THOUGHT OF THE BARBRA STREISAND CONCERT I WATCHED A COUPLE OF MONTHS AGO.   HER SONGS ARE SURELY NOT  UPTEMPO.  NONE I CAN THINK OF ANYWAY.  I AM WONDERING IF REAL SINGERS LIKE SLOWER SONGS.  I HAVE NO REAL ANSWER.

THAT BEING SAID, THE UPTEMPO SONGS CLAY SANG REQUIRED SKILL.  HE DOES NOT SCREAM.  HE SINGS EVERY SONG.  EVERY NOTE. 

I HAVE NEVER HAD ONE CD FROM ANYONE WHERE I LOVED EVERY SONG.  NOT EVEN THE BEATLES.  I AM NOT EXPECTING TO LOVE EVERY CUT ON THIS CD.  BUT FROM WHAT WE HEARD, I WILL BASICALLY LIKE THE CD.  AND I WILL LOVE THE CONCERTS.

AND HE IS DOING WHAT HE WANTS TO DO.  GOOD FOR HIM.

SOMEONE ASKED REED HOW HE LIKED THE CONCERT.  HIS ANSWER---AMAZING.   :lol :lol :lol  COULD WE EXPECT ANYTHING ELSE.  CUTE.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on March 14, 2010, 02:35:52 PM
I finally got some sleep last night( and over slept until 9:00 )even though I had set the clocks ahead..

I though about Betty this morning and knew she and her friends were still on the train traveling back home. It was good to see that she had posted,and that she was back home again. Now maybe you can catch up on your much needed rest Betty.

My knee did a lot better than I expected..I figured after all the walking that I would probably have a lot of difficulty today..So it must be healing a little more everyday.

Gwenn, I have been thinking a lot about you and Barry. I have certainly been praying for you both,and I hope Barry will be getting the relief he needs from his surgery on Wed.
You are a very strong woman, a lot more so I think than you give your self credit for. It was very sweet seeing your concern for your DH,and how devoted you are to your family.

I had reported to the gals that were here that on Thur my friend Ruth had had a set back,because she had contacted a stomach virus,and was unable to eat, so she was back on an IV. After talking to Moose a few minutes ago,I am happy to report she is now feeling much better.She is being treated with antibotics,and is able to eat now.
Moose said that she has been up several times today,and the therapist had her hopping around the room several times. Again thank you so much for your kindnesses & concern for this family.It has meant a lot to us all.

My DH is back from his trip to VA,and he took me out to eat lunch,and actually seemed very interested in my adventures this weekend..he asked a lot of questions,and I was more than happy to answer them ,and even some he didn't ask about.

My ex DIL called today to tell me how much she and her MIL Gail enjoyed the show. They both loved hearing about a lot of our Clay adventures while we were having dinner at The Pit. She said they both loved the show & would be interested in maybe going to some of his concerts, and that they were both going to buy his album...Converts, I Love em'. :bigsmile

Gail is a 3rd grade school teacher,and she was so touched by the story Clay related about his 6th grade teacher,and the tribute to his past teachers, brought tears to both her and Stacey, as it did to many in the audience. I had been telling her for years now why I loved that man ,and they got their first hand experience of the wonderful person he is,and they both commented on how funny he wasalso ..They loved when he ws telling about that was the first time he had been on that stage in 14 years?and that wasn't it ironic that Clay Aiken one night, and "Menopause" the next night.:lol

After you've been to something like this, you just keep thinking of so many little things that happened during the evening,and I just wish you had all been able to be there with us to experience Clay.

It was funny because we always refer to being in a Clay fog..Well you can ask Jill & Gwenn, they were actually in "Clay fog"in fact there were covered in it during MR. It was beautiful but you couldn't see the first few rows because of the foggy effect,so they were definetly in IT.:bigsmile


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 14, 2010, 03:09:15 PM
SUNNY---I KNOW WHAT YOU HAD SAID AND I HAVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT IT.  IT ISN'T AGE.  NOT AT ALL.  SM IS OLDER THAN SOME OF THE SLOWER SONGS.  YOU LIKE UPTEMPO SONGS.  THAT IS YOUR TASTE AND, FOR THE MOST PART, I DO ALSO.  THEY ARE MORE FUN. 
More fun to dance to, too. (tutu?) :wink


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 14, 2010, 03:11:52 PM
I PUT THIS IN THE PBS THREAD, BUT IT PROBABLHY BELONGS HERE BETTER.

SOMETHING CROSSED MY MIND WHEN I WAS TALKING TO MARION THIS MORNING.  ACAC WAS A DUD.  A BIG BORING DUD.  NOW THAT I SEE WHAT COULD HAVE AND SHOULD HAVE BEEN DONE, I AM MORE FURIOUS THAN EVER WITH RCA.  THINK ON IT.  A SMALL STAGE.  NO LIGHTING.  BORING CRAP.  I HAVE TO WONDER WHAT CLAY'S CAREER WOULD BE LIKE IF RCA HAD BACKED CLAY LIKE THIS.  A SPECIAL WITH SOME OF THESE ELEMENTS.  THE SAME TYPE OF THING COULD HAVE BEEN DONE FOR ATDW.  IF HE SOLD 1/2 MILLION WITH ONLY THE BAREST OF EXPENSE, WHAT COULD HE HAVE SOLD WITH PROMO LIKE THIS?  HE WAS STILL A PRETTY BIG DEAL BACK IN 2006 RIGHT AFTER THE AI5 FINALE WHEN HE STOLE THE SHOW.

ANNOYING.

SUNNY-- :doh :bigsmile

THIS IS CUTE.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v334/dylon/Clay__Jamie_3_121copy.jpg

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Glory on March 14, 2010, 05:15:52 PM




                                 GWENN WHEN I THINK OF OLD FART FACE I GET AGGREVIATED TO.
                             
                                       I THINK DECCA AND CLAY FIT LIKE A GLOVE NEVER SAW THAT FROM RCA EXCEPT WHEN CLAY SOLD CD'S FROM MOAM. THEY SLIPPED UP BIG TIME BUT THEY NEVER PROMOTED RUBEN EITHER. ANYWAY WATER OVER THE BRIDGE NOW, ONWARD AND FORWARD THATS MY MOTTO.I SURE WISH I HAD GONE BUT I WOULD HAVE CRIED DURING THE WHOLE THING,I KNOW I WOULD HAVE. I HAVE A HEART OF PURE MUSH. :lol

                                 


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 14, 2010, 05:21:27 PM

I SURE WISH I HAD GONE BUT I WOULD HAVE CRIED DURING THE WHOLE THING,I KNOW I WOULD HAVE. I HAVE A HEART OF PURE MUSH. :lol
I know where you could have gotten some tissues.


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Post by: Glory on March 14, 2010, 05:27:03 PM



                                         THANKS SUNNY I AM SURE I WOULD HAVE APPRECIATED THEM TO. :hugg :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mrs. c. on March 15, 2010, 04:36:23 AM

I SURE WISH I HAD GONE BUT I WOULD HAVE CRIED DURING THE WHOLE THING,I KNOW I WOULD HAVE. I HAVE A HEART OF PURE MUSH. :lol
I know where you could have gotten some tissues.

Oh you're good :lol :lmao


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Post by: Glory on March 15, 2010, 06:31:26 AM



                                      JUST READ AT CH CLAY SAID THE TMJ SURGERY DID NOT WORK.I WONDER WHAT HE WILL DO NOW, ANYBODY KNOW IF THE TMJ IS PAINFUL,I MEAN THE ORIGINAL TMJ NOT THE SURGERY ITSELF. POOR GUY.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 15, 2010, 06:45:57 AM
Good Lord, wasn't he healing from that for about 6 months?? Poor guy! :para


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 15, 2010, 08:24:23 AM
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JUST READ AT CH CLAY SAID THE TMJ SURGERY DID NOT WORK.I WONDER WHAT HE WILL DO NOW, ANYBODY KNOW IF THE TMJ IS PAINFUL,I MEAN THE ORIGINAL TMJ NOT THE SURGERY ITSELF. POOR GUY.

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Good Lord, wasn't he healing from that for about 6 months?? Poor guy!


I'd love to read some verification of this latest news before I start pulling out my hair.  Say it isn't so.   :please


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 15, 2010, 08:28:51 AM
Busy week for a couple of ladies here on CM.  GWENN, Barry's surgery is Wednesday, right?  And MICKI, your closing is tomorrow and your move is a few days after that??

After church I spent most of yesterday collapsed on the couch.  And I slept until 9 this morning.  I don't know what's going on with me, but I certainly don't have time for this "resting".    :para  But I am determined to keep going to the health club at least twice weekly.  Maybe I will finally build up some strength. 


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on March 15, 2010, 09:13:51 AM
I read on one of the boards that Clay's manager ,Simon Renshaw said that Clay & Ruben would be touring for three weeks this summer,and Asheville would be the 1st show,and Tried & True Tour would probably be after Jan..

Don't jump on me!!! It's not my fault, and it HOPEFULLY may just be a rumor.



Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 15, 2010, 10:27:57 AM
I read on one of the boards that Clay's manager ,Simon Renshaw said that Clay & Ruben would be touring for three weeks this summer,and Asheville would be the 1st show,and Tried & True Tour would probably be after Jan..

Don't jump on me!!! It's not my fault, and it HOPEFULLY may just be a rumor.
:lol :comfort

I think I read that at the Clackhouse, along with the report from someone who won the rehearsal pass that he said the TMJ surgery wasn't helpful.

January could be a tough time to tour--unless people get/buy themselves tickets as holiday gifts.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 15, 2010, 10:53:11 AM
AFTERNOON--

MY LIFE IS SO BUSY.  PUT UP A HUGE POT OF CHICKEN SOUP THIS MORNING.  PHONE DIDN'T STOP.  BARRY IS IN  SO MUCH PAIN.  NURSE PRACTITIONER DOUBLED HIS MEDS.  DID BILLS.  DID 2 LOADS OF LAUNDRY.  SO, I JUST SAT HERE TO SEE WHAT WAS UP.

I DID READ THE TMJ SURGERY DID NOT WORK ACCORDING TO CLAY.  VERY SAD AFTER ALL THAT PAIN.  I ALSO READ THE TOUR THIS SUMMER IS A SHORT ONE WITH RUBEN AND THE MAIN TOUR IS BEGINNING OF NEXT YEAR.  I GUESS I AM OFF TO ASHVILLE. :bigsmile :icon_eek:  I DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE HE SAID DURING THE  Q& A PART OF THE REHEARSAL BUT I HOPE WE HEAR MORE.  STILL CANNOT GET SM OUT OF MY MIND.  OMG, IT ROCKED.

1 1/2 DAYS UNTIL THE SURGERY.  WE CANNOT WAIT.

MICKI--GOOD LUCK THIS WEEK TO YOU.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on March 15, 2010, 01:27:12 PM
Gwenn~ I have been thinking a lot about you & Barry a lot to day, and am praying for you both.

I have also been thinking a lot about SM ..Lordy have Mercy!:thud

Has anyone hear from Marilyn.?It seems several gals were having trouble with cancelled flights yesterday, and I haven't seen her post,so was wondering if she got home alright.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Glory on March 15, 2010, 02:49:20 PM



                                    MIMI I WAS WONDERING THE SAME THING SHE HAS NOT POSTED AT CV EITHER, I HOPE SHE IS OK...


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 15, 2010, 03:12:34 PM
FROM THE CH.

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More from the Q&A: Someone asked Clay why songs from the 50's & 60's. He said there wasn't really anything special for him other than the songs that just kept resonating with him seemed to fit in the 50's & 60's. He talked about Dave finding the songs & they decided to commit to the 50's & 60's. He said there was one song that they were going to do but found it was done in the early/mid 70's so they dropped it. He said that there was another song that became a hit in 1970, It's Impossible, but Dave chimed in that it was recorded in 1969 so they let that one slip in.

While trying to explain how Clay felt about Decca he told us that last week when he was in NY rehearsing with the band he went to the Decca offices for a fitting. He talked about how much he HATES fittings. He said he usually walks in for a fitting and starts pointing at each set saying "No, No, No, No, No." This time he walked in and looked around and saw only one thing he was a bit iffy on. He put both hands on his heart & said that the people at Decca get him. They aren't trying to make him something he's not & he finally feels like he's home. While telling this story he did tell Dave to close his ears so as not to embarrass him.

I agree with him that he is finally home musically. This is the type of music he wants to make & he's got that magical vocal instrument that just wraps around every note in an absolute pure way. I can't wait to hear what the recorded cd will sound like. I want those deep tones on a recorded CD.

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More from Q&A: There was a camera man following Clay around all day. He also taped during the rehearsal & at least some of the Q&A. Clay insisted it was some of the most boring video tape ever but some of it would probably be used for the DVD. When he said it was boring someone asked if he would sell it & he immediately went into the "How much are you willing to pay"

Someone asked about a UNICEF trip. He said that the person he use to work with on his trips is no longer with UNICEF USA. She has gone to UNICEF International. He said that unless this album goes big internationally he has to stay with UNICEF USA. The USA organization seems to need short notice for trips and he really can't do that any more. For example he was asked to go somewhere in 2 weeks. He said with a child he needs more time to schedule. He also said he really doesn't want to go somewhere safe but he really shouldn't go somewhere very dangerous because he has a child. He was going to go to Haiti but the response was so great he didn't need to go.

I asked him about blogging again on Huffington Post. He said he probably will but he wants to be careful to not over do it. He doesn't want to speak out so much that people just learn to ignore what he says.

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During the Q&A Dave Novik was on the stage leaning against the side wall. Clay was sitting on the edge of the stage. Clay talked about some of the songs and how Dave had chosen a coulple that Clay did think he would like and they ended up being some of his favorites. He said he fell in love with Moon River when the London Symphony Orchestra recorded it and he videoed it with his iPhone. (So now he really has his own clack.)

We asked about international promotion and Clay turned to Dave and asked him. Dave said yes they were planning on taking it international.

You all heard about the tour or nat. Clay told us what he was doing with Ruben was just a few shows and that it would not be a tour like a bus tour. He said he didn't even know what they were going to do but that they had wanted to do something together for the last few years. Clay said we will know more about a tour when they see how the album does.

Simon Renshaw was there durin the rehearsal on Thursday night. I know I saw somewhere that someone saw him at RDU on Friday was either mistaken or he was picking someone up.

It was so great seeing both Dave & Simon there for Clay.

Several times when Clay referred to Decca he put his hands to his chest and said it was just such a joy working with them because they get him. He said he no longer feels like everyone is trying to force a square peg into a round hole.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 15, 2010, 05:21:20 PM
I hope we hear from Marilyn soon and that she is OK.

Gwenn -- thank you so much for all the reports you brought over. 

I'm still thinking about the amazing show we saw Friday night.  It seems like eveyrthing I have read about it has been very complimentary and positive -- I think Clay hit it out of the park.  I hope seeing how good he really is, Decca and everyone in charge of Clay's career will continue to move forward with the plan they have started and that we get to watch it grow and grow.

Sorry to hear that the tour with Ruben will be so short.   I do hope that "beginning of next year" will not be January or February because travel is more difficult then and it will be harder for me to take vacation at that time of year..  Of course, looking on the bright side of life  :bigsmile  maybe the economy will have improved, the CD will be a big success, etc. and Clay will be able to tour by himself.

Maybe another reason he can’t do a full tour this summer is that he has so many other things going on that there is no time--I’m determined to think positive.

Gwenn -- again my best wishes for Barry on Wednesday.


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Post by: claydevotee on March 15, 2010, 05:25:38 PM
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Of course, looking on the bright side of life    maybe the economy will have improved, the CD will be a big success, etc. and Clay will be able to tour by himself.

Maybe another reason he can’t do a full tour this summer is that he has so many other things going on that there is no time--I’m determined to think positive.

BARBARA, I'm with you on staying positive!   :smile


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: corbet on March 15, 2010, 06:53:15 PM

       I just called Marilyn, she is having computer problems.
 
            Going home from Raleigh was not good. First the plane was late so her son could not
            meet her. She had to take two trains and a taxi to get home and may have some wind
             damage to the house.

                       She will try to post.
                                                                           Betty


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on March 15, 2010, 11:53:58 PM
One last post?  ...this is interesting and impressive...

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From Clayniac2 at the OFC (and probably CB)

I was at RDU airport for my 3pm Saturday flight home. After having lunch, I walked around and right to the stage production crew from the taping. I'm sorry that I don't know (or remember) their names, but there were four there. One was the "audience man" with the long hair, another was part of the filming crew and the last two were both the lighting crew (and from Ireland). I thanked "audience man" for a fabulous production, told him how it was the best that I had seen . He then intro'd me to the other three, and wanted me to know that the lighting was a very special treatment designed specifically for Clay for that night. They were so impressed with Clay; his talent, professionalism, attention to detail, and his sense of humor. They loved Ruben and Quiana too. They were also pleased that they were able to tape the concert straight through with only a short amount of "retakes." Only one of the three retakes was because of Clay, and that was the lyric scramble on Mack the Knife the first time. We chatted about Friday night and they told me that after the retakes and most of the audience left, there were just a few people, mostly family and teachers, who remained. I was fortunate enough to have remained there as well, and was able to watch the photo shoot. That was done with Clay's back to the audience section of the theater, the photogs were back where the band had been. Some poses resembled the Time photos, some TV Guide, and some new treatments. Then, when the photo shoot was over, Clay turned again to face the audience area, but was "miming" a couple of songs complete with a lot of personality and movement (even more than I had seen on some of the songs during the taping). I thought perhaps they were just trying for some tighter shots to edit into some of the songs, but the guys said no, it was being filmed for a commercial for the microphone which would be distributed in the tech world. Sorry, I don't know the name of the microphone company. We talked about how so many of us had formed lasting friendships with others all over the country and different parts of the world. Friendships that continue even when Clay is seemingly inactive. They said we were a great audience and they could feel the love. I also told them about how great Clay's concerts were, full of terrific music and lots of fun, and that Clay and Quiana were hilarious together. I told them what a wonderful singer she was too. We ended that part of the conversation with the information that the airing should be in June, but if not, then it will be done in August.

Anyway, the rest of the conversation that I remember had to do with my upcoming trip to Ireland, and with the next gig they were headed for in NYC. They will be taping another PBS special (which makes me think that they are hired by PBS) on board an aircraft carrier with the 4 Troops. This group has just returned from being stationed in Iraq and Afghanistan and have very uplifting music, so that should be a terrific special too.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Marilyn on March 16, 2010, 01:09:21 AM
hi-using my work computer so this will be quick

Home safe.
Lost my coat/raincoat in Raleigh on Friday-went to the theater on Sat. and they checked lost and found and took me into the theater but no luck. Not at the Marriot L &F either. Demmit!! Had to wear my brocade jacket from Friday when I got to NY
Plane delayed a couple of hours so my son could not pick me up as he had to go to work
Walked about 17 miles to the Air Tran shuttle (seemed like it-waaay the other side of the airport, down an escalator, up two escalators, across the moving sidewalk and the "sky walk". The shuttle took me to Jamaica station where I JUST caught a train- had to lug my suitcase and carryons down a huge flight of stairs.The doors to the train were closed but the conductor saw me and opened them again- otherwise an hours wait for the next one. Then I had to change trains for the local one to my town. Taxi home. Ridiculous price for just over a mile. The city taxi's are cheaper!
So my huge metal swing with the canopy is over on its back. Part of my fence is down. When I went to get the mail today some of my vinyl siding at the front of the house is blowing in the wind.

The insurance adjuster is coming Wednesday to look at my porch (which of course leaked all weekend) and the black mold and other damage. I will have him look at the siding and fence too.

But-CLAY WAS AWESOME!!! and I am so glad I got to go. And seeing some of you lovely ladies was icing on the cake.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 16, 2010, 05:48:18 AM
THERE IS THIS YELLOW BALL IN THE SKY!!!!!!!!  SERIOUSLY.  CANNOT BELIEVE IT.  I ALMOST FORGOT WHAT IT LOOKED LIKE.  I WILL OPEN THE WINDOWS.  ENJOY THE AIR.

AND TOMORROW AT THIS TIME, BARRY MAY BE IN SURGERY OR, EVEN FINISHED.  WE WILL KNOW LATER TODAY WHEN WE HAVE TO BE AT THE HOSPITAL.

SO INCREDIBLY SAD TO READ WHAT IS HAPPENING TO US.  I AM NOT GOOD AT COMPUTER STUFF.  WILL SEE WHAT I CAN  DO TO HELP.

THIS IS THE FIRST TIME IN OUR FANDOM THAT WHAT HAPPENED FRIDAY NIGHT WILL NEVER, EVER BE DUPLICATED.  WITH EVERY CONCERT, THERE WAS ANOTHER ONE.  ALL DIFFERENT, BUT CLACK OR ANOTHER.  WITH SPAM, THERE WERE TONS OF SHOWS.  BUT NOT THIS.  WE WAIT FOR THE TV SPECIAL BUT IT IS  NOT GONNA BE JUST WHAT WE SAW.  SIMILAR.  BUT NOT THE SAME THING.  RIGHT NOW, I AM DYING TO RESEE CRYING , UM AND SM.  EXCEPT FOR CRYING, WE HAVE HEARD THEM BEFORE BUT NOT THIS WAY.  CERTAINLY NOT THE ARRANGEMENT FOR UM.

NEED COFFEE.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 16, 2010, 07:11:32 AM
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NEED COFFEE.
Probably all of us need something much stronger than coffee this morning!!!  :lol


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on March 16, 2010, 07:16:58 AM
Thats for sure, Thea!...Gwenn...if you plan on saving some of CM...I did the first page of this thread already...I wasn't sure if CMer's would like this entire thread saved...or just the more recent activity...we could work backwords on it...just an FYI...I have a really fast computer...and when I highlighted and saved just one page of this latest thread, it took awhile for Word to accept it...thought I might have sent it into a 'tizzy'...lol...I've got doctor's appointments today...'back home'...later on this afternoon/evening if the site is still up, I'll be able to help out again.  (Saved the PBS recaps ...just our members...and Clay career highlights so far...)...sending prayers to all who need them...especially Barry!


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on March 16, 2010, 08:16:26 AM
Good Morning!

It was good to see that Marilyn made it safely home..it definetly didn't sound like a fun trip back but at least she made it back. I was concerned about her. While she was in Raleigh she had developed a red spot next to her scar , and I was worried about it. Sorry to hear about your raincoat.  Could you have left it at The Pit ?or in the Van?

I hate it so bad about possibly losing the board..Since I understand NOTHING about what is happening(computor illiterate) please keep in contact with me, even if by e-mail ,and let me know what is going on.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 16, 2010, 08:44:44 AM
I DELETED ALL MY PM'S.  TOOK FOREVER.  I AM  BAD AT MANAGING THEM.  SO, IF ANYONE DOES NOT HAVE THE ALTERNATE SITE URL, PERHAPS WE CAN POST IT SO IT CAN BE BOOKMARKED AND EVERYONE CAN HAVE IT IN  CASE,GOD FORBID, WE AREN'T UP AND RUNNING.  WHAT DO YOU THINK?  OR SHOULD IT BE DONE VIA EMAIL.  NOT SURE.

I AM NOT OF ANY USE IN SAVING STUFF TODAY.  MY MIND IS ELSEWHERE.  SORRY.  JUST KEEP US IN YOUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS.  HOPEFULLY BY TOMORROW AT THIS TIME THE SURGERY WILL BE OVER AND HE WILL BE FINE.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on March 16, 2010, 10:05:55 AM
Gwenn~ I have been thinking about you & Barry all day. I know you will be glad when this is all over. I hope Barry will have a very successful surgery,and believe it or not, I believe you willl be a very good nurse. Good luck to you all tomorrow.

I deleted my PMs too but other than that I don't have a clue what I need to do..Any suggestions?

PAMELA~ Where are you when I need you ? You helped get me here, and here I sit all broken hearted :bigsmile



Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Tiffany on March 16, 2010, 10:06:27 AM
Hey all. I have the other site bookmarked. If anyone needs it PM me.

It's sad we'll lose everything but that's good that some people can try to save some old threads and posts. Crazy people who got us hacked. :bang I don't have paypal. Well the most important thing is hopefully we just have to move and we will still have each other. :hugg

Gwenn-My prayers are with Barry tomorrow and you too. :pray Hang in there. :hugg Hope he has a speedy recovery.

Marilyn-So glad you got home ok but sorry it was uneventful. Clay was worth it right? My head is still at the concert. He was amazing!!! The best we've ever seen!!! Loving all the recaps. Him and Decca are a perfect fit. He is BACK!!! Can't wait to see this on TV!

Johanna-Did you feel the Earthquake in LA?

Lindsey-Happy belated Birthday!!! :birthday:

Love seeing all of you. Hope to see some of you again at a concert this summer the 3 weeks he's doing it and hope he can do a bigger tour next year. :pray And Hope he comes close to us. :cross Love hearing he'll promote the CD overseas. :bouncy

I read someone took pics of Clay's photoshoot after the show. It was on some boards but then it was taken down. He was wearing that suit still but had a differant mic. Kindof like that TV Guide cover a few years ago. Gorgeous!!! :thud


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Marilyn on March 16, 2010, 11:33:45 AM
Someone spoke to Francois, the long haired guy that came on stage a few times. He was with a few other people and evidently pics were taken of Clay with that particular mic because he will be in a commercial endorsing the mic. Hope he sings!!!

When I get home tonight I am going to attempt to start saving some of the Critical Mass starting with the oldest. It will take a long time but I will do my best.

We cannot lose this stuff, its history!!

I think another thing to save would be concert recaps. I will try that too.

I am going to have to do it on my work computer because the other one has ANOTHER VIRUS!! Third time in six months. Its killing me.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Marilyn on March 16, 2010, 11:55:49 AM
ANOTHER CONCERT- OUT WEST!!

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New Concert...

Silver Legacy Casino
Reno Nevada

July 31, 8:00pm PDT

Tix on sale Thurs Mar 18, 10:00am PDT thru Ticketmaster


Boy, not much notice!!!


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 16, 2010, 12:00:03 PM
ANOTHER CONCERT- OUT WEST!!

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New Concert...

Silver Legacy Casino
Reno Nevada

July 31, 8:00pm PDT

Tix on sale Thurs Mar 18, 10:00am PDT thru Ticketmaster


Boy, not much notice!!!

Wow, that's not much notice! Aren't the Asheville tickets going up in April, at least?


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 16, 2010, 12:07:35 PM
I THOUGHT THE SAME THING, SUNNY.  I WISH MORE WOULD BE ANNOUNCED.  LOOKING LIKE I AM GONNA HAVE TO GO TO ASHVILLE.  FIRST CONCERT.  DYING TO SEE THE BILTMORE.  GOTTA FIGURE THIS OUT.  AFTER THE SURGERY.  THAN K GOD I HAVE SOME TIME. 

PRAYING FOR ONE IN ATLANTIC CITY.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: wisconsinmaniac on March 16, 2010, 12:27:27 PM
WHEW . . . . lots to absorb regarding our Claymaniac site.  I cannot imagine not having it.  Also . . . a huge thanks to all who are saving whatever they can while it is still available.  I'm in the middle of a mess at my house with some remodeling  . . so even have trouble accessing my computer part of the time.  I'm still trying to process all of this in my mind. :para 

GWENN   . . .  Hopefully tomorrow at this time, Barry will be on the road to a complete recovery . . . pain-free!  Chronic pain takes such a physical and emotional toll on the patient  . . . and those who love them.  This has been such a rough time for you and Barry.  Prayers, hugs, and positive vibes continue to be sent in your direction!  :hugg

MICKI  . . .   Hope your "moving day" is going smoothly and that this will be a very positive chapter in your life! :hugg

Take care, everybody!


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 16, 2010, 01:02:11 PM
Just had a very long post go "poof"into cyberspace.  It was mainly directed towards GWENN and MICKI.  Dear friends, know that my thoughts and prayers will be with you as you each face huge challenges over the next few days. 

GWENN, May the surgeon's hands be guided by the Lord above  and may Barry enjoy a complete and rapid recovery.  May you be blessed with extra emotional, spiritual and physical strength, lots of patience and a sense of humor as you go through this surgery and subsequent rehabilitation right alongside your husband.   :comfort

MICKI, may this life-changing move bring you joy, peace of mind and a sense of security.  You so deserve to have these financial worries lessened.   You don't complain much, but I've sensed how weighed down you have been over the past year or so by so many fears of the future.  Fear not;  I know the Lord will guide you through this.   :comfort

  Should the website be shut down before I post again, you can get in touch with me via Facebook.  Also MICHELLE, GWENN, MARION and JAN have my phone number. 

Love to all,
Thea 


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 16, 2010, 01:11:29 PM
WAITING FOR THE HOSPITAL TO CALL WITH THE TIME WE ARE TO BE THERE.  THEY SAID BETWEEN 3 AND 5.  IT IS 4:10.  IF THEY DON'T CALL BY 4:50, I AM CALLING THEM.  GOD, I HATE WAITING FOR PEOPLE.  ANNOYING.

TO ALL OF YOU WONDERFUL LADIES WHO HAVE WISHED US WELL---I TREASURE YOUR FRIENDSHIPS AND YOUR PRAYERS. :ghug :ghug :ghug

HOPING ALL IS GOING WELL WITH MICKI.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: corbet on March 16, 2010, 01:12:11 PM

      Gwenn,
                      Many heartfelt prayers for the success  of  Barry's surgery and a speedy recovery.
             
                           Please God, that he will be free from pain and you can both enjoy your lives again.

                       It"s been a long, hard journey.
         
                                                                   Betty :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Jan on March 16, 2010, 01:40:18 PM
GWEN

THE SITE, MIGHT BE GOING DOWN AS I CAN ONLY TYPE ONE WORD AT A TIME AND WAIT FOR IT TO APPEAR OFN THE SCREEN. JUST HAD TO COME ABOARD AND WISH YOU GODS WILL FOR BARRY. IT IS ALMOST FIVE SO PERHAPS I WILL SEE ON THE SCREEN SOON THAT HE IS OK.

LOVE TO ALL YOU WONDERFUL LADIES AND HOPE MICHAEL CAN GET THIS FIXED SOON SO WE WILL NOT LOSE ONE ANOTHER. WE ARE FAMILY

JEANNE AKA JAN

PS.THEA, THINKING OF YOU SISTAH  :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 16, 2010, 01:58:59 PM
GOT THE CALL FROM THE HOSPITAL.  WE HAVE TO BE THERE AT 10:30.  BARRY WAS WISHING FOR EARLIER BUT THIS IS FINE WITH ME.  I FIGURED I WOULD BE THERE ALL DAY ANYWAY, SO AT LEAST I DON'T HAVE TO GET UP AT 4.

JEANNE---THANKS. :hugg

TOOK THE DOGS FOR A WALK.  IT IS GLORIOUS OUT.

GWENN


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Post by: Glory on March 16, 2010, 02:18:00 PM




                                 GWENN I WILL BE THINKING ABOUT BARRY TOMMORROW AND YOU PRAYING ALL GOES WELL AND BARRY WILL BE PAIN FREE.  :hugg :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Marilyn on March 16, 2010, 02:23:14 PM
GOT THE CALL FROM THE HOSPITAL.  WE HAVE TO BE THERE AT 10:30.  BARRY WAS WISHING FOR EARLIER BUT THIS IS FINE WITH ME.  I FIGURED I WOULD BE THERE ALL DAY ANYWAY, SO AT LEAST I DON'T HAVE TO GET UP AT 4.


GWENN

Thoughts and prayers to you and Barry for good results and a speedy recovery  :hugg :hugg :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 16, 2010, 02:33:57 PM
Gwenn,

The best wishes, prayers, and lots of love to you and Barry. I'll be thinking of you the whole time. :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 16, 2010, 03:36:16 PM
Gwenn -- thoughts and prayers are certainly with you and Barry


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sasha on March 16, 2010, 03:38:58 PM
Gwenn-  thoughts and prayers to you and Barry.  HOpe the surgery goes well.  :hugg


Sasha


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Pepe on March 16, 2010, 04:10:14 PM
BARRY wishing you the best of luck on your upcoming surgery.  I can see you and GWENN now frolicking on the beach in Hawaii very soon.  Wishing you pain free days ahead!!!!!!!



Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 16, 2010, 04:42:51 PM
SIGNING OFF FOR TONIGHT.  I WILL TRY TO POST FROM ER'S BLACKBERRY IF I CAN SEE THE THING.  I WILL CALL MARION AND TELL HER TO POST.

AGAIN, YOU ARE ALL THE BEST.  THANKS FOR ALL YOUR PRAYERS AND CONCERN.  LOVE YOU GUYS.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on March 16, 2010, 07:15:13 PM
Gwenn...I'm over at my sisters...did an all day doctor routine...just glad to get on and send you some more prayers for Barry!  Sure hope his pain ends with this procedure...and that he is once again free to be mobile...meet you all at the temporary site...if this one should go down before I post again...once I get home later this evening, I will try and save some more of the CM thread...starting with the current one ...going backward...unless I should do concert threds instead...open to suggestions...:-)...hugs to all...especially Michael!


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 16, 2010, 07:29:38 PM
I have offered to help Moonie save some threads, and have "received my assignments." But I really want to say something here:

Posts about things that happened 6 or 7 years ago, pictures from concerts and after-parties, fan reviews of Galas, etc. are nice. But what makes Claymaniacs unique from all the other boards is not our posts and our pics. The boards overlap and share info anyway. We're different because of our members, and the relationships we have with one another.

If we can save some (or most) of our history, that's great. But I think that what's important is that we get the word out on our new board, whether it's the New & Improved Claymaniacs, Claymaniacs Rising from the Ashes, or Claymaniacs Survived You Suspicious Minds.

We are what's important here: the members, the mods, Michael... Claymaniacs. Be sure you have some email addresses, phone numbers, or some way to reach other board members, so we can all meet at the new house and rebuild or start again. I'll see y'all there! :ghug


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on March 16, 2010, 07:49:51 PM
I have offered to help Moonie save some threads, and have "received my assignments." But I really want to say something here:

Posts about things that happened 6 or 7 years ago, pictures from concerts and after-parties, fan reviews of Galas, etc. are nice. But what makes Claymaniacs unique from all the other boards is not our posts and our pics. The boards overlap and share info anyway. We're different because of our members, and the relationships we have with one another. If we can save some (or most) of our history, that's great. But I think that what's important is that we get the word out on our new board, whether it's the New & Improved Claymaniacs, Claymaniacs Rising from the Ashes, or Claymaniacs Survived You Suspicious Minds.

We are what's important here: the members, the mods, Michael... Claymaniacs. Be sure you have some email addresses, phone numbers, or some way to reach other board members, so we can all meet at the new house and rebuild or start again. I'll see y'all there! :ghug

:yeahthat :cmrox :kumbi  Moonshot...let me know...ready to do my 'homework'... :bigsmile


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 16, 2010, 08:02:08 PM
I have offered to help Moonie save some threads, and have "received my assignments." But I really want to say something here:

Posts about things that happened 6 or 7 years ago, pictures from concerts and after-parties, fan reviews of Galas, etc. are nice. But what makes Claymaniacs unique from all the other boards is not our posts and our pics. The boards overlap and share info anyway. We're different because of our members, and the relationships we have with one another.

If we can save some (or most) of our history, that's great. But I think that what's important is that we get the word out on our new board, whether it's the New & Improved Claymaniacs, Claymaniacs Rising from the Ashes, or Claymaniacs Survived You Suspicious Minds.

We are what's important here: the members, the mods, Michael... Claymaniacs. Be sure you have some email addresses, phone numbers, or some way to reach other board members, so we can all meet at the new house and rebuild or start again. I'll see y'all there! :ghug

Sunny, you are so right -- it is all the special people here that make Claymaniacs the great place it is.  We will rise up from the ashes.





Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Tiffany on March 16, 2010, 08:10:11 PM
THank you Sunny!!! :clap :notworthy I totally agree with you. That's what I said that the most important thing all the people here. We will still have each other even if we have to move to a new home. Love you guys. :bighug

I'm not worried. Thanks to everyone though who are saving a lot of stuff and to Michael for his hard work.

Gwenn-Again Be thinking about you and Barry tomorrow. :hugg My prayers are with you both. :pray Let us know as soon as you can how he is.

Micki-Good luck with the move.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 17, 2010, 04:38:29 AM
I AM UP EARLY.  I SEE WE ARE STILL HERE. 

THANKS TO ALL AGAIN.  BARRY DID SLEEP SOME.  I AM GONNA SHOWER AND GET HIS THINGS TOGETHER.  ONLY TAKING TOOTH BRUSH AND PASTE AND A ROBE.  I SEE NO NEED TO TAKE ANYTHING ELSE.  HE DOESN'T NEED ANY HAIR STUFF. :bigsmile  HE CAN LIVE WITHOUT A SHAVE FOR A DAY OR SO.

THERE IS SO MUCH EXCITEMENT ON CV ABOUT RENO.  IF ANYONE HERE IS GETTING TIX TOMORROW, GOOD LUCK.  FOR THE FIRST TINE I CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT CLAY IS NOT ON MY HEAD RIGHT NOW.

SUNNY--YOUR POST SAID IT ALL.   :hugg

THE SUN IS OUT.  I AM SO READY FOR THIS.  BARRY IS NOT SCARED.  GOOD THING.

TALK LATER I HOPE.  SOMEONE SEND ME AN EMAIL IF WE ARE ON THE ALTERNATE SITE.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 17, 2010, 07:21:38 AM
I'll be with ya, Gwenn, in thoughts and prayer.  All will be well. :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on March 17, 2010, 09:00:26 AM
Gwenn~ My thoughts & prayers are with you and Barry today.

The surgery is probably over by now, so I am hoping that all went well.

Will check later this evening(if we are still here) to see how Barry is doing.

Marilyn~ so sorry to hear about all your problems after getting home from such a wonderful weekend.

Many  :hugg . I was also wondering how your leg is.

Thanks to all who are working so hard on getting us moved...You are appreciated a lot. :bighug



Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: lorilovesgolf on March 17, 2010, 09:16:45 AM
Gwenn - Prayers to Barry for a successful surgery!!!   :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayfannj on March 17, 2010, 09:58:27 AM
Ditto to what Sunny said..She not only is funny, but has her priorities in the right order.. :hugg

As for Gwenn,  I am still waiting to hear from her. She will call me when he is in surgery.  I'll post as soon as she does..Sometimes you get in there and could be bumped to a later time. Especially when dealing with a neurosurgeon...All I know this will be a grueling day for her...The support from everybody is truly heartwarming!! 

Any word about how  Micki has fared???


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 17, 2010, 10:23:46 AM
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Ditto to what Sunny said..She not only is funny, but has her priorities in the right order..


So true, MARION!  SUNNY has a way of saying what is usually also on my mind, but in a much, much better manner than I ever could!  Plus she has more courage than I will ever have to tell it like it is!!!  :lol

MARION, Thanks in advance for keeping us updated on Barry's surgery.  :hugg I'm sure Gwenn is going through a rough time right now.  I'm so glad that she has friends like you and especially her daughter to be with her at this time.

Just a bit of good news.....My DIL (younger son's wife) has just accepted an excellent position with an international non-profit agency in D.C.  After months and months of prayer and nail-biting,  finally my son and DIL are both gainfully employed and can now FINALLY move on with their lives, hopes and dreams.  This coming Sunday is their 1st anniversary...and what a tough first year it has been for them! 


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on March 17, 2010, 11:50:49 AM
Suereu is here...just joined...a fabulous Clay fan...and dear heart!   I just wanted to let everyone know...in case you are still reading this thread!...Absolutely amazing montage creator...and just a super person...yeah Suereu!

BTW...I've saved just about this entire current CM thread...only a few more pages to go...


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 17, 2010, 12:44:18 PM
Thank you, JOANN!  And welcome to SUERU.  It's so great to have such talent around here!   :clap


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayfannj on March 17, 2010, 12:56:01 PM
I just heard from Gwenn. Barry is through the surgery. He did very well and will be in the recovery room for several hours. She will fill in on all the details.

Such happy news for you, Thea. You can rest easier now and of course be very proud of the young couple.!! :cheer :cheer


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 17, 2010, 01:32:44 PM
Thanks for the update, MARION!  So happy and relieved the surgery went well.  That is wonderful, welcome news indeed!   :purpbana  I hope GWENN's holding up OK, too!   :cross

And thanks for sharing in our relief and happiness over this latest event.  I know you understand all too well how we never stop worrying about our kids.   :hugg



Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 17, 2010, 01:35:01 PM
BTW, since I am having trouble logging on to the Claymaniacs alternate site, I may have to disappear once this site is down.  As soon as the dust settles, I'll get in contact with MICHELLE regarding my login problems.  Right now my problem is insignificant compared to what she, MICHAEL and others are going through with this mess. 


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 17, 2010, 02:13:54 PM
I AM IN THE FAMILY WAITING ROOM.  BEEN HERE ALL DAY.  WELL, SINCE NOON.  ANYWAY, WE ARE WAITING TO GET TO SEE BARRY.  THE DOCTOR SAID HE CAME THROUGH SURGERY FINE.  THAT ONE DISK WAS A MESS AND HAD TO BE TRIMMED AS WELL AS TAKING OUT THE LAMMINA BONES. SO, I AM RELIEVED BUT WON'T BE FINE UNTIL I SEE AND TALK TO HIM. 

YOUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS HELPED A LOT.  MORE LATER.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mrs. c. on March 17, 2010, 02:17:42 PM
Gwenn, wonderful news!!! :clap


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Post by: Pepe on March 17, 2010, 02:19:22 PM
THEA, just read your post about your DIL.  How wonderful she has found employment.  I know thru your posts they have had a really tough time of it and the first year they have been married to have to go thru all of this.  Hope they enjoy their new positions and just have a wonderful  year ahead of them.  They will appreciate everything that much more I am sure.


Checking in on Barry. So happy everything has gone well.  If I was closer I would have a nice dinner waiting for Gwenn when she got home from the hospital.



Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 17, 2010, 03:15:33 PM
GWENN, so happy to see you checking in!  :hugg We're pulling for Barry that this surgery was a complete success!!! 

PEPE, thank you for your kind words of support for my "kids".  They have certainly learned a lot about life this past year and are grateful to hopefully move on to enjoy life a bit more.  I know that once they get settled and back on their feet financially they are hoping so much to start a family.  Of course Phil and I are hoping for that, as well!   :bigsmile

BTW, PEPE, I'm so in awe of the way you are coping with all of your health problems.  Please know that I continue to hope and pray that you will be able to stay strong and positive.  :comfort 

I am off to cook supper.  Since we ate corned beef/cabbage/carrots/potatoes at a restaurant yesterday, this evening we're having some grilled chicken.  It's absolutely a perfect day to grill outside!!!  :bouncy


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Post by: clayharmony on March 17, 2010, 04:42:14 PM
So very glad we've heard the good news from you Gwenn...continuing to send you all my prayers...and while I'm at it, may I also ask for prayers for my sister and brother in law...we completed a round of doctor's visits yesterday...

...a little context, they have undergone huge life stressors in the last couple of years...they lost their house after my brother in law was dismissed from his job (which happened within two days of his returning to work after his dad died)...and then the law suit that he filed failed to bring financial compensation...they were overdue on their physicals ...it had been two years...

On the way to these appointments, my sister mentioned three new symptoms...she has several health concerns...heart palpitations, a couple of instances where it was difficult for her to talk...her tongue seemed thick...and difficulty catching her breath with a hearty laugh.  This was all news to me...and after we completed seeing the doctor...who happens to be very thorough...he was checking my brother in laws EKG...and noticed a significant change...his heartbeat is erratic...goes from 70 to 120...and used the term atrial fribulation...sp? ...his heart doesn't compress properly... my brother in law had been dismissing being short of breath in some instances...and some dizziness...and he didn't realize how off his pulse was.  We had to immediately leave for a cardiac consult...and he was given an echo test...more tests to follow...and put on comidin...sp? asap.  Our primary physician told not to drive over to this cardiac specialist...but my sister let him drive home...over an hour on the freeway...go figure! 

My brother in law has always been on hand to help our family...he's quite the traditional male...macho...and all that that means...for the first time I saw real vulnerability...after he first got the news...then the macho shield came right back up within an hour or so...

Neither of them realize how serious this diagnosis is...or the full impact of my sister's recent symptoms...golly...a sobering day for sure...glad to have had the chance to share it with you all...my Clay fan family...especially since I can not speak to the significance of all of this news with them or their daughters.



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Post by: fhmmany2 on March 17, 2010, 05:22:53 PM
 :clap :clap :clap for Thea's DIL and for GWENN's hubby. I've just gone to the Juke Box Tour Thread and saved my Meet and Greet Threads to my computer. If you do not know how to do this, or if you do not have room on your computer, please p.m. me and I will save a special thread for you - just give me the name of the thread and where it can be located.


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Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 17, 2010, 05:24:50 PM
Gwenn - So glad Barry came through the surgery well.  Prayers and best wishes will stay with him as he goes through his recovery.

Thea - Great news about your DIL.  Just look at it this way,  they have survived a difficult first year so they have a strong foundation to be able to handle the many things that life hands us.

Johanna - my prayers and best wishes to your sister and BIL.  I worked with a man that had atrial fibralation and he refused to take coumadin.  After trying several medications without complete success, he heard about some type of surgery being done in SC and had the operation.  That was several years ago and I still see him from time to time and he is doing great.  His son had the same problem in his early 40s and had the same surgery.  I hope your BIL follows through on this and listens to the doctors because it is treatable.




Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 17, 2010, 05:37:08 PM
Yay for Barry and Gwenn!! :bouncy :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 17, 2010, 05:46:22 PM
VERY QUICK SINCE LOUIE WANTS MY ATTENTION. :bang :bang :bang  BARRY WAS FINE.  ALREADY ANNOYING.  GOING TO BED.  WILL SEE YA TOMORROW.

GWENN


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Post by: clayharmony on March 17, 2010, 05:59:51 PM
Thank you Barb for your kind concern and helpful understanding of what can be done...what I read on the net wasn't encouraging...so I really, really appreciate knowing something can be done... :hugg

Thea...congrats on your DIL's great news...forgot to include that in my earlier post, sorry.

And...Micki...hope you are doing well...thinking of you.


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Post by: claydevotee on March 17, 2010, 06:02:47 PM
So good to see all of these posts over here on CM!

GWENN, so happy to hear that Barry's back to being "ANNOYING"!   :clap  :lol  Now tell Louie and Sammie they will have to take a back seat to their daddy Barry for the time being!!!

JOHANNA, I am so sorry to hear about both your sister and BIL?  It seems that when it rains, it pours.  I'm so hoping and praying that these heart conditions can be straightened out with meds or some simple procedure.  BTW, they are so fortunate to have somebody so loving and caring as you in their corner.   :hugg

BARBARA, thank you for your kind comments about my son and DIL. :hugg  Yes, you are so right about all of these problems strengthening their relationship.  I can tell just by the conversations I've had with them over the past several months that they have grown even closer and more devoted to one another.

FRANKIE, thank you so much for your good wishes, too.  And thank you and all of the others for all of the hard work you have been doing to prepare the transfer of  some of the threads over to our future home.  :hugg

Well, since I'm a glutton for punishment, I think I'm going to watch  the AI Results show tonight!   :bduh :lol


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 18, 2010, 04:34:58 AM
MORNING--

THANKS AGAIN FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT.  I AM  GONNA CALL THE NURSE'S STATION SHORTLY TO SEE HOW HE DID.

THEA--I FORGOT TO CONGRATULATE YOUR FAMILY ON THE JOB.  GREAT NEWS.

THANKS TO ALL WHO ARE DILIGENTLY WORKING ON SAVING OUR STUFF.  I JUST CAN'T HELP RIGHT NOW.

I WISH THERE WOULD BE A FINDING OF A CONCERT AROUND HERE.  THAT WOULD BE AMAZING.

GOTTA GET STARTED HERE.  BEFORE I LEAVE FOR THE HOSPITAL I NEED TO DO SOME STUFF AND WALK THE DOGS. 

THANKS AGAIN.

GWENN


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Post by: mimi on March 18, 2010, 06:18:00 AM
It was good news coming here and finding that Barry did well in surgery..Now the work for Gwenn will begin,but I have no doubt she will be an excellent nurse.

Congratulations to Thea, that is such great news..It is very fortunate for anyone to find employment nowdays,with the economy in the shape its in right now, so I know you are all very happy.

Did Mikki get moved? Has anyone heard from her? I hope that everything went smoothly for her

Thanks again for all that are working so diligently, in getting us ready to move.

Just a short report on Ruth. She got the report back from the biopsy on the removed leg..The growth was 75% dead,and 25% still active, and the Dr said, that the chemo had helped to some extent. The Dr assured them that she had made the right decision in removing the leg.
She is doing very well in rehab, is eating good, and is hopping all over the place..Moose said she is getting up and going to rehab on her own,without any assistance.
This is all wonderful news,and if she continues to do well has a release date to go home of the 25th.

Good news all the way around .It would be great if there wasn't all the problems with the Board. 
We've just had a wonderful concert,and news of upcoming concerts,and the PBS special to look forword too so its a shame that we had this bump in the road, but I'm sure that everything will work out.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on March 18, 2010, 06:24:52 AM
Johanna~ I am sorry, it is not exactly good news all the way around.. So sorry to hear about your BIL. What did they finally decide was your sisters problem?  I will be thinking and praying for them, but let us know how they are both doing.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 18, 2010, 07:29:01 AM
Good morning.  Off to the health club in a few.  Getting addicted to exercise is the first good thing I've done for myself in a very long time!

GWENN, hope Barry continues to recuperate well.  Try to grab some sleep, OK?  And thanks for the congrats...I know you had already left me a big "Mazel Tov" on FB.   :hugg

MARLENE, hooray for Ruth!   :cheer  What an amazing, resilient and courageous woman she is.  And thanks...yup, in this economy getting a decent job is something to cheer about, for sure!  I'm just so grateful that the newlyweds are finally catching some breaks. 

I would like to be able to save The Pet Thread, which I started so many years ago right before Clay's first tour;  unfortunately I'm clueless as to how to go about this.  I tried saving a couple of pages last night, and nearly pulled my hair out, so I guess that's that for The Pet Thread.  I plan to start up a Pet Thread, Pt. II on the new website!

Gotta go.....I need to work off the Culver's strawberry sundae I had last night at 9:00.  Phil is all too willing to go out on these late evening "missions of mercy".  :naughty



 


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 18, 2010, 08:05:55 AM
OMG---BARRY IS COMING HOME!!!!!!!!!!!  HONESTLY I WANTED ANOTHER DAY, BUT THEY ARE SENDING HIM HOME.  I AM SCARED TO DEATH.  THANK GOD MEGAN---ER'S BEST FRIEND IS A NEURO NURSE.  SHE TOLD ME HE WOULD BE HOME TODAY.  AMAZING.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mimi on March 18, 2010, 11:26:55 AM
Did anyone on our board try for tickets to the Reno concert?

The gals at the CV seemed to have had good luck in getting good tickets.

Johanna, Did you get a ticket?

GWENN~ DON'T PANIC...YOU WILL DO JUST FINE.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 18, 2010, 11:46:07 AM
GWENN~ DON'T PANIC...YOU WILL DO JUST FINE.
Yes, you will. Just make sure Barry has lots of sedatives. And split them with him. :wink :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 18, 2010, 02:15:56 PM
THEY DID NOT SEND HIM HOME.  THEY CANNOT SEEM TO MANAGE HIS PAIN.  THE PHYSICAL THERAPIST OVERDID IT THIS MORNING AND NOW HIS MUSCLES AND SCIATIC NERVE ARE REACTING.  THEY WERE SO SORE FROM THE PAIN BEFORE THE SURGERY AND NOW THEY ARE GIVING HIM A LOT OF PAIN.  HE IS BEYOND UPSET AND SO AM I.  I PLAN ON DRINKING A BOTTLE OF WINE AND GOING TO SLEEP.  SEEING HIM IN SO MUCH PAIN STILL BROKE MY HEART.  I CANNOT STAND IT.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome
Post by: JoAnn Moody on March 18, 2010, 02:35:59 PM
Gwenn--So sorry to hear about your husband's pain.   I hope that he starts feeling better as soon as possible.

Mimi---I'm going to Reno!  I tried Ticket Master the moment they opened without any luck.  I just ended up calling the Casino's 800 number 4 hours later and I bought a single ticket Sec.F Row 7 Seat 1.  She said that it is an aisle  seat closet to the stage instead of the wall!  I'm going by myself, so hope to meet many new Clay friends.
JoAnn


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Sundancer on March 18, 2010, 02:45:26 PM
Oh, no, Gwenn!! :doh

I'm so sorry for you both! That's gotta be so frustrating. I hope they can get Barry's pain resolved and send him home tomorrow. :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 18, 2010, 04:56:29 PM
Gwenn - I am so sorry about the latest news on Barry.  Do you think maybe they tried to get him up and in therapy too soon.  Maybe he needs a little longer to recover from the actual surgery and then the therapy would be easier.  Whatever the case, I sure hope you next report is more positive.

The very best wishes to both of you.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Moonshot on March 18, 2010, 06:32:33 PM
Gwenn - :comfort :hugg


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Post by: claydevotee on March 18, 2010, 07:27:19 PM
GWENN, I am so sorry you have this extra problem to deal with.  I'm just wondering....would Barry's insurance cover a few days in an in-house rehabiliation unit?  That would certainly take a huge load off of you.   :comfort


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Post by: Marilyn on March 19, 2010, 05:57:06 AM
Gwenn- I hope Barry feels a helluva lot better today-poor man! Just make sure you get rest yourself!

Busy at work today so I might not be able to stop in.

There is so much to save on this site-7 years of prolific members and Clay did so very much over the years. I sure hope that Michael can give us enough time to save. It really doesnt take up much space on my computer because its like a word doc.

Just VERY time consuming. I finished JNT 2004 this morning at 2:30 !!


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 19, 2010, 06:42:36 AM
MORNING--

WELL, HE WAS PUT BACK ON IV PAIN MEDS AND HE SLEPT THE NIGHT.  I SLEPT FITFULLY.  I SPOKE TO HIS NURSE THIS MORNING AND THEY ARE HAVING A BIG MEETING ABOUT HIM AS WE SPEAK.  HIS DOCTOR ASSURED HIM THEY WILL WORK THIS OUT.  WHEN I SPOKE TO BARRY THIS MORNING, THEY HAD TAKEN THE IV MEDS AWAY AND ARE TRYING ANOTHER COCKTAIL OF MEDS.  PLEASE PRAY THAT THESE WORK.  THE ISSUE SEEMS TO BE THAT THE SCIATIC NERVE IS SO SORE AND INFLAMED FROM ALL THE PRESSURE.  NOW THAT THE PRESSURE IS GONE, IT WILL TAKE TIME FOR THE NERVE TO HEAL.  THE KIND OF MEDS TO HELP INFLAMMATION CAN'T BE USED RIGHT NOW CAUSE THEY ALL CONTAIN BLOOD THINNERS WHICH CAN'T BE USED RIGHT AFTER SURGERY.  HE IS IN A CATCH 22 FIX.

WHEN YOU SEE STATISTICS ABOUT THINGS, THEY HAVE TO BE TAKEN WITH A GRAIN OF SALT.  90% OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE THIS SURGERY GET IMMEDIATE RELIEF.  WELL, BARRY IS IN THE 10% BUT IF YOU ARE IN THAT 10%, IT IS 100% FOR YOU.  AT LEAST HE SLEPT.  I AM PRAYING THAT THE DAY GOES WELL FOR HIM.  I DID MY CRYING LAST NIGHT.  NOW I AM ANGRY AT THAT PHYSICAL THERAPIST.  SHE SUCKS AND CAUSED ALL THIS PAIN.  BELIEVE ME, I WILL FIND OUT WHO HER SUPERVISOR IS AND COMPLAIN BIG TIME.  YOU DON'T MESS WITH THOSE I LOVE.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 19, 2010, 07:15:49 AM
GWENN, just know that I'm thinking of you and Barry today.  :comfort


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 19, 2010, 07:34:23 AM
TRYING TO KEEP MYSELF DISTRACTED.  SO I SAW THIS AT CH--

Quote
okay where is
Clay Aiken and Ruben Studdard
Hampton Beach Casino Ballroom
Hampton Beach, NH
Tue, Aug 10, 2010 08:00 PM

this showed up in my ticketbastard today...

MARION AND I HAVE BEEN SAYING THAT HE COULD DO CASINOS.  NOW HERE IS ANOTHER ONE. 

GWENN


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Post by: Marilyn on March 19, 2010, 08:07:43 AM
TRYING TO KEEP MYSELF DISTRACTED.  SO I SAW THIS AT CH--

Quote
okay where is
Clay Aiken and Ruben Studdard
Hampton Beach Casino Ballroom
Hampton Beach, NH
Tue, Aug 10, 2010 08:00 PM

this showed up in my ticketbastard today...

MARION AND I HAVE BEEN SAYING THAT HE COULD DO CASINOS.  NOW HERE IS ANOTHER ONE. 

GWENN

Hmmmmm-
 
Quote
Starting Location :      Patchogue, NY   
 Ending Location :      Hampton Beach, NH   
 
 Total Travel Estimate:   5 hours 31 minutes   /   292.55 miles   


OR- Take the ferry across LI Sound and:
Quote
Total Travel Estimate:   3 hours 31 minutes   /   199.20 miles


Wanna go, Gwenn??

Actually, we may even get closer venues- like ATLANTIC CITY??
or CT has Mohegan Sun, where he has performed before


And you know how I would love to see Clay perform!! :slick


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 19, 2010, 08:21:04 AM
MARILYN--LET'S TALK WHEN BARRY IS SETTLED.  A BEACH WOULD BE FUN.

GWENN


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Post by: Pepe on March 19, 2010, 11:08:30 AM
GWENN, so very, very sorry about the pain Barry is in.  Bless his heart here he was waiting for this surgery for relief and now he is dealing with someone's stupid mistake.  I couldn't believe they were giving him PT that soon.  I am hoping they can keep Barry comfortable until he heals and hope the surgery is a success for him.



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Post by: Tiffany on March 19, 2010, 11:10:34 AM
There is a NYC date!!! :bouncy Saw this at the OFC.

The Hammerstein Ballroom in NYC, august 11. Clay and Ruben.

not on sale yet

Isn't that place like a club? So hardcore for Clay. :lol Waiting to see if he comes closer but would love to see him in NY too.

JoAnn-Awesome you are going to Reno. Have fun!!!

Wish we could turn back the clock to last Friday. I miss Clay already.

Gwenn-My prayers contunie with Barry and you too. :hugg

This is from Jan. She can't post over here at the moment. PLEASE LET GWENN KNOW THAT I AM PRAYING FOR HER POOR HUBBY WHO IS RECOVERING FROM SURGERY.


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Post by: clayharmony on March 19, 2010, 12:58:43 PM
Sure hope either a CA date or a Las Vegas date comes up...

Okay...I'm in a speculating mood once again - hope this is another good distraction for you Gwenn...sending hugs and prayers

hee...and this one is fun...

I think there is more up with Clay than this special and CD...I think his excitement speaks to several things...and with info I gained from my Stephen Sondheim class...here's a possibility...

Sondheim has a new Broadway musical in the works...perhaps for this Fall...and his musicals are works of genius...IMHO...and require stellar vocals...pitch perfect...etc.  ...for the musically aware among us...the intervals/harmonies are quite unique...in addition to the rich, rapid lyrics...

All right...here's my thought...Sondheim likes to carefully select performers for his works...and he keeps such selections cloaked in secrecy....it is entirely possible that Clay made it for this...and if he did...that is a real triumph...no matter how successful this new one is...Sondheim is truly legendary...so...if I'm correct, you heard first from me...lol lol


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Post by: corbet on March 19, 2010, 01:25:07 PM

        Gwenn,
                         I"m so sorry Barry has not got the relief you were hoping for.

                         Sometimes, I think the doctor"s push patients  a  little too fast,
                         and don't give them much recovery time.Ba rry has suffered pain for a very long
                          time and     maybe not be quite ready for pushing himself to hard.

                              Prayers for him to feel better and prayers for you too. It has been a tremendous
                              strain for you.
                                                                                 Betty :hugg
                                                                       


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: mrs. c. on March 19, 2010, 01:42:28 PM
Gwenn, sending good healing thoughts to both you and Barry :hugg so sorry you are going through this :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: wvclayfan on March 19, 2010, 02:42:25 PM
:hugg Gwenn

And a gentle :hugg for Barry. I hope he sees some relief soon.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 19, 2010, 04:28:53 PM
BARRY IS SO MUCH BETTER.  I JUST SPOKE TO HIM AND HE IS EATING AND DRINKING AND WALKING.  HE MAY COME HOME TOMORROW.  LOTS OF MEDS BUT I DON'T CARE.  I SAW HIM TODAY AND I ALMOST CRIED HE WAS SO MUCH BETTER.

NOW I CAN THINK ABOUT NYC ON AUG. 11.  I AM SO THERE.  TOLD MARION TO PUT IT ON HER CALENDAR. 

ATLANTIC CITY?  COME ON.  WE NEED THAT ALSO.

AGAIN--THANKS FOR ALL THE GOOD WISHES.

GWENN


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Post by: claydevotee on March 19, 2010, 06:55:06 PM
So glad to hear that Barry is feeling better.  As I've said many times in the past....God Bless Pharmaceuticals!!!  :bigsmile

NYC and Atlantic City certainly sounds "doable" to me.  Keeping my fingers crossed that circumstances will allow for a nice gathering there in August!!!!


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayharmony on March 19, 2010, 07:58:55 PM
BARRY IS SO MUCH BETTER.  I JUST SPOKE TO HIM AND HE IS EATING AND DRINKING AND WALKING.  HE MAY COME HOME TOMORROW.  LOTS OF MEDS BUT I DON'T CARE.  I SAW HIM TODAY AND I ALMOST CRIED HE WAS SO MUCH BETTER.

NOW I CAN THINK ABOUT NYC ON AUG. 11.  I AM SO THERE.  TOLD MARION TO PUT IT ON HER CALENDAR. 

ATLANTIC CITY?  COME ON.  WE NEED THAT ALSO.

AGAIN--THANKS FOR ALL THE GOOD WISHES.

GWENN

Delighted to read of your good news that Barry is doing so much better!


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: WilsonClaymate on March 19, 2010, 08:00:41 PM
Gwenn - so glad Barry is feeling better


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: clayfannj on March 19, 2010, 08:31:02 PM
WOOHOO!!!  Clay is coming back to NYC!!!

That venue is walking distance from MACY'S!!! and..Penn Station.....EASY to get to.....soooo....


A SUMMER SOIREE with the GANG would be just fine!!!!


Feels like old times!!!

I bet AC is in the mix as well!!!!


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 20, 2010, 05:52:04 AM
MORNING--

NO NEWS YET.  I SPOKE TO HIM BRIEFLY AND NO ONE HAD BEEN IN YET.  I KNOW IT IS THE WEEKEND.  NO IDEA WHEN THE PT PERSON WILL COME IN.  OR IF ANYONE READ THE MRI THAT WAS DONE LAST NIGHT.  IT COULD BE A LONG DAY.  BEING IN A HOSPITAL ON THE WEEKEND IS NOT THE BEST.  SKELETON STAFF.

SO, I WILL GO HAVE SOME COFFEE.  CALL THE NURSE'S STATION AND SEE WHAT IS WHAT.

AT LEAST THE SUN IS BRIGHT AND THE WEATHER IS WARM.

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: GWENN on March 20, 2010, 07:34:06 AM
BARRY IS COMING HOME.   :bouncy  I AM NERVOUS, BUT I THINK I WILL BE OK.  HIS BEST FRIEND IS PICKING HIM UP FOR ME.  NOW THE FUN BEGINS. :bigsmile :doh

GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 20, 2010, 08:40:51 AM
GWENN, keeping my fingers crossed for a smooth transition for you and Barry at home.  And you're right, it's never good to be in a hospital over the weekend, so it's good he'll be leaving.  Stay positive.  :hugg :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 20, 2010, 08:44:03 AM
BTW, after a glorious week of gorgeous early spring weather in Chicagoland, we now are back into winter.  It's snowing and it's cold out there.   :bang :bang


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Post by: Glory on March 20, 2010, 08:49:33 AM



                                    THEA IF YOU ARE GETTING IT CAN KY BE FAR BEHIND :lol I AM SPOILED IT WAS SO NICE THE PAST FEW DAYS.


                                         GWENN YOU WILL BE FINE. TAKE A DEEP BREATH HAVE A CUP OF TEA.RELAX,BARRY WILL BE FINE, I PRAY EVERYTHING WILL BE GOOD AND WITH NO PAIN.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 20, 2010, 08:59:37 AM
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THEA IF YOU ARE GETTING IT CAN KY BE FAR BEHIND  I AM SPOILED IT WAS SO NICE THE PAST FEW DAYS.

Soon, MS GLORY, very soon!    :bang  :lol

EDIT:  Happy First Day of Spring!!!!!  :bigsmile


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Post by: Marilyn on March 20, 2010, 09:46:42 AM
I am working on saving lots of files, as are many more people who are doing fantastic jobs.

I have to say, when I see a post by luvmyclay at the top of the page, I have to stop and stare at her avi-an gif of Clay at the CD signing for ATWD. He is so ADORABLE  I want to jump into the computer and kiss him all over. You can see that she compliments him and he sort of puts his head down and says "Why thank you". What a hunk

I am so glad that we have time to save so much. 7 years is a lot of chit chat and news and everything.
Does anyone know where the fake wedding of Clay and Lorraine is posted? Julie and everyone were so funny on that I want to make sure it is saved.
Thanks!


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Post by: Marilyn on March 20, 2010, 09:47:13 AM
BARRY IS COMING HOME.   :bouncy  I AM NERVOUS, BUT I THINK I WILL BE OK.  HIS BEST FRIEND IS PICKING HIM UP FOR ME.  NOW THE FUN BEGINS. :bigsmile :doh

GWENN

Lots of hugs to you and Barry!! (gentle ones)


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Post by: Glory on March 20, 2010, 11:03:19 AM



                                              MARILYN IT WAS AT OCD.I WAS A HOOKER :lmaoMAYBE THE 2ND YEAR ON HERE, 7 YEARS WOW LOT TO SAVE HUH. WHEN DID JULIE PASSAWAY I KNOW IT WAS A FEW MONTHS BEFORE THEN


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Post by: GWENN on March 20, 2010, 11:18:41 AM
STILL WAITING FOR BARRY.  HOW MUCH PAPERWORK COULD THERE BE?  GEEZ.  I AM GETTING MORE AND MORE NERVOUS AS THE TIME GOES BY.  MEANTIME, HE AND HIS BEST FRIEND AND WIFE ARE VISITING AWAY.

GOOD THING BILLY IS GETTING HIM.  ER AND GABE WERE SUPPOSED TO TAKE ME TO GET HIM.  SHE CUT HERSELF SO BAD IT TOOK AN HOUR FOR THEM TO GET IT TO STOP BLEEDING.  IF THE CUT IS THAT BAD, I DON'T WANT HER NEAR A HOSPITAL AND ALL THOSE GERMS.  WITH MERSA, ANY OPEN WOUND IS AN ISSUE.  SO, I HAVE THEM RUNNING AROUND DOING ERRANDS. 

I HATE NOT BEING ABLE TO DRIVE.  HATE IT.

GWENN


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Post by: Sundancer on March 20, 2010, 12:39:52 PM

                                              MARILYN IT WAS AT OCD.I WAS A HOOKER
:doh :lol

Only Claymaniacs.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Glory on March 20, 2010, 04:06:04 PM



                                        SUNNY IT WAS AT CLAY AND LORRAINES WEDDING I WAS CHASING THE CAR HALF NEKID IN A SLINKY RED DRESS IF I RECALL. OH LORD THOSE WERE THE DAYS. :lol :lmao :para


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Post by: Pepe on March 20, 2010, 04:38:16 PM
GLORY, those were t he fun days, I would go to bed at night laughing. 


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Post by: clayharmony on March 20, 2010, 09:01:37 PM
Breaking News...3/20/10 8:48 pm
Chris Walden composer-arranger Clay Aiken's album "Tried and True" with lots of big band and strings arranged and conducted by yours truly will be out June 1st.


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Post by: GWENN on March 21, 2010, 05:10:58 AM
MORNING---

EXHAUSTED.  THIS NURSE THING IS HARD ON ME.  HE IS ON TONS OF MEDS AND STILL PRETTY STIFF AND HIS LEGS ARE PRETTY WEAK.  MAYBE IT IS THE MORNING.  I AM A LITTLE SCARED.  BUT WE MADE IT THROUGH NIGHT 1 AND HE SLEPT.  MAYBE TOO WELL IN ONE SPOT.

WONDERFUL REVIEW.  FROM PHILLY YET.  SHOCKING.

http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-2695-American-Idol-Examiner~y2010m3d20-Clay-review?cid=publish_twitter:2695

GOTTA MAKE US COFFEE AND STUFF.

WE NEED PRAYERS HERE.

BIG TIME.

BTW--I HEARD FROM MICKI.  SHE IS SETTLING IN AND HAS COMPUTER ISSUES.  SAYS HI.

GWENN


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Post by: Pepe on March 21, 2010, 05:38:59 AM
GWENN, just read the review, thanks!!  How wonderful, finally a real positive review in writing, I am beyond thrilled!  Glad Barry slept well last night, hopefully after being stiff this morning he will losen up and feel some better this afternoon.  I think the mornings are always the worse when you are sick or after surgery.



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Post by: mrs. c. on March 21, 2010, 05:58:31 AM
Gwenn sending positive healing vibes :hugg What a great review :clap :clap :purpbana


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Glory on March 21, 2010, 06:16:03 AM



                                         WOW WHAT A GREAT REVIEW CLAY SO DESERVES THIS :hugg


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: claydevotee on March 21, 2010, 07:39:49 AM
Loved waking up to such a positive review of Clay's concert, his music and the new direction he is taking in his career.  Let's hope that other critics fall in line behind this one!  Could Clay finally be getting the break he so deserves after all this time?  :please Keeping my fingers crossed, for sure!  :cross

GWENN, so glad you have made it through the first night taking care of Barry.  Praying things will continue to be easier in your household.  And yes, big time prayers are going your way.  I even took the liberty of putting yours and Barry's name on our temple prayer roll the other day.   :hugg

Glad to hear about how MICKI is doing, as well.  I figured with her move she'd be dealing with a temporarily lost internet connection.  Here's hoping she gets online soon.  MICKI, you are missed and loved here!   :hugg

JOHANNA, thanks for the news on a (hopefully) firm date for TNT's release???  :thx

Hi to all.  Home from church today because I'm starting up with yet another cold and didn't want to infect the other members of the congregation.  No biggie, though, that's for sure!!!

Hope everybody here has a wonderful day!  :wave



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Post by: mimi on March 21, 2010, 01:36:37 PM
Gwenn~ Here's hoping that all is well with you and Barry today. Each day will get a lot easier, you can ask Roger he had to deal with ME after I had the knee surgery...I tried my best to be a good girl,and not give him to much grief. :bigsmile He was a wonderful caregiver though ,and we made it through,as I'm sure you & Barry will...Just keep hangin' in there!

I loved the review this morning ,the only word in the whole article I disagreed with was ,shmaltz. Other that that she got it right. Its about time someone wrote a positive article about Clay, and I hope we will be seeing a lot more .

I watched AI for the first time this past week, and I must say I was pretty shocked at the guest( stars?) that they had on to perform. That last one with the TV sets,was pretty weird, and Roger said ",What in the world are you watching". I have to agree with a lot of what Clay said about music today being bad, but did you hear how many albums she had sold... Unbelieveable.

SRING,sprung yesterday,and today it looks like we are in for rain this evening & tomorrow, but never fear its a comin'. It would be nice to have a couple of sunny days in a row.


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Moonshot on March 21, 2010, 02:01:37 PM
Gwenn - Thinking of you and Barry today. :hugg


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Post by: GWENN on March 21, 2010, 04:06:06 PM
I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO POST.  HERE, THERE, EVERYWHERE?

BARRY IS BACK IN BED.  HE IS SO OUT OF IT FROM THE MEDS.  HE DID GET A SHOWER AND SHAVE T DAY.  THANK GOD I THOUGHT OF GETTING A SHOWER CHAIR.  HE CAME DOWN STAIRS FOR THE DAY AND I THINK IT WAS A BIT TOO MUCH FOR ONE DAY.  HIS BROTHER AND WIFE CAME TO SEE HIM AND BROUGHT SUBS FROM ATLANTIC CITY.  BARRY'S FAVORITE FOOD.  HE ATE BUT NOT NEARLY HOW HE USUALLY DOES.  HE DOESN'T WANT TO EAT OR DRINK.  JUST SLEEP.  SO, I AM JUST GIVING HIM MEDS.  HAVING HIM MOVE AROUND.  I CANNOT WAIT UNTIL HE CAN TAKE CELLEBREX AND CAN STOP THE VALIUM.  GEEZ, WHY DO PEOPLE WANT THESE DRUGS?  YOU CAN'T HAVE A LIFE.  ANYWAY, WE ARE ALIVE. 

NURSE GWENN


Title: Re: CM Clay Discussion 33:: Our Main Clay Discussion Thread (All Members Welcome)
Post by: Pepe on March 21, 2010, 04:29:29 PM
NURSE GWENN, sounds like you and your hubby are doing good.  The best thing for Barry probably is sleep and rest.  He probably should have had a long afternoon nap.  I hope you both get a good nights sleep.  And as far as where to post I was just over to the new site and I guess I will stay here to post till they lock this one up.